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Is it normal to think about someone your "with" every second of everyday till it drives you nuts cos you can't get them outta your head, and everything reminds you of them. Then you find yourself thinking the most stupidist things if say you have had a fight! My mind works overtime about every little detail and im like "what if". Is this normal for a long term, long distance relationship?
Do you think it's normal?
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Anonymous
2005-07-20 18:27:19
yeah it's normal when you're totally into a person. i can get like that with my boyfriend and he's not even long-distance.
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clear_thinker (623)
2005-07-23 04:24:36
No it is not normal, at least not at the intensity level that you imply. If you continue in this fashion, you are at risk of having your individual identity subjugated to that of the relationship. At this point, the relationship will devolve into a psychodrama that plays relentlessly on both your sub-conscious and conscious. Fantasy will thus trump reality. This type of thought pattern is often seen in stalkers. I suggest that you “step back” from your relationship at least temporarily. If this does not help or you find yourself unwilling or unable to, I suggest you visit 4therapy.com to find a therapist in your area.
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Anonymous
2005-07-23 17:32:30
i know what u mean, i think constantly every day of some1 like for a year now!
and yeah it is a mind pattern of a stalker, which admitdly i have done. i hope no1 else gets into it, its more addictive then u think; then next thing u know it makes you think u split personality....please dont go as far as i have. and no im not psycotic, i just have a personality problem & getting help so no snide comments 4 my openess
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Anonymous (Story Author)
2005-07-24 11:08:25
this is meant to happen to 16yr old girls! It doesnt have to be turned into a silly drama!!! you'll carry on till you think you "love" someone else and it wont affect you!!
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METHOSjr. (83)
2005-07-25 11:51:45
YOU ARE IN LOVE, SAVE YOURSELF FOR MARRIAGE. HE WILL BE MUCH HAPPIER ON YOUR WEDDING NITE. KEEP IT TIGHT AND BUTTONED DOWN.

LOVE
METHOS
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Anonymous
2005-07-26 14:11:30
You sound like a stalker. I pity your boyfriend.
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Magnum (692)
2005-08-04 13:29:10
i understand this because i dream of methos all day long and often imagine the hairy areas of our bodies together but anyway,it is still not normal so why don't you difinistrate yourself and be done with it?
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selma (736)
2005-08-13 13:33:13
This is totally normal, especially in the early stages of a relationship. It doesn't make you a stalker. It will chill out the longer you're with this person.
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pie1985 (720)
2005-08-31 04:43:48
Sounds like early love. Obsessed etc. I remember that
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sexy_college_girl18 (5974)
2007-03-08 03:02:01
you just sound like you are in love...but you said the relationship is long-term so I assume it has always been this way for you. You should try to do things with friends so you cant think about him. It is not fair to you if you're only thinking about him when do you have time to think about YOURSELF. Just try getting a hobby or something......but in "Puppy Love" this is SOOOOO NORMAL
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strippedBare (7067)
2007-04-01 00:45:43
strangelad!!!!!
look something up b4 you say it is fact
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