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keep your dick away

That's the problem though, If she asked me... shit! I don't know if I could turn her down even though I know I'd have to say no!

Jerk off under her pillow, on her toiket seat, in her cereal, etc. That helped me hold off for a while. You can also make up stories about her mom (your mother has had 5 abortions because she hates me...I need you to spread my seed). Also, try to begin urinating in front of her ("its natural for grownups") and if she likes it, continue by pooping and making yourself puke next to her....tell me how it goes.

As much as youd like to fuck her you have taken the position of stepfather. If you split up with her mother then go for it. If you dont be content to wack of over picture and sniff her knickers it worked for me.

you are not a dad if that is your thinking about her. Stay away and do not screw up her life and yours with her mom! fuck her mom more than usual and keep satisfied with a woman with correct age for you! even if this girl asks you to do it that is just not correct. you are married and this girl's father figure

just dont do it and as for the nut jobs with the panty pissing ang other weird thing wow you need help and lots of it or just need to move off the planet

I want someone to jerk off on my pillow....=)

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You don't do anything. You are her father figure. While not her birth father, a sexual relationship with her would be unhealthy.
Your fantasies are okay, but best to leave them that way.
There is nothing wrong with her being an 18 year old virgin, and it is not your "duty" to "help" her out with it either.
She needs to date boys her age, who are not married to her relatives, or married at all.
Please understand I'm not judging you or trying to make you feel guilty, but pursuing her would be detrimental to everyone involved.

wat u need to do is forget about actually f*cking your step daughter and focus all that on your wife. While your f*cking your wife imagine its your step daughter. Actually, f*ck it, Go f*ck the shit out of your step daughter, If she's really a virgin that p*ssies gotta be sooo tight. Get it over with.

Thank you for your comments. They seem to be the most considered and realistic of all the posts so far. I would like to know whether you have any qualifications to back up your opinions. Are you a professional who has dealt with this kind of thing? A dad who's gone through it? A mom who's husband dealt with it? Or maybe a stepdaughter yourself? Do you know if this kind of fantasy is common? Your response would definitely be appreciated.

Castrate yourself.

threesome with wife and stepdaughter hella good fuck. who do you think you are hank hill?

do her before i do. & btw, i'm 69 year old male.

My previous thank you comment was for "fluffy". I believe you have given me some of the best advice so far.
Without wishing to bring down the wrath of all the perverts out there, has anyone ever successfully dealt with this problem? I'm asking this question seriously. Please respond seriously. BTW, where in the world are all of you? USA? UK? Other?

Well No, I have never had the fantasy of f*cking my step daughter (maybe cuz i dont have one, yet) but everyone has fantasies about something that is froaned upon in society, and if u deny it then ur a f*cking liar. So don't worry ur normal, and the answer is No, I have never done that. To answer ur next question, right now I dont live in the USA, UK, or any other country on earth. I am sending this post form Pexuni one of the oldest planets located just outside the nuclear ring of my solar system Megularois, ( you call it galaxy NGC 4314 ), I use the satellite TRACE to reposition my link through E'mia (E'mia is our equivalent to your ISS) and I use the TDRS 6 to access the internet. Hope everything works out for u.

Excuse me, Mr. Pedophile-in-the-making, but there's a wonderful little thing called "masturbatory reconditioning". Look it up.

I saw once you think about her fuck her mom and try not to think about her daughter and fuck her crazy until you can control your desire, trust me you will get through it. but if you still don't divorce your wife and find a woman with no kids trust me it will be for the best. come up with a real good reason though.

After becoming a stepfather at 32 with a stepdaughter just turning 16, I can say that after 10 years my sexual desire for her hasn't faded one bit. It continues to increase actually as I watch her grow up into a kind, sweet and shapely woman. I really have to be aware of my feelings for her and not let them get out of hand. Doing her mom with her in mind has always made for great sex which has been a plus and after all these years that's how I've managed it.

It's a tough situation I must say. I am myself in a very smiliar situation. However, I am closer in age to my stepdaughter then to my Mrs. SOunds odd, but that's the way it is. My "stepdaughter" just tunrned 18 and she's a very good looking young woman, and YES, I do have "inpure thoughts" about her. But will I ever do anything for these thoughts to become reality? NO, however nice it would be, it's not right. You have alot of qualified answers to your problem and I am not going to try and give you any advice. Just to let you know that it's nothing wrong with you, don't feel bad (I know, sometimes you can't help feeling BAAAAAD). Just leave it to your own fantasies and keep her there...

