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My girlfirend has always had a problem with letting her ex bf go. We've been together for 2 years and a few months and they always do the same sh*t all the time. They are friends one day, in a big fight the next, not talking to each other for a few weeks or so, then they are friends again. She's always told me what they've talked about and always cried to me about it. Her ex has always treated her bad even in the past and still does. I'm the one who has always given her everything and treated her way better than him.
She's always told me that she can't let go of him, and always wants "US" to be there in her life. I hate that thought to death. So now, she broke up with me because "she wants time away from both of us" even though all i did was love her.
(here's the good part)
Since me and her are now single, she wants me to stay in the picture and always be there and still be her "lover". Basically she wants me to act the same that i have always acted with her, which is very awkward for me because i'm used to just "disappearing" from an ex and losing contant.
Is it normal to just want to lose contact with her for a while or..am i suppose to wait or something because she keeps saying (even tho we are broken up) that we are going to have a big family together in the future..or am i just suppose to be her friend which kills me because i don't want to be her friend. I want to be her real lover without her ex in the picture. I don't know what to do..
ps. sorry this is so long.
She's always told me that she can't let go of him, and always wants "US" to be there in her life. I hate that thought to death. So now, she broke up with me because "she wants time away from both of us" even though all i did was love her.
(here's the good part)
Since me and her are now single, she wants me to stay in the picture and always be there and still be her "lover". Basically she wants me to act the same that i have always acted with her, which is very awkward for me because i'm used to just "disappearing" from an ex and losing contant.
Is it normal to just want to lose contact with her for a while or..am i suppose to wait or something because she keeps saying (even tho we are broken up) that we are going to have a big family together in the future..or am i just suppose to be her friend which kills me because i don't want to be her friend. I want to be her real lover without her ex in the picture. I don't know what to do..
ps. sorry this is so long.
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but i can say that taking time away from her is not a bad idea. or tell her that if she really loves you and wants to get over her ex maybe she should take some serious time away from her ex. i did this to my boyfirend and he asked me to please relax with my ex a little and if i loved him i would. it wasnt just him being a selfish jerk, he was right, i needed to get away. so i stoped talking to my ex for like 9 months and when i started talking to him again (just recently) we have become good friends but there is nothing there anymore. its really nice for everone in the situation
if she cant assure you that she has no feeling for him then you should take a break from her for a while.
I suggest you dont be a booty call when she has a fight with her ex (now her boyfriend).
if she put her ex on a platform, and you in the nose bleed section while you were dating... then she isnt worth your trouble. tell her if she likes him so much then go back. IGNORE HER PLEASE IGNORE HER!!!!!!