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Too horny?
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47 Comments

I know it's possible, but what's the deal? It's like every little thing can set me off. Many times, I've caught myself not paying attention to what someone is saying because I'm thinking about having sex with this person. It seems to have just gotten to this point about a year ago. I often have trouble paying attention and sleeping because I can't stop thinking about sex and all of the things I want to try.

I'm a chick, by the way. Also why this is troubling me. Not that women don't get horny or that men are constantly horny. Let's not go there.
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I wish you'd told us how old you are. I had your problem when I was fourteen - I loved school, loved learning, always wanted to do well, but I couldn't concentrate on my homework. I kept thinking of boys I wanted to ****. If I masturbated, I just got sleepy. I'm 23 and still the same. You must realise that being highly sexed is normal - minority but normal. It isn't good and it isn't bad. It's us.
@: zsazsa
I'm 26, so yeah... Some days are better than others. Thanks for the positive reply.
Wow thats good thing I think I am exactly the same I am 25.I do have a boyfriend for a year it still doesnt stop me been horny all the time I think its very normal. According to me peeps who are too horny are really good in bed
You both sound like you need personal counselling, please send me your home adresses and I will be right over.
I love you...
@: mjl84
I really don't think love has anything to do with it.
well my boyfriend is always horny which is fun and you need to be with someone that will please you in all your needs it helps
I AM THE SAME WAY AND ALWAYZ THOUGHT THAT THAT WAS STRANGE AND I ALSO THOUGHT I WAS THE ONLY ONE THAT DO IT BUT I JUST NOT
i need 2 fuk e day
Well, I can tell you guys feel the same way.
i dont think its abnormal, especially if you dont have sex very often. for me anyways, the longer i go without sex the more i think about it. even in random "fantasy" situations. where i could be just bullshitting with someone but all i can think about is mauling them.... its normal as long as your not creepy about it. think of it this way. when you do find someone it will be that much better since you can act out your fantasies.
that happens 2 me 2 when i wake up in the morning i have a boner for some reason it gets annoying and its really embarassin 2 have a boner in gym with baggy shorts when doing jumping jacks but i only get random boners when hot girls pass by and wen i wake up in the morning
OMG!!! this is exactly how i am!!!! i also have a boyfriend,but for sum reason,hes the complete opposite of me!!! its almost like he dusnt have a sex drive..lol..but ya,its normal to be horny all the time..and its hella fun.lo.
Hey reddevil. I know how you feel...maybe you just have a ton of built up sexual tension...are you a virgin? I am, I'm 20, but my god, it's like the sex drive kicked in and I'm horny all the time....what to do? Are things better now?
Well I've been reading for a while but I had to reply to this one, please! Don't think this way, many people think it is just normal mostly doctors and stuff but it is NOT, you are probably a sexual addict and you don't ever know just like a gamer and something else.
Well if your in your prime that is mostly what you are thinking about anyway. Because we are here to procreate which means we have to have sex drives and constantly be in the mood for sex.
I am a man of 36 years. I can get an erection in a moment. I have never had sex. I masturbate every day. I have been like this since I can remember, going all the way back to grade school. I had always thought I was different because of this habit. Good to hear there are women who have the same frequency of urges. Then why can't I find them???
Wow, I am feeling the same way, however, I suspect the originations and reasons could be all together different. Perhaps what you consider "horny" might be different from that of what others might feel or perceive. Not knowing your age is also a mystery here, however, I suggest that if you do want to get to the bottom, you seek out some limited talk therapy with someone you can trust and see where it goes from there. If there is any abnormal behaviors developing, that may be a good alternative source in which to seek out answers.

For me in my 40's I simply know it's a result of being denied mens' attention, affections, and true intimacy for several years in an unhealthy marital relationship for which I have recently left and separated. Now all of sudden, men are interested in me and I am responding in a way that is satisfying, pleasing. In fact having a casual relationship that is feeding my sexual needs, which seems to be increasing the endorphins, and I am also running on "full throttle" with the "horniness" if you will, but feel as though I am increasingly satisifed, those feelings should wane a bit.

Good luck and enjoy it. Women tend to lose interest, I feel because of other factors that affect their interest, physical, emotional, etc., and I can't see any reason at this point to consider you abnormal just based on some generalizations.

Enjoy it now and savor every moment, bottle it up and set it aside for later, or for a time when you may need it in the future.
Why can't I find such women??? Where are they hiding or where do they hide?
I am always horny 2...i am a 30 yr old woman. Everything is sex with me...lol
According to these comments, you women obviously hide it very well!
Only 2 animals on the planet have a clitoris. One is a pigmy chimpanzee (bonobo) and the other a human.