I am having the same problem with fantasies about my stepdaughter. She loves to tease and I'm sure not just me. Showing me her camel toe. Jumping on me and squealing with delight as she wraps her legs soooo tightly. As she is about to give me a kiss on the cheek, she passes her lips oh so close to mine before delicately pecking my cheek. Showing me the new panties I just bought for her. It goes on and on. I love it but it drives me insane. She has the most incredidible body (I am still waiting to see all of it) since she has developed into a fox. She can manipulate me soooo easily, I hate myself. I fantasise about her almost all the time and I'm sure all the boys at school do too. Yes I check her undies and we love to go undie shopping together. Her mother hates her. I think I know why. I am finding it more and more difficult to deal with my feelings. I write long stories to her about all the things I would like to do and then delete. I found a list in her room of all the times I have touched her perfect backside. I tore it up and threw it away. I fantasise about her when I am screwing her mother. Her mother and she both know my feelings and the girl uses that to manipulate me even more. It is really driving me nuts, especially my nuts.

Hi confuseddad,

I am in a similar situation only, I'm at the opposite end. My partner is sexually attracted to his ex-wife's daughter and he has openly admitted to me that he fantasises about her.

I don't judge him for having fantasies however, because he would actually love to "do" who he considers his daughter, it's hard for me to come to terms with.

As far as I know, he's never had sex with her however, there's times when my instincts beg to differ.

Alot of pain will be caused if you ever share this secret of yours with anyone. Best to keep it a fantasy and to keep it to yourself.

Another thing, do you really think your step-daughter would ask you to take her virginity, or it that wishful thinking on your part?

I was in a simular situation. Was even jealous of the boys she brought around. I know one night she thought I was a sleep and her and her BF had sex in the next room with the door open. Man did I want to go out and join them.

Hearing the bed squeek, their bodies slapping, and the moans from her drove me nuts. I laid there listening intently wanking myself off. I wanted so bad to get up and tell him to ram her for me. Then was the great time I could her her coming, then him saying he was, then I felt my own balls stirring. The 3 of us came at the same time.

A couple months later her and I takled abit about it. (She had split up with him and was seeing a new guy.) She did French kiss me but that is as far as we went, she told me she considered me a sher dad and that's as far as it could go!

Dude, I know exactly where you are comming from. I am having a really hard time myself. I am a bit younger than my girlfriend of 8 years, and closer in age to her daughter who just graduated. We have 2 kids of our own together, and somehow I started feeling attracted to my "step-daughter" around the time she turned 16. For 2 years now, I have found myself doing rather odd things, like peeking into her window at night. I have tried so hard to convince myself that its just some silly infatuation, or bad obsession. . . about a month ago I realized that there were no other options left, as much as I tried to fight it, I fell in love with her. Now I have tried to keep everything quiet, and I doubt she has any attraction to me, (mostly because I have sabbotaged any chance I might have had hiding my feelings). To make matters worse, I think I may have fallen out of love with her mom. I still care about her, and our family, but if my girlfriend wanted to end it, I would be o.k. I geuss my only advice, comming from someone living it for over 2 years, don't fall in love with her if you can help it. If you are like me, where it is almost like MPD, (where half of you wants to be her dad, the other her lover, and they both want to find a way to win.) and if you think she can handle it, maybe tell her. The hardest part of this whole ordeal for me has been I never told anybody till now. Why you? The only other person I think might understand.
I am sorry if I wasn't helpful.

I hope her mum is laying there thinking about some 25 year old spunk she works with (who's big cock works first time every time) when she's having sex with you. Same for those of you who suggest that he should use his wife's body to practically masterbate over her daughter (if you have anyone to have sex with that is, otherwise I hope you're hand wishes you were someone else).

confuseddad,, you still out there? Reply if you are!

I am confuseddad. Forgot the old login but this is me. I'm still attracted to her. She's 17 and a half now and as gorgeous as ever. I haven't done anything to her and still do not actually wish to. I just can't stop thinking about her. She still does not have a boyfriend and is still a virgin to the best of my knowledge. I still don't know what to do.

