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Are relationships between a 20 year old and a 15 year old common?
Do you think it's normal?
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Comments (28)
Anonymous
2005-10-10 13:09:27
They are all too common, but shouldn't be. It's wrong. If you want to have a 5 year age difference, please wait until that 15 year old is 18. They may think they can make those sort of decisions, but they can't. Plus even if that 15 year old wants to have sexual relations, and their parents find out, it can be considered staturory rape, whether it was consensual or not. Please, if you are the 20 year old...stay away for your own good. You dont' want to carry around the reputation of a sex offender now do you?
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Anonymous Story Author
2005-10-10 13:23:20
she's a lot more mature then a 15 year old girl usually is, so is there really a big problem with staying with her?
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Moi (588)
2005-10-10 16:19:28
Yup, it's a problem big still, she is still a teenager.

Would her parents approve of you dating her?? I don't think so . . .
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Anonymous Story Author
2005-10-10 16:28:27
Her mom doesn't mind at all, it's her dad that doesn't like the fact that there's a 5 year age difference between us.
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Anonymous
2005-10-10 18:38:48
Be with her, but DON'T have sex with her, like I said in the first comment, the parents can charge statutory rape against you. That can lable can haunt you the rest of your life.
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pie1985 (720)
2005-10-11 08:18:02
Depends where your from, in the UK, wait a year then do what u like. ye'll get called a peado so watch out. Mind you that doesnt make any difference, i got called a peado when i went out with my boyfriend when he was 15 and i was 16, theres 8 month between us, oh the shame
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Anonymous Story Author
2005-10-11 11:54:33
Thanks for all your comments.
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magnum2 (771)
2005-10-11 19:34:54
an angry dad is not good....who knows what he could do....maybe date someone with less guilt attached
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windolickr (267)
2005-10-15 09:28:24
this is more common than it probably should be. the reason is that there is gulf of experience and a big difference in hormone levels. 20 year old gets charmed by the cute teen, 15 year old gets infatuated. 15 year old ultimately gets their heart broken.
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frodopacket (780)
2005-10-16 14:37:37
its not common but its not a pedophil case. in canada girls are able to choice her boyfriend at age of 14 and 15 its in the law.but 20 and 15 its on limit, if she's consetent there is no problem. im 26 yrs old and next winter ive been with a 19yrs old girl, 7 yrs of difference, remember that in 5 years she gonna have 20 and you 25. its not a problem for me.
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roguetrick (2265)
2006-05-30 10:55:21
My girlfriend is 16 and I'm 19. Just don't have sex. If you can't do that the relationship isn't worth the hassle anyway.
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Arcman (2419)
2006-06-14 19:26:22
@: Anonymous
Is she hot?
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kandii (2491)
2006-06-25 10:11:12
well im 17 and thinking about bein with this guy whose 37 fuck what the parents think
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Anonymous
2006-07-01 15:19:20
just give her what she wants. i give my 29 yr old girl the thing im only 14. god i love the internet
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UnKnOwNn (3848)
2006-09-27 14:08:21
THERES NOTHING WRONG WITH DAT...I NO DIS 13 YR KID DAT FUCKED DIS 24 YR WOMAN LOL ITS WEIRD ISNT IT...JUST 4 GET BOUT AGE....AGE AINT NUTTIN BUT A NUMBER....REMEMBER DAT ALWAYS
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melayka (4196)
2006-11-01 20:12:04
Your going to jail bitch
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blahblah00 (4399)
2006-11-22 05:26:24
I am 18 and my boyfriend is 22 turning 23 in feb, and i cans ee where your coming from with the parents- but i dont think its a good idea when she is so young, even though shes mature- when shes 15 she still doesnt know who she really is let alone who she wants. keep it real and dont fu*k around or your going to get in big trouble.
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bad_ass_babe_4202002 (3831)
2006-12-01 09:19:42
yo dont listen to anyone if yall want to be together then be together. just like what i do and tell otha people that its none of their business!! and to leave u the fuck alone.... believe me it works in a 16 yr old gurl with a 21 yr old guy and the same 5 yrs should stop u.
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iluvhim (4756)
2006-12-13 20:15:33
no. im 15 and i have sucked cocks 8 years older than me. makes it more funn. more mature cocks.
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goldie224 (4758)
2006-12-13 21:10:31
not really, depends on the people
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Alien-Carrot (4784)
2006-12-17 15:51:27
relationshipe between 20 and 15 years olds lead to relationships between 20 year old guy and 45 year old convict nemad bubba
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sisophous (3738)
2006-12-17 15:58:49
A 5 years difference means nothing later in life, but at your age it is huge in maturity and illegal with the exception of one state, South Carolina. Best to stick to age 18 or no younger than age 17. Age of legal consent varies state by state, here's the link to look it up if you wish:

http://www.avert.org/aofconsent.htm
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smithee (4389)
2007-01-04 09:14:43
thats leaning towards the pedophile stage. I don't know, its close to normal but I think the 15 year old is too young. Maybe add a couple of years to the 15 year old and it would be fine.
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smithee (4389)
2007-01-11 21:47:28
yeah its normal if you're in alabama
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dragoon188 (5130)
2007-01-20 21:37:19
Err sadly yes they are common, but frowned upon
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piratewithahardon (5527)
2007-01-27 09:09:14
some guy in my cadet section is 19 and going out with a 14 year old. I think it's fucking sick tbh.

But they do have tighter pussies
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Shavemeslowly (5177)
2007-01-27 12:33:14
For such a young age, 5 years is a big gap. Also, where I live 16 is the age of consent.
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BLiiie (7459)
2007-04-11 21:57:39
Okay here it is so I'm 16 and ive been involed with a 20 year old for the past year. yes we are 4 years apart and I dont see the bad in it. We have never had sexual relations because im not emotionally ready. so theres no problem there. but If i was 22 and he was 26 it would be of no problem. and i know your probably thinking "well your not 22!" but i dont think that age should matter if its true love.

But if your just looking for a quick fuck.
then maybe you deserve the title of a pedophile.

Men have dated younger women for generation.
and will continue to for generations to come.

dont let people poorly judge you for what 1,000s of men are doing right now.
Best of luck!

-Peace.
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