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THERES THIS BEAUTIFUL GIRL!!!!
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OK Theres this girl(beautiful as can be) that i really like. Im 18 and shes 16. Shes one of the prettiest and most popularest girls in the school says alot of the guys in my school including me. We have a lot in common but i feel like shes playing with my head. She says she wants to be my girl and she want someone to love but she also says shes confused. I talk on the phone with her almost everyday because she always tells me to call her. She always brings up her ex boyfriends in the conversation and dudes that tryed to holla at her but she turned them down. Whenever another guy calls her or textes her she tells me and to be honest i couldnt care less. Sometimes she brings up her wanting to kiss me and how she wants a "REAL" hug when i see her in school. On the phone i cant keep a conversation going because i just dont know what to say most the time so i reply to her with a statement or 2 then stop talking. There will always be a long silence then i would tell her to talk to me. Its hard for me to think straight when im talking to her. The crazy thing is we never been on a date yet and i never kissed her yet. What should i do and how should i go about being more confident when im talking with her and when im around her? Need some advice because i want her in my life!
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xoxoxoamiwierdoxoxox (19406)
2009-01-15 05:06:33
to me, and im a girl, it sounds like she tells you all these things because she likes you. to me, it sounds like shes putting herself out there and ur too nervous to take the bait. ask her to go on a date with you. she tells you about all her exboyfriends and about guys she turns down all the time and about how she wants to be your girl because she actually wants you to get the hint and ask her out! this may sound sexist but i still think that the guys should be asking the girls out. thats how its been for centuries. she's telling you that she's interested. now its ur job to ask her out. and if ur nervous about being too nervous to talk, take her to a place where no talking is required, like the movies. but what ever u do, just ask her out...soon...
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atreyu21 (19411)
2009-01-15 17:44:32
Leap, LEAP! Ask her!
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violent10dency (10988)
2009-01-15 17:44:39
@: xoxoxoamiwierdoxoxox
I know right, I so agree. WTF IS UP WITH THE GUYS NOT ASKING THE GIRLs OUT ANYMORE? DO it! DO it! DO it!
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flikr (10636)
2009-01-17 08:32:18
yea ask her out before someone else does
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santana77 (19162)
2009-01-17 21:07:49
i asked her out a couple days ago and she said she was sorry she couldnt because she was out with a friend(boy) in another town...i was crushed when i heard dat shyt...den just yesterday she said 4get about me and her because she seen my myspace and she said i had to many girls on there and that wasnt kool...she also was mad because of my display name which was "your girl stay staring...i cant blame her though"...wat should i do?
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violent10dency (10988)
2009-01-19 06:47:38
@: santana77
Don't change yourself for her. She sounds like a liar to me, I wouldn't try to go out with her ass if I were you.
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xoxoxoamiwierdoxoxox (19406)
2009-01-19 19:26:04
@: santana77
ur displayname? every girl knows that all guys are full of crap when it comes to their display name. and too many girls on your myspace? thats just bullshit... granted, i dont know her or you and if those are really the only two reasons, then idk what to tell u. that chick's got issues. i know plenty of guys with gfs that talk to a million other girls and their gfs arent complainin cuz they know their bf wont cheat on them. and if they do, theyll be out on their ass. if ur chick wont let u c or talk to, or even have other chicks on ur stupid myspace page, she's got major trust issues. im sure shes drop dead hot but if shes that whacked, a dudes just gotta let it go and move on... sorry man..
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lurvejazz (19190)
2009-02-05 07:06:44
show her that you care.
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laughing_gurl (20035)
2009-02-06 23:51:13
look, just make your move already. She's practically screamming"ask me, stupid!" look the worst that could happen is she'llturn you down, but TRUST ME, she wont. guys are too nervous these days, but you shouldnt be. JUST DO IT!
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rita_skeeter (20457)
2009-02-25 14:27:36
@: laughing_gurl
she may be preeti but she seems like a knob tbh
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hazyhedgod (21713)
2009-04-07 05:38:29
^^^^^^^

i agree
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BigShirtlessRod (17961)
2009-04-10 09:20:58
I think you should tickle her completely at random and when she asks what you're doing you kiss her bigtime.
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michellemango (21730)
2009-04-12 16:01:40
ask her.it seems like you really like her and she really likes you.
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Solimorphic (20553)
2009-04-19 04:48:34
She is hot and SHE KNOWS she can have any boy in the school so she is just playing games with those who CHASE her. You call her every night to chat because she tells you to.