As the stepdad to a very smoking hot 20 yr old. who has been in a loving relationship with both the mother and the daughter for over 2yrs now, I can tell you from experience that there are those women out there who aren't totally against this kind of thing.
My stepdaughter did aproach me first about this thing. I had wanted her for soo long. She would do things like walk around the house nude when she knew it was just us in the house. I thought about it alot and I tried like hell to fight my feelings. But in the end the animalistic side won out. Mostly because my steddaughter was begging me to do her in the shower. She busted in on me in the middle of my shower.
Afterward, I felt really bad like I was some kind of sick pervert who took advantage of her,or something. Then, I realized that she came on to me.
when her mom found out I thought she would be furious. She walked in on me and her daughter in the middle of doing something.
At first she looked hurt then after about 20 minutes she asked us how it began and what had transpired, in the end I wound up doing them both that night and have enjoyed them both ever since.
My wife and my stepdaughter both love me very much and I love them very much. Sure, there are some rough times just like any other relationship but that's how it goes.
In conclusion, I would tell you that unless your daughter approches you with this thing then you should just let it be. If she ain't into you and doin it with you then you will wind up all alone.
But you really should wait till she is of age to do anything. Then it is not illegal and you arent haveing sex with a minor

jstheguy - leaving aside the frivolous comments you've had let me tell you that I'm about 6 years older than you and my step-daughter is about 7 years older than yours. You are not alone and should not feel awkward about your fantasies. I have been in love with my step-daughter for about 4 years now and, like you, had a tough time dealing with it. It's the way nature works! It's our human-ness that makes us have to cope with it. Just don't do anything that's going to hurt her or your wife. The comment about focussing on your wife is very much the best way to deal with your situation. I wish you luck pal - I know what you're going through. If there is a God - he's laughing his sides out at the way we work! It's all part of inheriting a ready-made family. I know two other people in precisely the same boat as us and none of us has an easy time dealing with it. You can show your love for your step-daughter best by spoiling her on birthdays and Christmases etc. Just don't blow the whole deal because you'll never get over the fallout. Take care chum!

Wow.
I can't believe I came across this.
My stepdaughter has turned 18. She has been my step for 10 years. The last 3 years our relationship has been really strained untill 6 months ago when I realized what was wrong. I was in love with her. Sexually attracted, totally want to be with her, when I wake up in the morning she is the first thing I think of....When we are in the same room I cannot take my eyes off her. My heart aches. I am depressed, afraid, embarresed, and totally cannot talk to anyone about this. I did come across a book "The Measure of a Man" by Shapiro. There is only one page but the auther mentions that it is not uncommon for dads to find their stepdaughters more atractive than the mother. But it does not elaberate.
I fantacize about her. I do not want to have a 'relation with her' I just fantacize about holding her and caressing her. I do fantacize about her body. Yes I have picked throught her bedroom door and saw her naked. My heart was beating so hard I thought I was going to pass out. I have never felt about a woman what I am feeling with her. Not even when I was 18 and had hot 18 year old girls.
Thanks for listening and let me say this to someone. Some comments above where very helpful. The vulager comments from people about how sick we are, are not helpful.
I hope more people comment. I will come back. very nerous about posting this.

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This is what I do. I touch her as she sleeps. I rub my cock on her face. I jerk off to her face when I am holding it just inces away from her. I sniff her knickers, and play with her bra. I "joke" around with her and spank her. I walk in on her getting dressed and in the shower.

i know how you feel. I am a step father also. I will call my stepdaughter s, i was 25 when i married her mom and she was 4, she is now 30, and i have watched her grow up. When s was about 13/14 she had the cutiest little ass, and now she has i very nice ass. ever since she became a teen and started taking shape, i have dreamed of fucking her and i still to this day would love to sink my cock in her. Some time i think she would like to fuck me as bad as i would her, just by some of the things she says and the way she hugs me and rubs up against me. When she has to stop by the house and she knows her mom is not going to be here she wear something every time that get me all worked up, she will wera like low cut jeans and a small top, her thong string showing out the top of the pants and she bend over so and makes sure that i can see the thong and her butt crack, or she will wear a really short skirt and bend over so i can see her sweet made ass. Ever time she leaves i have to jack off. I want to fuck her so bad that when her maother and i fuck i can see every time and have come real close to calling her s. So i understand how you feel. If s would ever make a move or give a strong hint that she wanted me to fuck her i would, i know i shouldnt but i am a man and if she want my cock in her then in her it shall be. I think someday soon if she keep coming over and showing her ass to me i am going to ask if she is showing me for a reason and if she says yes, then i will ask her if she is wanting me to fuck her.

