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This is innocent first off. my kids had some friends over for swimming and I was doing my own thing in the house. One of there friends had a sister and she came in and wanted a hug. Now to our family its normal to hug any one that asks for one. a week goes buy and they bring there friends over again. But later the girl shows up all cute looking make up and wants me to pick her up. well I don't think anything of it and pick her up. Again it's normal for us to do this even with our own kids. This goes on for like a month. Then out of now ware she bites me hard on the check. I talk with her to let her know I was ok but biting hurts. We do tend to play bit our kids and have done the same with other kids again its innocent play. Weeks go by and there friends come over but the girl doesn't want to come over.
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the thing that concerns me about you is this - how can you say that you won't ever in your life give in to your desires? what about under the influence of alcohol or drugs? what if you convince yourself that a 10 year old girl or younger is really "mature" and "wants it"? can you guarantee that you will never act on your impulses?
That doesn't mean i wouldn't cut the balls off of anyone who hurt a child. but i do understand the situation many people find themselves in and the inner demons they face.
I was working that is what I was doing when I was doing my own thing. You all need some help. I watch for pedophiles and I know what to look for what I described is not on the list to look for you need not comment unless you know what the fuck your talking about.
In any case I found the answer from my wife. She seed she might be a ccontrol personality and that's why she gives me this strange gold shoulder. Well we all went to there house to help out and I did what I normally would do. However I ignored there daughter and played with my kids and there kids but ignored her unless seed something. Well later I got a surprise my wife was right. she came right up to me and asked to play with them. I went off and played with all of them as normal. get your head out of the gutter you crazy people. They all like to play airplane. There parents would have seed something if it was a problem after all there parents know how we are.
There daughter is cute and there is nothing wrong with anyone saying that.
I don't get off when playing with any kids I just get feelings heart when any kids get upset with is why I get ticked off with morons calling any one a Pedophile just because they like to play with kids.
I will give you a tip Pedophiles go to parks and zoo's and the mall and they sit on a bench watching. How I know that. I am a parent you nut I read a book after a problem we just about had if I did not catch it. So start pointing your fingers to yourself next time you want to call any one a Pedophiles. Not every one is.
"you shouldn't even caer just foces on your kids"
that's how kids get killed you moron.
I think some people have a view that a hug from any stranger is wrong but you need to remember that's how kids find out if there safe. Yes Pedophiles know this but so should all parents. By the way. A Hug is a normal thing for any one to do. When you prevent hugs. Your kids will fear the world and start sucking there thumb That's the facts.
You sound like a dirty dirty old b*s***d. We do this with our kids we do that with our kids. Child f**ker in the making if you havent already done so
First off I am not old. I was comparing normal interaction with kids treating them equal. You treat any kid better than another freaks them out. I would not fuck a child even if you played me. I really think you need to get your head out of the gutters cabinet70.
Is it normal to hug your own kids. Yes.
Is it normal to hug your kids friends. Yes.
Is it normal to treat them as your own kids. Yes.
Is it normal to play with your kids. Yes.
Is it normal to play with your kids friends. Yes.
Is it normal for people on hear to over react. Yes.
Its recommended you hug your kids as meany times as you want a day.
Its also recommended to hug your kids friends as many times as they would like.
When kids come you to for a hug That's ok. Forcing a hug on any kids not ok. By the way I told the parents that there kids ask for hugs from us and we would stop but its just normal. They actually found our views normal as we sat down talking and there daughter went to my wife and myself for a hug. This hug is a welcome hug that is normal for all.
http://www.cariboo.bc.ca/news/sixsensesmagazine/Touch/stefaniegiddenshugs.htm
I expected to see your reaction as hugs to some adults are viewed as sexual and not viewed as warm friendly experience as a none threatening. Now if I grabbed her bottom like a 18 year old then that would be a problem.
And I understand about that whole "That doesn't mean i wouldn't cut the balls off of anyone who hurt a child" bit.
