I have always had a small crush on a neice that was infatuated with me as well. I always thought she just a had a small crush on me that would soon disapeer as would mine, but it did not. Recently we have both made each other aware of our feelings and both want to act on this, I am older than her but she IS an adult at age 19. would this be normal I'm sure it is not aaginst the law, but what should be done Note not blood related. We both want to act on this but have not yet done so. What to do.