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and she seems shy around me now. Then a week or so goes by and she actually comes over. I make it a priority not to create confusion but she still seems colder than even her first day hear. Wife suggest taking them to the movies with us a few times can make piece. Then we have there mom come with us to the outdoor movies. She is apparently aware that her daughter has a crush on me. The movie was less watched than playing with them all. Then for what ever reason when they asked to be picked up they soon seed put us down she's coming. I start putting them down and look up and there mom is moving in our direction and not looking happy. then the kids go play in the sprinklers at the out door move and there mom walks back to her chair. This at the time confused me but my kids told me that there parents don't pick there kids up at all and rare hugs them at all. That got me thinking it may be less me and more something there parents are not telling us. As I told them at the pancake party the week after we treat others kids as our own and unless we are told otherwise picking them up is no big deal. We did not say that but that's our view. Now they moved 30 miles away and now they cant just walk over and now we all miss there playful minds. I would say that creepy ideas could come to mind in there parents but I don't see what we did that messed things up for there kids. I do miss there playful daughter. Her innocent way she wants to learn how to make things. Before you jump the gun I am not talking child molest. I am talking about the same playful things my kids do but she has come up with at times stranger solutions to things even I was impressed. She is like a daughter that I whish we had. Wife seas I have a innocent crush on there daughter. That might be true I don't know. All I know is she made my work a lot more fun and that is what I miss the most. Neighbors kids liked to cuddle with us and get hugs I wonder if cuddling is cottages.

you shouldn't even caer just foces on your kids

you said she looked cute, so you should stick your finger up her ass, get it deep in there, and pull it out and lick your finger, then do it again

You sound like a dirty dirty old bastard. We do this with our kids we do that with our kids. Child fucker in the making if you havent already done so

were you wanking when you wrote that

yea something about your story isn't quite right. I think you need to just focus on fucking your wife and not little girls, but that's just me.

huh?

your a dirty pedophile

whow no i skimed the post i thouht he was just being nice to her not getting dirty with her

yeah hes a child rapist in the making

Don't insult the pedos, they get annoyed they whack off to calm down, then when they whack off they think of little girls, then when they think of little girls the whole pedo idea gets larger and then end up fucking a little girl.

though he may be a pedo anyway but didnt u say something about 14 yr olds being the best age? I may like a little younger but that still sounds a bit pedoish.

wtf, dude you are a REAL pedophile, fuck you

you even commented on my pedo post and u didnt figure that out then? anyway I'm trying to avoid the pedo porn, been like 10 days without it though still when I see a really cute 11 yr old... I won't ever rape a child....hopefully

i hope you get raped in prison faggot

Calm down, you weren't getting pissy at me bfor on my pedo post, im guythatposted btw if u didnt no and if u can remember who he was. Did you think I wasn't serious or something back then? BTW I was serious, though I do mainly look at girls around my age, when I did look at pedo porn, again I'm trying to quit that, still considered pedophilia, but I guess that might be slightly better seeing as that's the age I'm meant to be attracted too.

i don't care what you posted your a sick pedo, fuck you

You need to calm down, I'm attracted to little girls but I won't let myself fuck one, I couldn't live with myself if I raped a little girl.

Why is it? You continue to post shit about your pedophilia problem? Dude seriously I Don't want to be mean, but you need to get off of this shit before somebody hurts you. I am telling you this for your own good.

If You come By my Kid I'll Rip Your Ballsack off pal

only for you junk

I don't think you, or anyone else should be punished for "thought crimes", including even wanking off to fantasies of fucking 3 year old girls.

the thing that concerns me about you is this - how can you say that you won't ever in your life give in to your desires? what about under the influence of alcohol or drugs? what if you convince yourself that a 10 year old girl or younger is really "mature" and "wants it"? can you guarantee that you will never act on your impulses?

id also like to say that i basically feel sorry for pedophiles because i realize that they did not choose to have the desires that have, and that sexual desires are extremely difficult to resist over long periods of time.

That doesn't mean i wouldn't cut the balls off of anyone who hurt a child. but i do understand the situation many people find themselves in and the inner demons they face.

Well I expected this reaction from crazy people. Its ok to hug kids first off even if there not your own kids. It lets them know that they are safe they also need to know if they are welcome to be in your home. go to cariboo.bc.ca get some facts before you comment. I am not a fucking Pedophiles. Pedophiles are after sexual attraction of adults to prepubescent children. I was talking about something entirely different.

I was working that is what I was doing when I was doing my own thing. You all need some help. I watch for pedophiles and I know what to look for what I described is not on the list to look for you need not comment unless you know what the fuck your talking about.