Parents seem fearful of talking about sex to there kids. That's dumb I think. If your kids know about it they are better prepared to deal with it. Children after all masturbate even younger than age 5. Why not give them the skills then to help protect them. No one knows. Use to be that your kids would learn about sex by watching there parents having sex. Now they are expected to learn from a book that can not give enough for them to watch for. After all they told tell you to watch out for Pedo. They just say don't let any one touch you at all. Then by 18 you will know how it works. Just dumb to do that. However this is off the topic I was making before.
There I go again off topic but really think about it how kids know what to do in the passed there parents demonstrated. Its not a big deal unless your performing this on your kids then something is wrong. But then again 1482 the father was expected to show there daughter at age 8-12 the act by performing it with them. Not saying its good but it was done.
I like hugs from my kids and even thought I don't have a daughter she likes the idea of being treated as such. Her parents find this cute and find it healthy as we do.
I know people like asskicker20230 have this thing that I should just take care of my own kids but asskicker20230 your wrong. I find it safer to treat even your kids as my own kids to help protect them. I don't have a Pedophiles interest. Kids like affection and attention this is normal. Problem with Pedophiles other than looking at kids for sexual gratification they forget that kids talk about stuff like that
I would Keep my kids AWAY from you!
When I started this I wanted to know if I was missing something. Is it kinda/really f**king dumb to treat another's kid like there welcome to be in your house. Is it f**king dumb to demonstrate proper way of interacting with someone else's kids. How are kids going to know if you don't show them the proper way of interacting with them. They see something they have not interacted with safe people they wont know what is safe or not safe. I do the same things with them in the same room and they don't freak out as much as you have. There is a line We all know just don't cross it. I think I have pointed that out before. I talk to the parents and let them and the kids know to expect hugs from me unless they say otherwise. I have yet to be turned down of a hug from the parents or the kids even in front of there parents. SO chill Not into what ever your bugging about.
She wore make-up and bit you on the cheek because she was thinking that that is how a girl like herself gets loved.
I used to do that when I was little.
And I for one would not like to be bitten by anyone who is not family. And I think you should stick with playing with your own kids and maybe not bite other people
I think it's perfectly fine to hug anyone, that's not what I have a problem with, but you continue to say these scandalous sounding things to try and get a reaction out of people like, "They were all so hot because its been hot all summer and they all took off there cloths and jumped in.... So yea that was funny lol." and "First time I had to help a girl change her cloths with there parents helping and did not know what to do. There like just treat them like your kids and you'll be fine."
Maybe I'm just on a completely different mental planet than you, but why do you keep writing about hugging other peoples kids and them being naked and all this weird shit. You COULD talk about your kids every so often. I don't get what your point is when you keep blabbing about how you treat others kids like your own... that you're an amazing person inside and you want applause? Good job for hugging children, you should win the Nobel Peace Prize.
I live in Europe and especially in my country we don't feel that insecure or unsafe about our children being molested by pedophiles.
People that do feel very insecure with that are slow-minded idiots that spend too much time listening to the crap of the media. I suggest they stop watching TV and start reading books or study psychology or something... Fear causes idiots to do things they wouldn't normally do.
Not to mention that fear is a weapon that has been frequently used by the American(and other) governments as an excuse for various violations of people's freedom as well as slaughters and wars...........
HUGGING IS NORMAL, AND PLAYING WITH KIDS IS NORMAL.
blahuhblah you dont know a pedophil from a hole in the ground. You wouldent know Normal if it bit you on the behind. I told you before so you did not get any wrong ideas that "This is innocent first off." I wanted to know even though I dont word my self right like a good colage grad or A student and spell everything the way you wanted to hear. I just wanted to ask a simple question. you must realy think low of the world if your first thought is a negative one.
I just think you enjoyed her personality and it made you sad that she wasn't over as often.
I'm very glad she came around though!
In fact, I think you're probably most likely not a straight up pedophile, but you aren't normal. Normal people are not so preoccupied with other's children as you are. You're just strange, and I have to admit that I probably wouldn't let you hang around my kids without me being right there.
Also, you're saying something to the effect of "Just because I can't write like an A student college grad", well it isn't that we think you're "stupid" it's just that we can't f'ing understand you most the time!! how do you plan to get your point across on this touchy subject if you can't write!