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Thinking about girls.
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Whenever im talking to a chick and could have a chance with her I just cannot get her out of my mind. I have been like this for a long time and if any of the girls knew how much I thought about them they would think I was a stalker or something. Its like every second of the day. I think its normal but just wanted to get some comments back.
Do you think it's normal?
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illbreakyerrface (7604)
2007-06-04 16:33:51
yeah its like that when i talk to a guy

its normal
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feelssogood (8676)
2007-06-04 16:45:43
i agree with you i feel the same way but then if im with a girl i love no one else at all comes into my mind
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ChrisUFC (7139)
2007-06-04 17:13:19
this is normal, its really you having a crush on someone and the thoughts of them make you happy and its natural to want to think of the most happy thing you can.
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flikr (10636)
2007-09-16 12:54:00
yea i have the same problem, there is this one girl that i think about 12 hours out of the day and i have been doing this for the past year
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yoquindas (11571)
2007-11-06 18:22:54
it is normal, but it shouldn't be! it's a major problem. if you think about a girl anytime you're not in the same room it's too much. try talking to other girls to see that there's a lot and you shouldn't focus on one.
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gentleromeo (15345)
2008-07-27 16:37:34
its normal just talk to the girl pay her aloto attention. if you can make her laugh alot your 1/2 way there.man i be daydreaming about fine girls alot too.i jus relaxe let***the come naturally i find if when im to eager it goes badly.
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ironmaiden (15629)
2008-10-16 11:15:01
it's normal
i'm thinking about you right now as i type if you catch my drift ;)
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WRYYYY (17074)
2008-10-20 20:59:30
I have this girl I think about for 15 minutes out of every hour. Shit is SO cash
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thegoodneighbor (17528)
2008-11-10 07:21:32
Its fine and normal, but make sure that other parts of your life are not hurting for it. Continue to focus on your friends and other responsiblities and hobbies. You sound like a kid so I would suggest focusing on all of your classes and your friends in them and your after school activities. If I am wrong an your an adult- continue to focus on your career and outside intersts and your friends and family. Nothing is more boring than a guy who has nothing to say toher than they are into you.
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smiledude (19042)
2009-01-02 13:35:00
it is normal i think about a girl all day. i even dream about her dont worry
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NewYorkCity2009 (19271)
2009-01-09 11:22:41
yea dude ur normal im 18 and i have a gf b4 i started dating her we were best friends and i thought about her every single day and i asked my friends they said it was completley normal.
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Jim_Pfoss (19247)
2009-01-09 13:16:57
Really? Do people still say "chick?"

Don't worry about it, by the time you get to be 40 or 50, you will have free time to think about whatever you want every forth or fifth second.
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rooster8 (20180)
2009-02-12 23:57:51
They are probably thinking the same thing about you so casually ask them if they want to cut the BS and have sex
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Clovis5119 (20464)
2009-02-22 17:08:14
Yeah it's just a crush man.
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lalala2009 (22063)
2009-04-17 00:30:30
only when its a very pretty girl that i jst met or at least a funny one!
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Solimorphic (20553)
2009-04-20 17:28:59
Too Late.

They already know we think about them all the time!
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nobody1 (22889)
2009-05-11 15:23:07
ahh this world
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housecat (22932)
2009-06-12 17:22:21
It's normal, but it's not gonna help you get laid. In fact, it'll hurt your chances, like you said. Just catch yourself thinking about her as often as you can and think about something else instead. You can train yourself not to think about her, even though I know it's fun to do so. It's just a fantasy, and it hurts your reality, so don't do it.

The other option is to make a move right when you're feeling it instead of giving it too much time to ferment. That's actually more ideal :)
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awatcher (26918)
2009-08-10 19:57:02
We females know you men spend way tooooo much time thinking about us or getting laid or something along those lines. All hormonal. Women do not get turned on as easily as you all you. A man kept track of how many things or ppl aroused him during the day. To many, while women are not easily arounsed by a mere look. Think a touch and compliments and nice smiles. simple things get to us.
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GoBack6Spaces (28968)
2009-09-25 21:12:41
Your a teenager! =O
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tommyterror123 (35093)
2010-01-20 01:41:16
I sometimes think alot about a person and wonder if its wrong to think that much just cos they are drop dead gorgeous...
seems alot of people do it
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