The guy she is seeking is likely someone who pays little attention to her and that gives her the chance to WORK for him and compete with other girls in her beauty category.
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Ollieo (19003)
2009-04-19 05:44:12
Wow. What a waste of time. Why are you interested in anyone so shallow, unless you are yourself? If that is so, then you both deserve your own phony dramas.
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Tsepesh (22457)
2009-04-28 21:33:32
well if she is pulling some crap like that just start ignoring her. move on and start talking to other girls. if she ever wanted you she will realize that she is missing out and let you know. then you make the move. don't throw yourself out there completely because you don't know if she is just wanting to keep you strung along because of her own jealousy. so take it slow. be interested but don't be "all about her" let her know that if things don't go the way they should that you are more than able to move on. ( my opinion and might not be good advice ) but thats how i would go about it
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santana77 (19162)
2009-04-29 14:41:47
@: Tsepesh
thanx alot what u said was really true and it kind of worked because she wants to take me and her more seriously now
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clueless247 (23352)
2009-05-23 17:42:59
hey
ASSSSSSSSSSSSSSSSSSSSSSKKKKKK
HEEEERRRRRRRRRRRR OUUUUUUT
lol okay???
really shes practically asking you too
you wont regret it i swear
i really want you too
maybe she tried to be subtle at first but ur too shy and nothing happened anyway...
GO FOR IT =]
IM A GIRL I WOULD KNO AND IM SURE ALL GIRLS FEEL THE SAME WAY
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Ohiosweete008 (23709)
2009-06-01 09:57:57
She likes you a lot.
Next time you are on the phone and aren't sure what to say..ask her to a nice resturaunt for dinner, she will be so excited.

She tells you about other guys calling her and flirting with her because she wants you to know you aren't her only option. That she is PICKING you. That she wants to be in an exclusive relationship with you.

Take her to dinner and the movies. Make her laugh and compliment her. If you feel it is going well kiss her at the end, but don't do more than that and ask her out again!
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Ollieo (19003)
2009-06-06 17:49:58
@: Ollieo
That was harsh. You are both teens. Its new and confusing. Please accept my apology for a pathetic response.
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Anon12345 (23957)
2009-06-07 10:06:16
This is difficult because as horrible as guys can be, girls can be worse to a guy who cares. She could be doing this stuff because she needs someone to love her and she needs that attention, but she doesn't want to date you.
Or she could be hinting at you to ask her out.
I'd say the best way to make this situation a win/win is to outright ask her if she has feelings for you and hint that you could feel as though you could be more than friends.
If she likes you she will tell you and if she doesn't she will come up with an excuse that will keep you wanting her and giving her attention, such as "I'm just not ready for a boyfriend right now."
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housecat (22932)
2009-06-24 14:45:34
@: santana77
Yeah, Tsepesh got it. You want to show her that you're not obsessed with her or dependent on her, and that others think you're valuable, but also that you're interested in her. Good luck
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RoadRunner (24340)
2009-06-25 03:52:41
OMG Dude!!!!!

I feel so happy for you man. Just go for it. However you can, nervous or not, ask her" Hey would ya like to go for some icecream?" Or "go to the movies with me?"

Even if you voive cracks or something like that, the hell with it, she'll probably think it's cute.

All you have to do is ask, go and it's plain saling from there. It seems like you're really good friends and that's all it takes to start a relationship the right way.

If you don't do anything, you'll see another dude come along and you'll be crushed. Now's the time to do something, if you don't then you'll be kicking yourself fo rthe rest of your life. Sorry dude but that's the reality. You've gott grab this by the horns and make it happen. Trust me, she'll thank you for it ;)
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theguyfromthenetherlands (28042)
2009-09-04 12:43:56
2 things for you

1: Make her feel secure to you and just take the ropes in hand. Tell her everything be oke, working together is one way to create a big social boost for each other and it can help love.

2: Be good for her and go for it! It's not how a girl looks like it's also has a person in it. Just listen to that person and be there for her. A average girl doesn't wish more then a boy that is there for her for always!
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arrix (28807)
2009-09-22 01:22:26
@: santana77
Wow dude, this girl did you a favor. If she did end up being ur gf, she would have had you by the nuts and never let go. Do you have any female friends? Not anymore with her you wouldnt. One of the most important lessons a guy can learn in his teens is this: There are women everywhere, and theres always at LEAST one hotter than the one who dumped you. The sooner you forget about her, the sooner you can be with an even better looking, more together girl than her. (plus, as a bonus, if u get with a hot girl and this bitchy girl sees you with her, she'll probably go insane from her lack of maturity and being unable to handle it. A nice little bonus for you!)
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stinkerr (28909)
2009-09-27 02:21:35
can i get her number?.....
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