you mentioned it twice, so i thought maybe something was up with that. you posted:
"anyone who purposefully stays in the kitchen just so when you have to get food"
and
"many people I know aren't willing to let you sleep in their house and eat their food."
but, if it's nothing, just forget i asked.
the communist and breast size responses are the same responses those two give everyone. i am not actually "amazed" at your intelligence, but it evident that you are a pretty good writer.
i think because your original story was based on your own conclusions only, and that your original question was based on how "awesome" it feels to threaten your parents, the original responses were just based on that.
only later, when you replied to comments, did you give anyone a sense of what's going on, but by then you had transferred your anger to here.
if you want posters to "change", then it is up to you to change us. you can do that by the way you write and respond. if you are here for compassion or whatever, then you must post accordingly.
post after post, you are more intent on getting revenge and proving yourself "right" and everyone else "wrong" than of self preservation. in fact, you belittle me for even suggesting it.
btw mtnw I am a very rational person and i believe you are correct in the advice you are giving her, but as my previous post proves, people who are WRONG but still try to justify themselves as right just(for lack of better word to show emotion) piss me the hell off.
she claims she can't be brought out, but she comes back, and with a little encouragement, can start towards being somewhat civil.
in her replys to anyone, she "rewrites" what you say into her own words. that's the thing that's hanging her up.
we can all see that she's not capable to have a productive arguement, maybe someday that will come to her. her hurt, or imagined hurt has turned to anger, which is a common thing, and actually easier to deal with for her.
i am wondering if the parents are getting a break since she's got the folks here to be angry with now.
makes me wonder, though, that without finding anyone to be on her side, she still doesn't get what anyone is saying to her.
I'm extemely capable of productive argument. I've been able to respond capably to all of your uneccesary, uncalled for attacks.
I'd also like to respond on your comment that "those 2 guys say that on everyone's wall." Frankly, domestic abuse is something that women have had to struggle through, and the sexualization of violence has helped to maintain the presence of domestic abuse. That means that a post on domestic violence should never be met with sexualization of the poster. However, you don't know that. You don't seem to know anything about domestic abuse, though you have lived through it yourself. You seem to know even less about women, tryinig to justify the sexualized verbal posts that have shown up on this site.
Maybe if you knew more about what you are talking about, you wouldn't have to submit to the "she doens't know what she's talking about" argument in EVERY post that you make.
just a thought. You need education. You also need to learn to quit while you're ahead.
Wow, and it looks like you're getting off on the praise that you get. Why would you even feel you deserve a pat on the back by THAT guy? You think that you love the praise by a guy who spews like a sewer hole. Nice.
Not because I'm crazy, but because you ran out of steam. It looks like you're a SORE LOSER.
And no, I'm not a Jesus freak. I just wanted to point out that you act like people should follow a morally pure regimen, and you hold them by ultra-high standards. I don't literally think you're Jesus. Jesus would probably argue better than you.
how innovative! And i'm glad to see that you can't do it without agreeing with someone who's resorted to name-calling. Though you pretend to have the moral high ground, who is the one that doesn't mind that people call me "bitch?" You seemed to let that one slip past you! That is so. moral. of. you.
Also, the fact that I can write well shows that I have a lot going for me in the logic department.
The only thing you've proven is what has been stated above, and is so obvious: you are a miserable and verbose whiner and blamer - all of it a smoke screen for what you aren't doing.
I didn't say that you were amazed by my intelligence. Please don't twist what I say. I said that you were amazed that I wasn't stupid. You should never make assumptions about people.
Also, maybe you shouldn't be nitpicking everything that I say. the fact that you're quoting me, that you're literally going back into what I've said and drawing quotes from it, is weird and stalker-ish. The main purpose of this post has nothing to do with food, so mind your business.
And as far as that "reap what you sow" message, you are just copying the thing that I JUST wrote to Ollieo about being able to take what you give. Good for you, you can copy someone's ideas!
Next, these posts have been nothing but an attack and overanalysis of something that I said. The fact that you're asking me "explain more about your eating" shows that you are just trying to be nosy.
a. causing the abuse b. starting the threats (instead of reacting to them) c. starting the verbal beration on this post
just shows that you are interested in blaming me. Frankly, I don't put up with that behavior.
If you have personal problems, you need to go see someone instead of dumping them on someone else. I know that you had a bad childhood, now why are you trying to blame someone who is successfully pulling themselves out of theirs?