The same two have hidden breeding cycles ie they do not go into heat.

Only one has breasts.

If we are divinely created, we were created to have sex.

I suspect sex is a mechanism to achieve spiritual bliss, but has been degraded by our societies (churches run by men who fear the power of female sexuality).

So are you too horny? or are you just a highly evolved spiritual being trapped in a society which has told you this is wrong?
wow i didnt know some women were like this im a guy and i also have this feeling. i know this is already the steryotype but im not the same i cant imagine doing it with girls that i like but with an other hot girl i can image myself doing it
To Happily Single, If you are looking for really horny women and think you can't find them, I have news for you. You probably have found them, but you (like most men) don't realize that women need 15 minutes more foreplay than you think we do. Then we're ready to go and go and go. =D
i am the same way.... and i disagree with the person that said you might be a sex addict.... Behaviors associated with sexual addiction include:

Compulsive masturbation (self-stimulation)
Multiple affairs (extra-marital affairs)
Multiple or anonymous sexual partners and/or one-night stands
Consistent use of pornography
Unsafe sex
Phone or computer sex (cybersex)
Prostitution or use of prostitutes
Exhibitionism
Obsessive dating through personal ads
Voyeurism (watching others) and/or stalking
Sexual harassment
Molestation/rape --

you just have a high sex drive... its totally normal!! i just play with my self a few times a day!
I've always been horny. I remember getting erection in church! I would love to find a girl that likes having sex just as much as me. There doesn't seem to be that many!
I was a victim of child molestation, therefore I have a high sex drive & it sucks, but at the same time, it isn't always a problem. I'm just constantly horny so it sucks...I'm an 18 year old girl & I've never had actual sex. I masturbate everyday..sometimes more than once.
Wen i wuz 15 i wuz really like that also
wait i thought humans and dolphins were the only ones who had sex like that wait no thats for pleasure my bad....hehehe...
I am exactly the same way.
One minute I'll be happy and focused and the next I'm thinking about fucking someone. Like this one kid, I made out with like 1 week ago. I got back home and forgot about it for awhile, but now all I want to do is jump his bones!! My God! lol
You know, they make panties with a built in vibrator......at least it would help keep you from sleeping around. Also, they do have programs for that. Just be safe if you choose to have multiple partners. It's not just you having sex, they participate too.
Like another who commented, I wish you had mentioned your age. I can say this; I hope that you are never impacted by some ignorant man who labels you "oversexed" or some other degrading title. Not knowing your age, I can lend this; in most cases, when women get about 35 or so, their labido tends to increase. I do not know if this is connected to their (so-called) biological clock but there seems to be some truth to that. If you have a passion for sex, please, don't get in trouble with it and don't deny the blessings. Good hunting.
this is normal to wake up and have a erection it is not cause u r having any sexual urges or r horny its just simply something ur body does if u have ever noticed it is fairly hard to piss while u have a boner/erection
abnormal dude
you're fat so kinda weird for me to put u on my list
@: zsazsa
You should just having sex and do all the stuff you want. If you have enough orgasms you should be able to calm down and concentrate.
Perfectly normal as long as you don't let it rule your life.

BTW, I'm a chick too and I'm the same way!
your mint
Am I REALLY the only one here who thinks you might just be a Nymphomaniac?
(Look it up, mate.)

The pun was intended, by the way.
you just have a big sex drive. your fine
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Dont worry its perfectly normal for a young woman. Enjoy it because it goes away fast around the age of 40...so you have a little over 10 years left. Oh, BTW if you have kids, then kiss your sex drive good bye.
I'm a sex addict, like an actual, diagnosed sex addict. And I am also attractive so it was very easy to always indulge in my addiction, starting around the age of 14. If you are just going through puberty, this is pretty normal, EVEN for girls (even though society says otherwise). However, if you're older than that (I'm 20), you might have a problem. If it's affecting your life (sounds like it is), I'd see a therapist.
I personally think you are just slightly over sexually.

However I think you should read books on consecration and how to distract your thoughts on the sex front.

You are normal don't worry.
Your not you only one.

I brand you normal lol
well girl welcome to the club , my bf think the i want to much and i got it have it everyday even if I am by myself ;) and yes everywhere i go its on my mind i dont think its nothng wrong with that :)..
i get horney other everything 2