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Too Good to be True
I met this guy off the internet, I know that sounds bad already. He's 6 and a half years older than me. That sounds even worse. I met him in September of 2005. We talked for months. I started having feelings for him. In February of 2006, I finally told him. He said he liked me back. I thought it was too good to be true. In May he got a "girlfriend." We both went to Fan Fair in Nashville, TN back in June of 2006. I met him in person then. We were closer than ever. My feelings for him only grew stronger. By January of 2007 we made plans to meet up in Seattle, since he is moving up there for college, and I live three hours away. We met up and had a great time. He was playing footsies with me under the table and hugging me all the time. It was sweet. After we got back and we went back to talking on the internet... I told him again that I liked him a lot. That I was in love with him. He finally came out after a year and a half of me knowing him that he's gay. He said he was in love with me though, and that he believes it was nothing less than meant to be that we met. Is it weird to be in love with a gay man? I think he might actually be bisexual. I am too scared to ask him though. He has a boyfriend... who was actually his "girlfriend" that he told me about in May. He is a huge Christian, which I don't see how since being homosexual is a sin, and he is going to a Christian college and talked about people saying God transformed them. They weren't gay anymore. Do you think that's possible?
So pretty much, my questions are:
Is it weird to be in love with a gay man?
Do you think he's bisexual?
Do you think God can transform homosexuals into straight people?
:/
I really do love him though.
So pretty much, my questions are:
Is it weird to be in love with a gay man?
Do you think he's bisexual?
Do you think God can transform homosexuals into straight people?
:/
I really do love him though.
Do you think it's normal?
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Sleeping with another man is, but liking other men isnt.
Also, he is to old for you,and ur probably 12, right? Find urself a boyfriend, he was being nice, uc ant love him, u havnt experienced life yet
I know being gay is not a sin, but it says so in the bible. I find nothing wrong with being homosexual.
Thank you for your thoughts on it.
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If gay men can be turned by God they turn into this anyway so it won't help you I'm afraid.
2nd one: He may be bisexual. He obviously cared enough for you prior so it could be a possibility.
3rd: Don't believe in god so i don't know. I don't think he can transform, not sure. Ask god yourself :)
primitive if you ask me
Not at all, you love who you love.
Do you think he's bisexual?
Honestly no, I don't think he is. If he was bisexual then he would have asked you out or have made some obvious indication - since he said he liked you.
Do you think God can transform homosexuals into straight people?
I KNOW they can't. They may be able to persuade someone to keep their feelings hidden away, by making them feel as though their feelings are in someway shameful, but the desires and feelings remain. As I said before, you love who you love.
Stay friends with him, if he is bisexual then you'll know about it eventually and then maybe you can make a move. Carry on with life and enjoy having a friend who cares so much about you. :-)
IMHO, it's between them and God if they believe in God.
All in all though, you would be boyfriend has a lot of issues that he needs to deal with. I'd suggest moving on. You're too young to get bogged down with that kind of stuff. There will be other guys for you...
Good Luck!