In any case I found the answer from my wife. She seed she might be a ccontrol personality and that's why she gives me this strange gold shoulder. Well we all went to there house to help out and I did what I normally would do. However I ignored there daughter and played with my kids and there kids but ignored her unless seed something. Well later I got a surprise my wife was right. she came right up to me and asked to play with them. I went off and played with all of them as normal. get your head out of the gutter you crazy people. They all like to play airplane. There parents would have seed something if it was a problem after all there parents know how we are.

There daughter is cute and there is nothing wrong with anyone saying that.

I don't get off when playing with any kids I just get feelings heart when any kids get upset with is why I get ticked off with morons calling any one a Pedophile just because they like to play with kids.
I will give you a tip Pedophiles go to parks and zoo's and the mall and they sit on a bench watching. How I know that. I am a parent you nut I read a book after a problem we just about had if I did not catch it. So start pointing your fingers to yourself next time you want to call any one a Pedophiles. Not every one is.

"you shouldn't even caer just foces on your kids"
that's how kids get killed you moron.
I think some people have a view that a hug from any stranger is wrong but you need to remember that's how kids find out if there safe. Yes Pedophiles know this but so should all parents. By the way. A Hug is a normal thing for any one to do. When you prevent hugs. Your kids will fear the world and start sucking there thumb That's the facts.

cabinet70
You sound like a dirty dirty old b*s***d. We do this with our kids we do that with our kids. Child f**ker in the making if you havent already done so

First off I am not old. I was comparing normal interaction with kids treating them equal. You treat any kid better than another freaks them out. I would not fuck a child even if you played me. I really think you need to get your head out of the gutters cabinet70.

Is it normal to hug your own kids. Yes.
Is it normal to hug your kids friends. Yes.
Is it normal to treat them as your own kids. Yes.
Is it normal to play with your kids. Yes.
Is it normal to play with your kids friends. Yes.
Is it normal for people on hear to over react. Yes.

Its recommended you hug your kids as meany times as you want a day.
Its also recommended to hug your kids friends as many times as they would like.
When kids come you to for a hug That's ok. Forcing a hug on any kids not ok. By the way I told the parents that there kids ask for hugs from us and we would stop but its just normal. They actually found our views normal as we sat down talking and there daughter went to my wife and myself for a hug. This hug is a welcome hug that is normal for all.

http://www.cariboo.bc.ca/news/sixsensesmagazine/Touch/stefaniegiddenshugs.htm

I expected to see your reaction as hugs to some adults are viewed as sexual and not viewed as warm friendly experience as a none threatening. Now if I grabbed her bottom like a 18 year old then that would be a problem.

maybe you're not a pedo. but at least learn to spell and write intelligibly.

Ive lived thru other desires, I can control it for now, i just get aroused when I see a really cute young girl. If it gets more of a problem I may go to some kind of therapy, or hope Jan emails me again, she helped me with my first one.

And I understand about that whole "That doesn't mean i wouldn't cut the balls off of anyone who hurt a child" bit.

I think cutting balls off is over kill any way. Children are aware of that place that feels good but no one explains much about it to them. When they do ask I have seen some parents blow up at them for even asking.
Parents seem fearful of talking about sex to there kids. That's dumb I think. If your kids know about it they are better prepared to deal with it. Children after all masturbate even younger than age 5. Why not give them the skills then to help protect them. No one knows. Use to be that your kids would learn about sex by watching there parents having sex. Now they are expected to learn from a book that can not give enough for them to watch for. After all they told tell you to watch out for Pedo. They just say don't let any one touch you at all. Then by 18 you will know how it works. Just dumb to do that. However this is off the topic I was making before.

Parents need to get there act together and stop freaking out so much. Its sex there children are sexual beings and will start even if you don't want them to.

There I go again off topic but really think about it how kids know what to do in the passed there parents demonstrated. Its not a big deal unless your performing this on your kids then something is wrong. But then again 1482 the father was expected to show there daughter at age 8-12 the act by performing it with them. Not saying its good but it was done.

Thunder,,you are O.K. by me. I love children to, without any molestation in mind. I work with orphanages overseas, and see the need for s imple, pure hug. These people on here often try to inflate their childish egos, by putting others down. I go to nudist resorts,,with kids running free from harm, butt naked, loving life,,so,,society has a bit to learn.

shes gonna b a hoe fo sho

Well a lot has happened from the last time I put this up. by the way the next time asskicker20230 (15536) you say you shouldn't even caer just foces on your kids. If I see your kids about to get killed I will note your answer hear and just watch with out helping out. jest messing with you. The brother got injured but we have first aid with us at all times. There parents did not have one on hand. There daughter is doing fine and now understand her way of thinking. turnstile43 that's just cold. Kids need love with out the molestation crap. Even if there not your own kids. It makes them feel safe, welcome. They spent a few days at our place. It is strange but doing nothing to fix whatever actually fixed what ever the problem was. I have no problem with Nudist resorts. Society and people should learn from Nudist thinking. Could learn a lot from France as well. Public nudity is normal. Freaks out the Pedophiles, and rapist.