I'am currently in the same postion as some of the above posters. I have a sixteen year old Stepdaughter that i'am attracted too I'am in my early thirties. While i really want to be her Father i can't stop my feelings for her. My feelings are not of just wanting to "bang" her i really love her as a Father and more and these two feelings are eating at me. She really pulls at my strings by innocent flirting and for some reason she always comes in my room and goes to sleep in my bed. One night i put my arm around her and a few minutes latter she removed it. Then one night she turns her backside to me and puts her rear right against my front side.
Since i travel for business all the time I'am only home on weekends and her Mother is usually studying and falls asleep in another room is it that she is just trying to spend time with me as her Father? Sometimes i feel like i need to LAY DOWN THE LAW and tell her to sleep in her room and not mine! but, i truly enjoy our conversations and time together.
I'am with you confussed Dad....Just really confussed.

I think its just cause she is young and you find that hot but you cant just have sex with a miner. look if it comes down to it find an 18year old and im not kiding its beter than having sex with a 16 yearold just try not to fuck up your life

Hi confuseddad,
I married my wife when I was 25 and she was 32 then...she's single mom to a 4-yr old girl. I was there when my stepdaughter grew up and now she's in her 20's. Yes, I started fantasizing her when she was 14. I knew that was wrong so I corrected my thoughts and focused on supporting her and her mom. I was able to give my wife any baby and my attention was focused on her daughter which I considered as my own. My daughter and I has this love-hate relationship because she's more at home with her mom. My wife died just last year and I took her to a dorm to continue her studies. Lately, I finds myself attracted to her and wanting to be with her always. I fell bad everytime we had an argument and wanting to leave her but I can't do it. I hate myself as well.

I let her ride with me on a motorbike and it really feels good when she holds me. I don't want to end every moment when I am with her. She sometimes go to my room to do her school research and I always take my camera phone and capture her on film. Lately, she's disgusted of me taking her pictures and videos and I am upset. I let her know that sometimes I feel upset when she doesn't weant to inform me her whereabouts.

She's a very sophisticated young woman, no interests in boys as of this moment and wanting to finish her studies. I want to be with her always... I want to give her everything she wants... I decided that she doesn't stay with me in one house because I don't know what will I do if we're staying in the same house. I tried to avoid thoughts of doing it with her but I am just a weak person.

Sometimes, I find myself fantasizing her in my bed... I saw her naked one time when I walked into our room and she's in front of the dresser all naked. She was shocked and hid herself with a blanket and I went out of the room feeling bad. I peeked on her before but felt bad again afterwards. I am with you, confuseddad... I just don't know what to do. Now, we're planning to move together someplace near her school because the company where she works part-time closed and she doesn't have any resources on her own. I am planning to get her live with me in the same house. I feel excited about it but the other half of me is scared. My question is "Is it okay to fall in love with her? and if it's okay, will she actually love me back with the same love I have for her?

Confuseddad, we're in the same boat...by the way, I am located here in the Philippines. Hope you can cope up with what ever struggles you're in right now. I am trying to with mine. More power to you!

erratum: I was NOT able to give my wife any child that I can call my own...

where to start?

i am glad to have found this post. i have been trying to find others who may be experiencing my situation. if someone chooses to reply to my posting, please do not make matters worse by throwing judgemental darts at me and others like me. it is counter-productive and unhelpful. i am simply trying to understand and deal with this aspect of being human.

i have a step-daughter that i inherited when i met her mother about 14 years ago. she was about 4. she is now 18 and we (my wife and i) just sent her off to college for the first time. the process brought many feelings to the surface which i did not know were there. hence, my seeking information about others.

for the last several months, our relationship has been strained at times and i could not understand why. as her departure date got closer, i became aware of this tremendous sense of loss. at first, i thought the problem was just that i was sexually attracted to her and this was causing friction. however, within a few weeks of her departure, i realised at least part of the cause: i had fallen in love with her and saw her departure as a rejection - which it may well be.

one of the recurring problems i face (and others, apparently) is that i really, really, really want to be the one to introduce her to the pleasures of the body (i am 99.9% certain she is virgin). at first, i thought it was just that she was young and hot looking (an 8 physically and a 9 with everything added together) and i was just your typical horny guy. but i am beginning to conclude that there is more to it because when i think about some other guy getting that honor (undeservedly, imho), i get very depressed. i imagine that i will be not-so-nice to any guys she may bring home (so far, she has not dated at all) because one of them might get there before me. i have no problem with other guys coming along after, but not before. they do not deserve it nor can they appreciate it. i am the one who has raised her and sheltered her and taught her some of life's lessons - not him. they (the other guys) can f*ck her all they want, but only after i get the opportunity to introduce her to the fun and pleasurable expreiences of sex first.

