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to break up, or to stay?
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For the past 2 years, ive been dating this guy, for the first thing everything was nearly perfect, but then the 2nd year dawned on us. I started to shell up more and felt unable to open up, now all i feel is hurt and bottled up emotions. I keep trying to go to him with problems and confronting him with the situation, but he never even shows he cares. Ive threatened to break up with him, and he starts freaking out and acting caring for a day or two...then goes back to his normal self. From what he says hes completly open with me, so i dont see his problem. I go to him with problems, and he promises to help, but then he just treats me like a dumbass, then ends up promising it wont happen again...but it does. Hes broken many promises and hurt me over and over, but i still love him. What should i do? should i break up with him? should i give him a few more chances? does this normally happen in relationships? thanks for reading.
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Chuckle (2016)
2006-08-13 07:58:53
you didn't mention your sex life
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Moi (588)
2006-08-13 09:56:54
Perhaps you are dumping to many of your problems on him. Maybe you should be talking to someone else about some of those problems, confide in a close friend, parent or even a therapist instead.
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CrazyMoFo (1953)
2006-08-13 16:33:09
Just f*cking dump his ass and go on a 2 week f*ck binge. Assh*les dont change.
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cutiepie (2691)
2006-08-15 22:39:31
well if he hurts u over and over and keep breaking his promises then maybe u two wernt ment to be as a cupple only as friends.

in my own words he sounds like an a**hole that needs to fix himself and needs to start treating you with respect! i would dump him for all the pain he has cost to you.
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coupleacomments (3704)
2006-09-12 17:04:31
I think you should stay with him. from personal experience, if he loves you he is actually trying to change. The reason he would be more open and caring after you bring it up, is because it is fresh in his mind, but it doesnt mean that he isnt always thinking of it and trying. Things will get better for you and your boyfriend i promise. You just have to be both sure that you are in love with each other. If you are, then you can change anything between you.
Hope you sort everything out. (i am going thtough the same thing in my relationship, and we can see the end of the troubles now)
Good luck.
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