Is it normal to think of something to say after the moment has passed? Sometimes when I'm in an argument I'll think of a good response to something someone said, but it won't happen until a few minutes after the argument ended. I've had these post-argument thoughts all my life.
Sometimes I go right overboard, and retrace a conversation I've had where someone ticked me off ever so slightly, often a stranger or someone I don't know very well, and I imagine if it had gone much worse about the argument that would have followed.
I wouldn't worry about it too much, I just put it down to an overactive imagination.
Completely normal. Track down the book 'The Art of Verbal Self-Defense', it might help.
Happens way too often.
AS for me - yes, it happens ALL OF THE DAMN TIME!!!
It makes me so annoyed that I didn't come up with it in the moment. Gah!