i know that some who read this will think, "that guy is really sick and perverted" or "he should be castrated" or "recondition him" as some have suggested above. but i think that a happy and healthy sex life is too important to stumble your way into with some rookie who is more interested in getting his rocks off than pleasing his partner. how many people out there have had rotten and unfulfilling sex for decades only to find out that there could have been so much more? do they not regret the wasted years? i do not want her to suffer that fate. life is too short. we should enjoy as much as we can for as long as we can.

i also have a profoundly strong love for her. when i think about having sex with her, it is with tenderness.

i have done the naked thing and the panty thing and the fantasy-during-sex-with-my-wife thing, but none of that has erased the overwhelming desire to be her first lover (really her second, since she is her first lover). it will probably never happen (the thought depresses me), but if it does, it will be because she and i both decide it will happen. she knows how i feel (my wife does not as far as i know) and currently is content to put the decision off to the future, but we still flirt with each other.

i am not so much confused by these feelings as unsure what to do about them. as stated, i have a very strong desire to be her first lover and i am not sure how i will respond if that does not happen. will i get severely depressed? will i become angry? redirection has not solved the dilemma and i cannot expect that it will go away on it's own.

I had a seven year mastubation relationship with a stepdaughter.We both were sexually crazed for one another, but because of our love for her mother we never indulged in intercourse.It began when she was about 23 and lasted until she was 30. It did not stop when she married,but we did cease when she became pregnant by her husband.The sex between us wes extremely intense and fantastically hot even though we were not touching or doing intercourse.I wrote scores of letters to her,took scores of pictures of my cock with my Poloroid for her,purchased sex toys for her and videos(VHS)involoving incest.All were left for her where she could find them and I know she indulged in all of these gifts.I miss the sex we had terribly,but I know that a chance like this only comes along once or twice in life.It did for me-I was alson involved with her older sister for about two years.Same relationship-only masturbation,pictures,toys,videos,letters,etc.

OMG so like how woud she know u feel like that? i wish my stepdad felt like that for me cuz i gotta huge crush on him but i dont know what to do :(

It is nice to know that I am not the only one who has this fantasy. My step daughter ( who doesn't live with us and is still a virgin) turns 18 in April.

What makes this worse is my wife constantly remarking how big my step daughters tits are ( 36-D). I really want to see them.

I keep fantasizing she will come to visit next fall and that the two of us are alone in the house. She then goes to take a shower, and I go in on the premise that I have to go pee.
I then mention how her mom keeps saying how big her tits are, and could I see them to verify. Well she agrees and then one thing leads to another and before I know it we are having sex.

Maybe if she visits sooner, I can "steal " one of her bras, and a pair of her panties and masterbate with them since I know having sex with her is morally wrong. However, if she is 18 and is consenting I don't see a problem with it.

What should I do about these feelings?

Wow...I thought I was alone..My stepdaughter is constantly sitting on my lap and squirming around , she gets me hard and goes crazy on my dick..I won't say any ages but she is young , she has even on occassion , worked my pants down my waist and had my very hard dick out ..she just kinda looks at it , then sits on it and grinds away (clothes on) ..she has grabbed it and pretended it was an accident..and has even jerked it over the covers ..she drives me crazy..i could never have sex with her but this stuff is very very fun..and if she likes it and she isn't being forced or molested, I wonder how it could be considered such a bad taboo thing??....

Well people I am very happy to have read some of these posts!!! It's almost like I wrote them my self. My stepdaughter is 19 years old now and is a beautiful,sexy, smart and very funny woman. However my feelings for her are completely confusing. On the one hand I see her as my daughter. On the other hand I am completely attracted to her.
I am completely terrified of losing my wife,whom I love beyond my ability to express in words. I know that my marriage would be over if my wife found out how I feel. But, that doesnt change my feelings for her daughter. I catch myself watching her eat,sleep,listening to music even watching T.V.
Its good to know Im not alone out here.
I love her as my daughter but want her so bad.

yes i understand what you are going through . but my storys a little differant i hate my step daughters guts she is ignorant and irratating and just a pain in the ass but she is also smokin hot and i think putting off hormones that i cant resist because when ever shes around i feel like my blood pressure is going make my head explode . she wears skimpy little outfits even though i have asked not to wear that sort of thing arround me and makes up reasons she needs me to fix things in her room ( ie computer or roughter ) i a cant take it !! i want her to move out as soon as possible because i love her mother very much and dont want to do anything to hurt my wife but i am weak and i know that if this keeps up ill cave in . i have told my wife about my attraction but not how intence it is she understands and told the girl(18) to wear more clothes and leave me the hell alone but it was no use . i dont want to create a rift betwean them but i dont know what the hell to do to make this madness stop!