I think it's abnormal for you to pick up or hug another person's child. If her mother was uncomfortable with it that should have been your first clue that it was not acceptable. If I were her mother I would have most likely requested a meeting with you and your employer to review the situation... this did occur at work correct? It's difficult to follow your story... your spelling and grammer need work.

I am not in school so I can have as bad of spelling and grammar as I would like. No I was not at work. The child is one of my kids friends that just likes me to pick her up. Her brother also likes to be picked up. Parents don't seem to mind. We talked with them and they thought there kids were trying to pick them up when I did not want to. I let them know that it was ok with me if there kids want affection from us. Turns out they don't pick them up any more and there kids miss that. Don't take this wrong but they are over weight and I guess picking there kids up is just to hard to do any more. The sad news is they are moving and we all miss there playful kids. Good news is kids found a new friend that there parents see eye to eye with us and love it when we treat there kid as if she was our own. Funny thing is she likes cuddling. I was watching my kids play a game with there son and there daughter come to me to cuddle. That was so cute. Her mom come in and gave her a blanket. Now that was strange. I mean cuddling ok give her daughter a back massage ok and head massage to get ride of a head ache but the blanket was a tad odd. I guess I can get use to that. As I said before. Treat any ones kids as if they ware your own. Give them love and attention so they feel safe. I guess if you spend your time looking for Pedophiles you may forget that some people are still looking our for you and your kids safety and not got that one way of thinking. Remember people you can still love another kid and not be sexual witch is what a Pedophiles interest is only about.

It was probably because she was really comfortable with you. Since you told her that thing about the biting, she probably felt bad or embarrased. So just give her time and she'll come back. :D

Well after some time has passed like 2 months she had a friend come over and we started to talk about things that she is ok with and what We find ok. Things are good now.
I like hugs from my kids and even thought I don't have a daughter she likes the idea of being treated as such. Her parents find this cute and find it healthy as we do.

I know people like asskicker20230 have this thing that I should just take care of my own kids but asskicker20230 your wrong. I find it safer to treat even your kids as my own kids to help protect them. I don't have a Pedophiles interest. Kids like affection and attention this is normal. Problem with Pedophiles other than looking at kids for sexual gratification they forget that kids talk about stuff like that

I don't know enough details... aka how old the little girl is? Perhaps she saw the biting on tv? If she's a little older and understands that it isn't normal, it is likely that she has been sexually abused.

I was wondering about that. I'll have to see what to do if she was how to help her feel better about interacting with others.

You are kinda/really fucking dumb. It is NORMAL for a child to bite and flirt. It ISNT normal for you to act like your okay with it.
I would Keep my kids AWAY from you!

So what your saying is, she got into one little fight and her mom got scared and said, your going with your aunty and uncle in Bel Air.

Some people just have no clue. I talked with her parents letting them know my intentions witch is to treat her like family like a daughter. Before they moved for a job offer things got cleared up and I got my friend back. I know know its normal because her parents asked me if was starting to see things through her eyes. Witch was a shock and told them that I did. They told me because I have all boys I never know the way girls are not looking to blow stuff up and that all parents with out a daughter sees this but some parents cross the line witch I have not. We all had a good time and they started to see what I was talking about and smiled and told me they see what I was talking about. Nice people. But now Met a new family and there mom knows exactly what I am talking about and we hang out watching how there daughter thinks witch at times has been interesting to say the least. Remember people Guilty people may be out on the web but there not every one you meet with so give some people the benefit there not looking to do wrong. I know the line some people are suggesting and I am not interested in that at all. Time to go play with my new buddy. She has brothers and there mom and dad come over to check up on them from time to time witch is great to see. They love letting them swim in the pool you know burn off that extra crazy energy for bed time. First time I had to help a girl change her cloths with there parents helping and did not know what to do. There like just treat them like your kids and you'll be fine. I bring that up only because I did not expect that reaction. Thought they would say let them do it but yea helping is np.

Today was funny thought. They were all so hot because its been hot all summer and they all took off there cloths and jumped in. I looked at there parents and said it must have been hot today. There parents was like well that's one way to stay cool. We all started Laughing. The decided if it was ok with us if they just keep swimming and not a big deal about it right now. So yea that was funny lol. They came back like 3 hours later and no big deal.

