the way he acts when im with him.

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And here I was starting to think that women loved to be treated special. Sounds like he loves you (or has abandonment issues). Either way, if you are attracted to him, why not try it? If not, I guess you'll have to try and break it to him gently and if he doesn't take it well, to move on and not guilt trip over him. What will not work, will not work.

Awww, hun, it's called unconditional love.

But I don't see how it's a problem if you were being treated like that? You guys broke up? Maybe you should just stop seeing and talking to him completely.

I don't like kissing either, no matter how much I like/love the guy and what else we do, kissing always freaks me out. I think it's because I have a phobia of dentists, other people being near my mouth is just weird.

OMG!!!! Gurl he's sooo in love with you. Sounds like he'll do anything for you, so if you care about him, be with him, but if your gonna play with him like this, dont let him make moves on you, especially if your not ready to make the commitment. the poor guy deserves a straight answer, so give it to him!!!!

he checks ur phone? does he just wanna be near u lots to make sure he knows what ur doing and who ur with? maybe hes got abandonment issues since he wont just let u go that sounds creepy to me.. but maybe he is a good guy but then i dont understand why u dont just be with him if he likes u that much? if u rly dont like him get him outa ur life and start finding new guys u actually like? sounds good to me...

Obviously he's still in love with you...or he's a stalker.

wow. So let me get this straight. You wrong the guy, and have a problem with him being willing to forgive you and act as if it never happened. I'm guessing that if he had done the same to you, you'd be slashing his tires and setting fire to his house. His willingness to forgive you is making you feel like a grade A b$%ch for not being able to do the same (which indicates that you may have a conscience and a desire to not be a grade a b.) Whats really disturbing are the responses to this comment. All the jealous grade A b's who wish they could have a whipping boy too. "Like omg if I had one of those I would totally do this, this and this to him and be like I'm so cool because I treat him like crap and he keeps coming back for more" He may have alterior motives and is checking the cell phone to reaffirm his place (its possible that in his mind youre still together.) Or he could just be a glutton for abuse.

He's in love with you! Totally...
and i had no idea guys actually did those sweet things like hugging you even when your mad and holding your hand .. ur one lucky girl. but don't lead him on. either be with him or dont.

that sounds like my best guy friend aka my ex-boyfriend..except he doesnt care whether i talk to other guys or not..he just doesnt like me talking about them. hes in love w/ u definitely

Maybe you to don't see eye to eye he loves you!....or needs help,ether way,go for it!....or call the cops.