i am sorry for ranting but i just found this sight and need to this off my chest .

whats so funny is five years ago she was just another kid for me to joke and make laugh i taught her to drive . but i realy think ihate her more than anything else in the world if any one can help me please do.

ps all you smart asses that are going to offer to take her off my hands leave a phone number i might consider it

The whole invisioning her while having relations with her mom is a bad idea. It's not dealing with the problem it's avoiding it. And in all actuallity it's making it worse. What you need to do is find things that you don't like about her and emphasize those things. Like if she queefs, empasize your distaste for it. I know what your going through. Not exactly. I had a cousin i was the same way with. And the way i moved past it was focusing on her flaws until all the 'cravings' pass. It will take a while, and if it doesn't work, you will need to tell ur wife and have her help you

Avoiding it is a good idea, in my opinion. There are some things that shouldn't be shared with your spouse. I am definitely not one of those who advocates honesty is the best policy - I advocate sparing the feelings of others. I have been envisioning my stepdaughter while having sex with my wife for a year now. She's 14, soon to be 15. Stepdaughter likes her short shorts, her low cut tops, her miniskirts and her bikini. As do I. Once a month like clockwork she hands me her camera to transfer her photos from her camera's disk to another device so she can put them on her computer (too computer illiterate to do it herself). And every once in a while she and the friends will have played dress-up - and I end up masturbating to the photos that I have saved on my hard drive. She and the best friend were in the back yard sunbathing this summer, and I videotaped them for 15 minutes from a second floor window. There's nothing better than when she brings home friends for sleepovers, and it gets to be 10pm and they're running around the house in short-short pajamas. My wife would be devastated to know how hard as a rock my stepdaughter makes me. I haven't told either of them, nor do I intend to. I'll keep it to myself, keep on fantasizing about being between those gorgeous thighs during sex with the spouse, and keep blowing my wad over those fantastic non-nude photos.

Wow! I am surprised at all of the posts on this topic. The majority of the responses have been insightful to how we can behave as men. I first and foremost am extremely nervous about posting this but I will man up and say that I agree that it may be normal for a stepfather to have special feelings for his stepdaughter whether it is sexual in nature or otherwise.

To give a little background, I have been with my wife for 8 years, but we have only been married for 3. She has 4 daughters from a previous marriage and my wife is 8 years older than myself.I am 40. Three out of the four daughters are in their early to mid twenties and all are attractive in their own way. But one in particular I have felt a special bond with.
When this stepdaughter was about 17, I started noticing that she would parade around the house with only a towel after taking a shower and would sometimes make it a point to come sit next to me. I didn't try to think of perverted thoughts and brushed them aside if they did come as just being some typical guy. I noticed she only did this when no one else was around and I would usually find a reason to leave her presence so it wouldn't feel so awkward to me. As time went on, this decreased, so I think maybe it may have been a phase on her part that she had a crush on me even though I doubt that she would ever admit to it.
She moved out at 19 and since I travel frequently, I did not get to see her that much. Or the rest of my family for that matter. I have never been super close with her sisters, but I have loved them as my own trying to guide them as much as a stepfather can. But they all have nice figures and so the thought has crossed my mind once or twice. I freaked myself out just thinking about it. It felt awkward to me. Especially because of the bond I share personality wise with the one.

What brought on this bond was actually an argument that she and I had some years before but it made our relationship stronger. But lately, I have caught myself looking at my stepdaughter in a whole different light. She has since moved back in with us and I just want to stare at that incredible body that she has. One day, I came in to see her at her place of employment after being out of town for a long period of time. She ran over to me, kissed me on the mouth and asked "How are you, handsome?". She referred me as this a couple of times. Now I do not want to be reading into this, but I do not know of any daughters or stepdaughters that do that necessarily. She has also called me "Baby". Again, I do not want to assume anything, however....