When I started this I wanted to know if I was missing something. Is it kinda/really f**king dumb to treat another's kid like there welcome to be in your house. Is it f**king dumb to demonstrate proper way of interacting with someone else's kids. How are kids going to know if you don't show them the proper way of interacting with them. They see something they have not interacted with safe people they wont know what is safe or not safe. I do the same things with them in the same room and they don't freak out as much as you have. There is a line We all know just don't cross it. I think I have pointed that out before. I talk to the parents and let them and the kids know to expect hugs from me unless they say otherwise. I have yet to be turned down of a hug from the parents or the kids even in front of there parents. SO chill Not into what ever your bugging about.

I think the reason she was crushing on you is because she wanted to be hugged etc. Physical affection is important for a child's developement, and if they don't get enough of it, or are neglected in other ways, they start crushing on other adults not their parents.

She wore make-up and bit you on the cheek because she was thinking that that is how a girl like herself gets loved.

I used to do that when I was little.

Getting freaked out at a kid for biting and flirting is not ok. Just act normal and don't cross the line, and explain to them that biting makes you not want to be around them.

you got it Vozzie. All good now they moved away but her parents started to pay attention more to her and all was good. I did not think it was flirting but never know what kids think any more. Yea just being normal is the way I go and I dont cross that line. Never have never will. She gave me a hug before they moved as nothing happened. Then told me she was sorry for bitting me. I told her she is a good girl and there was nothing to wory about and we huged and her parents came over and huged as well. smilles all around.

Back then giveing a kid a hug and and pat on the head was normal. But know if you give a kid now people are like"HES A FUCKING PEDO!" and if she's huggy you its obvious that she is not loved at home and does not getaffection as often

Sir, I think first off you should really learn your grammar, and second, what are you thinking? Stay away from anyone else's children, or go and get some counseling! You DO NOT pick up other kids! I don't care if you do it with yours! That girl's mom is going to get pretty weirded out sooner or later when she finds out that you miss her daughter coming over. YOU ARE A CREEP, AND I WOULD REPORT YOU!

nonse

No offense but I agree with dramakid..how the heck do you bite a check??
And I for one would not like to be bitten by anyone who is not family. And I think you should stick with playing with your own kids and maybe not bite other people

God you people are so dumb. the kid bit me not the other way around. When I watch the kids that come over. Yes you will take this wrong because your slow. If there 5 they want to know that the grownups and not scary creeps. Hugging another persons kids when your baby sitting them brings them reassured that they were welcome to be over. Kids need to know they are accepted. Then stop letting your friend be nice to your kids as well.

actually i think it was freud who had a theory on something like that but it was more family related i don't remeber the exact details but it's called the electra complex now it may not be right on but it may give some insight especially if the little girl saw you as a stand in father figure you can look it up on wikipedia and there's also the oedipus complex both very interesting though

Ok, I have read every single thing that you've said and honestly, you sound like a fucking creeper. "I'm just making them feel safe and helping them interact and blah blah blah..."

I think it's perfectly fine to hug anyone, that's not what I have a problem with, but you continue to say these scandalous sounding things to try and get a reaction out of people like, "They were all so hot because its been hot all summer and they all took off there cloths and jumped in.... So yea that was funny lol." and "First time I had to help a girl change her cloths with there parents helping and did not know what to do. There like just treat them like your kids and you'll be fine."

Maybe I'm just on a completely different mental planet than you, but why do you keep writing about hugging other peoples kids and them being naked and all this weird shit. You COULD talk about your kids every so often. I don't get what your point is when you keep blabbing about how you treat others kids like your own... that you're an amazing person inside and you want applause? Good job for hugging children, you should win the Nobel Peace Prize.

Well I have moved on from this topic. But I have three boys and I have always wanted to have my own girl. When the kids came over wanting hugs I realized later from one of the parents pointing it out. The mom told me that because I have all boys that I may need that estrogen that girls give off to help balance the testosterone with having three boys. I have since asked her if she would mind me playing with her daughter and after seeing how we interact for months now She has no problems with it. I also was informed that they did a background check to see if I had any history of stuff your all talking about and there is nothing. As for kids being naked well I have no daughter and did not know how to react but being that I did not see a problem with nudity any way and its not like I get turned on by seeing nude girls. I do come off some times in my typing and even when I speak I come off the wrong way so I have tried to be more clear. I just wanted some tips on how to interact with a daughter. I just didn't want any one to take my actions the wrong way. But again as you all have proved to me no mater what any one does even going as fare as saying this is innocent you would wonder why I put it like that. Now if I said something like. I was cuddling with this 5 year old and she put my hand between her legs and started to hump my hand and I did not stop her and started helping by rubbing her crotch and made her cum and her mom was watching and let it happen then after she seen her daughter cum she let her daughter watch us as well. None of that happened but you want it right lol.