Threesome??

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this is abnormal, and any guy who wants this is clearly not loyal to you, and you should find someone better.

A threesome (with 2 gals) is a FANTASY of many of guys.

Ask him how he would he feel about a threesome with you AND another guy.

I think that it is normal in the sense that it is not very uncommon for a boyfriend, husband to ask such a question. But it is not normal in the sense that some people think that the human race is supposed to be monogamous. (thats just my opinion) so it could be taken two ways.

I'm a man, and this is one of my all-time fantasies. The male friends I have with whom I've discussed this sort of things all have this fantasy too. Once in my life I've had the good fortune of actually living it, and it's one of the best memories I have.
It did not make my girlfriend and I love each other less. It did not make me despise her or her friend. It did not turn us into a couple of debauched perverts.
I think it's ok and even brave for your boyfriend to ask. Whether you go for it or not should be based on whether this turns you on. Not on what the rest of the world thinks of it, and certainly not on you doing something against your will to indulge your boyfriend.

sure its normal whatever pix plz

Thanks so much for your comments you have all made me feel loads better, i was freaking out about this and wondering if he wanted my friend more than he wanted me or if he was bored with me :(

Well, it seems like he is bored with you, and I would be pissed if my boyfriend ever suggested having a threesome because that means he has considered and wants to have sex with your friend.

You must be female! Look, it's like this: every boyfriend you've ever had has considered what it would be like to have sex with every girlfriend of yours he ever set his eyes on, and a few thousand other women. Get it?

Just because it happens doesn't mean it is right. I would break up with any asshole who suggests a threesome. It is dirty, wrong, and he clearly has wandering eyes AND a wandering penis.

why are you wrting p**s? Whenever did penis become a dirty word?

I did not star out the word. It does it automatically. I do not condsider proper termonolgy "bad" or "inappropriate" words. In fact I perfer using them because slang just seems degrading. For some reason though, it does not star out vagina. It does penis though.

i think then every man dream to fuck with 2 girls in the same time, but if he love you and you dont wanna do this hes suposed to respect your choice.
if not, he probably dont love you.

Thanks guys, i know he's gutted i turned the threesome down, but he's respected my decision

Don't worry about it. If you ever change your mind it won't be too late, even if you're 80 by then :-)

Not all guys ask, no. Sometimes it just kinda happens... But it never turns out very well. I mean, the experience is pretty intense... But unless you plan on never seeing the "third wheel" again, things WILL get f'd up. Take it from me.

A3 SUM =EVEY GUYS WILDEST DREAMS AND MINE HEY I LOVE HAVING THEM [IM A STAIGT GIRL]BUT DONT LET HIM FORCE U INTO IT ONLY DO IT WHEN YOUR READY [IF U EVER ARE] OTHER WISE U WONT ENJOY IT!!

we'd love to ask the question but darn't

sorry about that last comment
one of my friend was let loose on thecomputer

sorry bout that last comment one of my friends was let loose on the computer

Wow your boyfriend is a real prick. Kick his ass.

This means hes bored with you for real!! dump his ass. threesomes are just wrong period. one man one woman thats the way its suppost to be. and eventhough alot of males fantisize about these things, well its normal but also dosent mean its not wrong if they actually do it. my friend kristy and her boyfriend had a threesome with another guy and now the boyfriend has found her in bed with this other guy numerous times. Its not healthy for a relationship at all, trust me.

My boyfriend would never ask this!! he thinks its wrong and i dont blame him

Thanks Again Guys! Most of the comments helped me and made me feel better. All is well now, We havent done it because i don't want too, and it's ok everything between us is great! x

Guys and girls alike will want threesomes from time to time. My girlfriend is bi-sexual and craves another woman in our bed all the time. It makes our love life better just talking about it. She enjoys when I call out the names of girls she wants to have sex with while I am pounding her. A thressome is a great idea.

I'm 100 percent straight so I don't like other girls THAT way. Though I have to admit I've thought about being with two guys. Not to say that I would ever do it, and I would NEVER do it with a bf because I CERISH that connection of being one on one. My motto is don't do anything you wouldn't want done to yourself. I don't my man's dick in another girl, and especially not in front of me! The idea seriously bugs me (enough to make me want to hurt somebody) And what about passing fluids? I don't want her shit in me. That is disgusting and what if she had an STD? If he cheats he cheats, then I'm out, but actually openly admitting he wants to screw someone else? He'd better get away from me, and freaking quick! I might be sweet but I can be very violent if I think some really deserves it.

Even the ugly ones? Come on now!

quote: But it is not normal in the sense that some people think that the human race is supposed to be monogamous." end quote

When are people going to learn there is no such thing as normal, just what our societies and cultures teach us! If normal excited everyone around the world would be the same but we're not. People should do what makes them feel comfortable. And if it doesn't they shouldn't do it. It's as simple as that! Nobody should be telling anyone 'That isn't normal, this is what is right...'

i agree with nonamegirl do what you feel is right not what people say is right

a guy that iv been seeing wants a threesome with one of my firends and i think its wierd. im not sexually attaracted to her. were just not klike thast. so i know it would be a disaster! i dont want it but im kind of mad that he basically wants her in bed ! my best friend.
told him im not interested in it, with her anyway, and he is fine with it. but i dont know whether to dump him still. im still kind of mad about it !!!
i think theyre lots of fun but the third party would have to b a neutral stranger or something random !