One night I met her for a drink at a bar. She and I were talking about life and stuff and at one point she grabbed my hands and held them...but ever so briefly, I could tell it was more like an affectionate hold like handholding between a GF/BF or wife and husband but not as a stepdaughter to a stepfather. We both pulled away, I think thinking the same thing...that that should not have happened. She looked so good that I just wanted to tell her how I really felt about her but I could not. My heart just ached. I feel so weird about all of it. I want to be her father but at the same time I want to be with her. I think it would devastate her that I would even think these thoughts of her. And it would devastate my wife and our marriage. I am sure it would make my other step daughters feel uncomfortable too and cause so many problems internally among them as sisters because they are all very close.
I have come to terms with the fact that I may be in love with her from afar and that is all I can ever do. I will hate it when I hear of guys dating her. I will be extremely jealous and protective. In the meantime, I have been more affectionate with her sisters and making sure that I tell them that I love them when I see them so it does not look so one sided or that I play favorites. I do not think it looked very obvious to begin with, but just in case, I want to cover myself.

My wife can be very jealous and has commented in the past about my relationship with my stepdaughter even when it was completely innocent, so I have to make sure I appease her. Please to all, I love my wife...But lately I have been wanting to go in a different direction, down a path that she doesnt want to go. So part of this makes me think that maybe I am just going through a phase where I think I want a younger woman and that younger woman just happens to be my stepdaughter. I am not sick, perverted, or anything like that. I just struggle with this and am glad that I am not the only male who has encountered this issue.

in some countries it is legal to have sex at 16...

its normal, hell I wish u were my step dad

(The steodaughter point of view) I looked this topic up because I understand this. My mother even when i was 13 accussed me of sleeping with her husband even though i was a virgin at the time and my curves hadnt even made themselves known. but when i was 15 and she found a note from my ex about the night we spent together she told the world to embarrass me. Well she left for work at 6am and my step father didnt leave till after i did. he started coming into my room so we could talk and when he started to lay with me i would press my self against him and then one day urges took over and went down my body and pleased me orally. i was the one who pulled out his c*ck and rode it for the first time. it was so hot our secret affair. i would bring boys home to make him jealous, and the sex only got better god it was amazing! but then after a year the fire was gone, im a woman now and know so much more. Our relationship is still ok because no one ever found out, but it was awful because whenever she would be around he was the "father" and that put a strain on the whole thing.
Unless she makes the first move dont (trust me i threw out signs) and dont you ever tell anyone. you tell her mom its not just you she'll hate. because she could have prevented he feelings etc.
good luck...

It is understandable that as humans we will have a desire for something that is very taboo at some point in our lives. My opinion here is not to judge you or say you are a bad person. The very fact that you are online and researching if it is "normal" proves that you know it is wrong. What is horrible on here in particular is one guy talking about how he loves his daughter so much and he wants to take her virginity as a sign of that love? Are you kidding me? Just because you want to do it in a sensual way does not mean it is out of love for her! If you REALLY loved this girl you would have HER best interest at heart not your selfish desire! It is clear that you have some need for acceptance and you are trying to justify your selfishness and twist it around and lie to yourself that it is in her best interest so she will know what a good sexual experience is? And you are going to keep lying to yourself until one day you actually believe it and act on your desire.
As a father of a young girl it is your responsibility to give your daughter (even if she is not blood related) a healthy self image of herself and teach her what healthy realationships are. She is already going to have men/trust issues based on the fact that her biological father abandoned her, now her step father is teaching her that she is only a sexual object or that she will only be loved and accepted by a man if she is sleeping with him etc... AND you are supposed to be an example to her of what a husband is. You will be teaching her that a husband who sleeps with other women much less his wifes daughter is an acceptable partner and thats what love is. She will be dating/married to someone who will cheat on her and to her that will be normal and ok.
You will ruin her realationship with her mother. If the mom finds out she will likely resent her daughter and even if the mother never finds out the daughter will be guilt stricken by the fact that A: Her stepdad preffers her over her mother and B: She must be a horrible human if she let him act upon it and betrayed her own mother.
You are the main male figure in life, of course she is going to seek acceptance from you and she is finding that you love her more and are nicer to her (maybe not even conciously) when she goes around the house in little outfits shor skirts and no bra. You are conditioning her to act this way and it is her looking for love! Not her looking to get laid by her dad! She doesnt know better. You are teaching her that the only way she will be loved and accepted by men will be through her sexuallity... Honestly you are putting her on the right path if you want her to be a stripper or porn star who goes from one guy to the next, who stays in unhealthy and abusive realtionships with men.
Doing this will have such a negative impact on her self worth, self esteem and self image. If you LOVE her you will stay far away! And if your desire is getting out of control you need to seek professional help to teach you how to manage it properly. You need to be sure that you do not ruin a young girl for the rest of her life.

