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threesome? help me!!
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Hello.. I have a bf and he asked me once to have a threesome.. I was okk with the idea because I wanted to try something new and different so we had it with another girl..
He didn't change with me at all after the threesome.. Infact we even became closer..
And now he wants to do it again with a different girl.. But I don't wanna do it again.. And he really does..
I suggeseted having a threesome with a guy but he got so upset and rejected the idea right away..
Do u think I should have the threesome again or not?
Thnx :)
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bkdoubleu (28961)
2009-09-25 19:02:52
Unless your orgy material it will eventually destroy your relationship
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flemdiggity92 (28964)
2009-09-25 19:25:47
My boyfriend wanted to have a threesome too, but I told him no way. I would never want to share my boyfriend with anyone, or have to watch him have sex with another girl in front of me. A lot of people have threesomes, so it's normal. But if you're not comfortable having one, tell your boyfriend. If he gets mad or whatever, then he must not be worth your time. You should be enough. Don't let him pressure you into something you don't want to do. If he really cares, he'll be okay with you not wanting to and will drop it.
Hope that helps (:
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oquenbe (28566)
2009-09-25 20:21:12
your bf likes fucking other girls. do me a favor and understand the fact that it is wrong morally and physically-as far as health goes to do so........basically your bf is an asshole oh and this is coming from a young male who doesnt mind going balls deep but the point is that if i want to go on a fucking streak i dont get a girlfriend all hes going to do is give u a life long surprise that involves a lot of cream and long days of "what if"
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oquenbe (28566)
2009-09-25 20:26:13
plus if hes got all these girls willing to do threesomes imagine what hes doing when your not around.i mean you dont just walk around asking?????????????????........think about it.....hes fucking u then fucking her then saying "hey why dont we all fuck together?" then repeating the process

im srry if i sound like a dick but i hate these turd ticklers that call themselves men and put a mask on the ones that really are.
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cookiegirl (27489)
2009-09-25 23:28:08
not fair, if he doesnt wanna do it with a guy then hes just taking advantage of you and the whole gettin closer thing, j¡he was overcompensating
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cabinet70 (4440)
2009-09-26 04:09:24
I think you could have a threesome again but hes got to be fair and let you have a 2 guy one as well. he got his way you should get yours after all you let him have his fantasy. So many guys can handle 2 girls but are frightened to have another man
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agentnyc (28990)
2009-09-26 11:19:55
yes u should do it again with another girl,you said it gut u guys closer
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heritage (28991)
2009-09-26 11:37:25
me and my wife started to do 3 somes with a woman she like to do it with a woman that all she wanted to do is her and her only i had to watch
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Failed_the_Turing_test (28786)
2009-09-26 12:00:48
You should do what you want - if you don't want to, tell him you love him (assuming you do) and that you tried it since he wanted to, but having tried it, do not want to again.

He had no bussiness getting mad when you suggested a 3 some with two guys - but while it is a double standard, I am positive more men would consider a two girl 3-some than two guy one girl (judging by porn movies this seems the case - assuming they make what sells)
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Just_wanted_to_post (28976)
2009-09-26 12:33:57
it's always been my opinion that dating couple shouldn't have threesomes. well atleast not until they've been together for a pretty long time. why? because it can lead to cheating and stuff. look at your situation, sure he's not cheating on you but he's already thinking about getting it on with another girl.
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ieatrocksdirt (28949)
2009-09-26 12:59:39
if you dont want to do it then dont do it. maybe you should think about why you dont want to, and then talk it out with your boyfriend.
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iin2000 (27833)
2009-09-26 13:02:17
no you shouldn't! it's the beginning of an end to your relationship. he will start to ask for more and more!
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anonymous117 (28941)
2009-09-27 06:28:23
Still waiting for answers..
Plz comment
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cooldavid (27425)
2009-09-28 00:32:30
Of course you should do it again, but I think its reasonable that you should get YOUR fantasy too. Maybe you should do swinging with another couple... then it would be fair
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robinbrown (29082)
2009-09-28 03:49:24
Absolutely not. Every time I've ever done anything sexual that I thought was a little weird at the time -- I've lived to regret it. Sometimes for a very long time. I had quite a bit of casual sex when I was much younger and I sure wish I could take it back.
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isitn0rmal (29086)
2009-09-28 05:08:46
@: cooldavid
you should tell him - no problem - every other time , boy , girl, boy,girl,boy,girl. thats fair???
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No1isnormal (28352)
2009-09-28 16:19:00
If you are not comfortable doing it again DON'T! If he isn't willing to fulfill your fantasy of including another man then HELL NO. If he wants to be with another woman he should entertain the idea of having two men please you! What's fair is fair
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toxicckisses (29385)
2009-10-05 01:25:11
um... have you ever thought he is using you he got tired of u that why he wants to he's doin it for him or else he wouldnt keep bugging you about it cuz when you say no then no is the answer
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Budthewise (29424)
2009-10-06 02:32:13
@: bkdoubleu
Of course he does, he is a guy. However, if it did bring you closer, then I would say go for it.

HOWEVER, get something back in return. I am not saying another dude but think of it as a "get out of jail free" card if you state it upfront first.
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drileyn (29511)
2009-10-09 16:37:41
be careful with adding another guy because there is this extreme double standard about guy and girl's sexuality: most people think it's ok and even hot for a girl to be sexually open (as far as some type of sex w/ same gender) but not a guy. Perhaps it would help if you reassured him that you wouldn't think of him any less if you and him and another guy did it.
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justmetalking (29624)
2009-10-10 16:57:01
Wake up girl. This relationship is going nowhere. The fact he wants to have sex with other women but doesn't want you to have sex with other men is a huge clue. Do you think he respects you? Do you think he sees you a a potential mother of his children? He is just using you to act out his sexual fantasies. Best to chalk this one up to experience and move on.
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lovesick (29623)
2009-10-12 15:14:06
i wouldnt do it again with a girl, just a guy. tell him either do it at least once with a guy, or its over and see what he says then...
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112245858 (29847)
2009-10-15 08:48:20
yes a guy dosent want to see another guy nude having sex with his girlfriend and guys think that a girl cares if thay c another girl nude
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anonymous117 (28941)
2009-10-17 10:38:34
Thank u for all ur comments.. It helped me a lot :)

I said no to my boyfriend and he was okk with it.. He even told me I don't want u doing anything ur not comfortable with..
I guess he cares abt me..
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