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this really pretty girl
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Ok. So im a guy who likes this girl named maddie. Shes so amazing!
But theirs this other girl who is obsessed with me and wants me to go out with me. Shes already asked me out like 3 times and it really makes me feel horrible to say no to her. Shes asked me out again. What do i say and is this normal? And is there any way to go out with maddie without making the other girl feel really bad?
Do you think it's normal?
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What do you feel about the other girl...the one who has asked you out like 3 times...as for maddie I would say take it slow get to know her and make sure she knows you, after she is comfortable with her ask her out. hope that helps :)
never ever ever try to make another girl mad, or sad, or whatever. cause then she'll leave her chance for you and pick up someone else.
Listen ask the girl you like out and then bang the girl who likes you on the side. good luck
You shouldn't put your self through torture just to make that girl whose obsessed with you to feel better, your also gonna give this girl false hope if you do go out with her, which will hurt her more in the long run. You should go out with Maddie, the other girl will eventually move on.
Go for Maddie, the other one is too desperate
I would wait and tell them you need to get to know them all well first.
the other chick is a fattie isnt she?

NAW for reals though, just confront ms.pain in ur ballsack and tell her to just stop with her insesent shit and that youre interested in someone else, then focus ur attention on this maddie girl
First off, I would talk to the girl that you dont like and explain that you have no interest in her whatsoever. Maybe she keeps asking you out because she thinks theres hope. So just ler know where you stand. Obviously, this girl has got no woman's pride or self-esteem. Hell, I'm not going to try and make myself look stupid by asking the same guy out 3-4 times, knowing he has already said no. After you've done that, start getting friendly with with the Maddie girl. Once you both feel comfortable, ask her out. You sound like a caring guy, which is good, but be firm with that other girl. and watch out cause when she sees you and Maddie dating she might try to break you two up. That's what happened when I was dating my boyfriend(now ex) some time ago. This chunky girl Rebekah had the biggest thing for him, and while me and him were dating she would make up the craziest lies about me like saying that I was cheating on him. So beware of that girl!
The short answer: There is no way to decline "other girl who you don't like" without hurting her feelings. That is a matter of fact.

This kind of situation is totally normal.

That being said, go for Maddie, and good luck.
she's gonna know u dont like her anyway..so do it now better than later and hurt her feelings more!...and ask the girl u like :)
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@: Bobert
ha those newbies
@: Bobert
Hi Bobert long time no talk if you see me make any mistakes in grammar be sure and correct me, you little "wankstain!"

Have you been "bobbing" up and down on daddy's dick lately? LOL!
Hi "Gizzie". I'm afraid I have no memory of you... I'm glad to see I made such an impression on your life, however, that you're still upset 2 years on. Kind of cute* really.





* - Pathetic.
Also, since you asked for my wisdom; after the word "talk" there should be a full stop.
@: Bobert
Thanks man I appreciate that.
I'm here to help.
There is a reasonably good chance that Maddie feels the same way about you that you feel about the other girl. The more likely you are to be attracted to a girl, the less likely she is to be attracted to you, and visa versa.
The fact that the girl is initiating the relationship means she has serious interest. At least when I was growing up, that was a pretty rare thing. But, I'm guessing you are somewhat young. Experiment and mix it up while you're still young. It becomes harder to move around so freely when you get older.
lmao, you have the best ideas :P