Hey there Young and Restless,

Now I need YOUR advice!! Out of all these responses yours sounds the best and the most relevant to me. I'm in a dilemma and wanted to ask you what exactly you did to get your step dads attention?

It would help me because, although, I don't have a step daughter, I am close friends with a neighbor who is a single mom and has a 14 year old daughter. I've known them for a few years, and have developed a crush on her daughter. I'm pretty certain that she does NOT look at me romantically because she's into her own friends, and especially boys. I do know, though, that she hangs out with older boys who are a bad influence on her and I think she may have dated a guy who is 23 and developed a crush on a different guy who is 23. So, if you tried to get your step dads attention romantically, what are some of the things that you did, or what are some of the signs that I should be looking for with her? Also, what are some of the things I could be doing, and signs that I could give her that I like her without being too obvious?

I doubt that she has any feelings for me at all because she's mostly not responsive to me, but I'm still just curious for information. Thanks for any advice or feedback that you could give me. If you're comfortable, please email me back at sentosa_tiger@yahoo.com with specifics. Thx.

Lexigirl,
I liked your comment as well. Feel free to send advice as well.

Kayana,

You too. I liked your note as well. Thx.

I wish it was normal. If my stepdaughter wanted me half as much as i want her we would have been fucking each others brains out for years. She is just so hot, tits and ass you'd die for and I can only imagine what her pussy is like (although i did eat her out once when she was asleep and very young, it was dark and I didn't actually see that lovely slit). She's 30 now and I've been her dad for 27 years. In some ways I feel like her real dad....love her dearly and want to protect her, but a real dad wouldn't have an overwhelming desire to fuck her stupid. These almost uncontrolable urges started to develop as she entered her teens and the desires have only become stronger as the years have gone by. The number of times I masturbated whilst peeking through the bathroom window as she was going through her teens I could not tell you. I've even managed a few good belts on the odd occasion that she has showered at my place lately, even though she now lives elsewhere with her fiance ( lucky bastard !) The most recent was when she was around 8 months pregnant, couldn't believe the size of her tits and didn't care if I got caught peeking, I just wanted to get myself off. How the hell can I go on like this ? She is all I ever think of and if by some miracle I was given the chance to have sex with anyone on this earth, super models, movie stars, any one I'd choose my Melissa. I am in love with her like I can't explain, and sadly I know, more than likely, it will only ever be a fantasy, because I don't want to spoil the wonderful relation ship we have now. But I guess I can always dream.

yes i too have a sweet stepdaughter who loves to tease.she has 34-a tits and sweet ass .i have been with them for over 10yrs now and watched her grow into a hot young thing.i have rubbed her while she slept cum on her hair and face and wear her sexies and cum in them all the time.she love to stand on mt feet and "make "me walk her around while she rubs her sweet ass into my cock bends over and makes me so hard.she just turned 19 and has done this for about 6 yrs.i 've watched her in the bathroom too she loves to play with herself in the full lenght mirror watching her fingers slide in and out.i cum in seconds so hott.

ye i too have felt mt sweet step up and cum on her while she slept.she is /was such a tease and i have been with her for over 10 yrs now and she just turned 19she has teased me in many ways and knows what she is doing when sh efeels my hard cock against her sweet littlse ass.

Hello, I am in the very begging stages of a very similar problem, and I have found this post to be very helpful. I got married To my wife M 9 months ago, but have known her for three years. We have always been very close, but recently, the stepdaughter A has been almost irrisistable. M is 47, I am 23, So, I am obviously closer to A's age. I really Love M, but I can't stop thinking about A. I have found myself peeking thru the cracks at the bathroom door while she is getting in and out of the shower, I have used her underwear, and Once I even Unlocked the bathroom door quietly while she was showering. I laid on the floor and slid in, so I wouldn't make noise, and watched her take her shower. She is SO beautiful. While I watched her, She was playing with her nipples, and slit, I came without playing with myself. I Feel very dirty, and like poor white gutter trash for having the feelings that I do. I Also feel like a pervert. She isn't 18 yet, so I should be able to keep myself away from her. But, I can't. I even held her beautiful little ass one day while she was on the computer. She didn't act like she noticed. I really want to stop this. Does anyone have any advice on how I can? Someone mentioned "Reconditioning" earlier on this post, Can anyone give advice with that? That, or a way to suduce A? I don't want to loose my wife, But I would love to slide in and out of her daughter. I also get this thought of procreating, having a child. But, I don't want to do that with M. I want A to bear my roal oats. any advice?

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