"anyone who purposefully stays in the kitchen just so when you have to get food"
and
"many people I know aren't willing to let you sleep in their house and eat their food."
but, if it's nothing, just forget i asked.
the communist and breast size responses are the same responses those two give everyone. i am not actually "amazed" at your intelligence, but it evident that you are a pretty good writer.
i think because your original story was based on your own conclusions only, and that your original question was based on how "awesome" it feels to threaten your parents, the original responses were just based on that.
only later, when you replied to comments, did you give anyone a sense of what's going on, but by then you had transferred your anger to here.
if you want posters to "change", then it is up to you to change us. you can do that by the way you write and respond. if you are here for compassion or whatever, then you must post accordingly.
post after post, you are more intent on getting revenge and proving yourself "right" and everyone else "wrong" than of self preservation. in fact, you belittle me for even suggesting it.
you reap what you sow, you get what you give.
she claims she can't be brought out, but she comes back, and with a little encouragement, can start towards being somewhat civil.
in her replys to anyone, she "rewrites" what you say into her own words. that's the thing that's hanging her up.
we can all see that she's not capable to have a productive arguement, maybe someday that will come to her. her hurt, or imagined hurt has turned to anger, which is a common thing, and actually easier to deal with for her.
i am wondering if the parents are getting a break since she's got the folks here to be angry with now.
makes me wonder, though, that without finding anyone to be on her side, she still doesn't get what anyone is saying to her.
You said that everyone thinks I'm wrong. So you're sayinig that the guy who asked my breast size is right?
so, you're saying that the guy who called me a communist is right?
What about the guy that called me a bitch. Wow, he MUST be right!
The people "on your side" are mysogynist losers who enjoy insulting strangers. Why would you want to be on the same side as those guys?
YOU JUST SIDED WITH PHYSICAL AND VERBAL ABUSERS when you said my parents finally get a break from me.
My guess is, you're the same. You believe that parents should abuse their children.
That's a horrible, horrible way of thinking. Your thoughts are poisonous.
I'd also like to respond on your comment that "those 2 guys say that on everyone's wall." Frankly, domestic abuse is something that women have had to struggle through, and the sexualization of violence has helped to maintain the presence of domestic abuse. That means that a post on domestic violence should never be met with sexualization of the poster. However, you don't know that. You don't seem to know anything about domestic abuse, though you have lived through it yourself. You seem to know even less about women, tryinig to justify the sexualized verbal posts that have shown up on this site.
Maybe if you knew more about what you are talking about, you wouldn't have to submit to the "she doens't know what she's talking about" argument in EVERY post that you make.
just a thought. You need education. You also need to learn to quit while you're ahead.
That's how you sustain an intellectual ARGUMENT. YOU REASON AGAINST WHAT THE OTHER PERSON SAYS.
Welcome to a sustained conversation.
WOW. I'm sure that all those times you were hiding in your bedroom, scared shitless, you were not even a slight bit angry.
you must be JESUS. Why don't you come down and save some people, Jesus?
Not because I'm crazy, but because you ran out of steam. It looks like you're a SORE LOSER.
And no, I'm not a Jesus freak. I just wanted to point out that you act like people should follow a morally pure regimen, and you hold them by ultra-high standards. I don't literally think you're Jesus. Jesus would probably argue better than you.
Wow, you are the worst sore loser I've seen in a while.
a. I'm wrong
b. you're right.
how innovative! And i'm glad to see that you can't do it without agreeing with someone who's resorted to name-calling. Though you pretend to have the moral high ground, who is the one that doesn't mind that people call me "bitch?" You seemed to let that one slip past you! That is so. moral. of. you.
Also, the fact that I can write well shows that I have a lot going for me in the logic department.
Go ahead.
Try to show how defending yourself against nasty attacks is wrong.
Being able to argue against you is nuts?
Then you must think that the whole WORLD is nuts, because plenty of people aren't going to agree with your opinions!
Just because you're not as smart as a girl, doesn't mean you have to get nasty and angry about it.
And I used better logic than you... I guess that would technically make YOU the nuts one, right? Because you're the one who never makes any sense.
Also, maybe you shouldn't be nitpicking everything that I say. the fact that you're quoting me, that you're literally going back into what I've said and drawing quotes from it, is weird and stalker-ish. The main purpose of this post has nothing to do with food, so mind your business.
And as far as that "reap what you sow" message, you are just copying the thing that I JUST wrote to Ollieo about being able to take what you give. Good for you, you can copy someone's ideas!
Next, these posts have been nothing but an attack and overanalysis of something that I said. The fact that you're asking me "explain more about your eating" shows that you are just trying to be nosy.
a. causing the abuse
b. starting the threats (instead of reacting to them)
c. starting the verbal beration on this post
just shows that you are interested in blaming me. Frankly, I don't put up with that behavior.
If you have personal problems, you need to go see someone instead of dumping them on someone else. I know that you had a bad childhood, now why are you trying to blame someone who is successfully pulling themselves out of theirs?
That is defeatist, fatalist crap. You seem to peddle in crap.
This has nothing to do wtih who I am, and everything to do with what you think I should be doing. Mind you B!