Topless in front of BF's friends

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I see something in the near future.
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I wouldn't do it. Sounds like you're breasts are just being paraded around by your bf, that's not cool. But hey, whatever floats your boat

It's like a brag, he's like check out my bitches rack lol.

Sounds like you have absolutely no respect for yourself, and you like any attention you can get.

If you think your bf's friends thought it was "cool" that you hung out with them while being topless, they did, but they also thought you were a total attention whore, and probably a "closet" real whore as well.

If he asked, and you agreed, then that's that. Do I think it's a good idea? You run the risk of getting pictures taken of you, and maybe one of his friends might think you're just being slutty and take it as his chance to "get you".

Please don't do it anymore... Have some self respect :/

maybe it a bit of voyeurism interest

NO, that's not okay unless you like the attention i guess, become a stripper then, but your father, YIKES! You would be in trouble if he found out. You and your BF should be sharing porn with each-other not with his friends, that isn't right at all sorry id find a new bf if he just let you do that, i wouldn't let my girl ever do that purposely, accidents may happen but DON'T make a habit of it.

I don't think you should. Unless you want them to think you're a slut. I would have gone back upstairs if I were you...

Man how I hate sluts

It sounds like you didn't mind it either, or you'd not have gotten so comfortable.

It sounds like you both liked the attention. You because it feels good to be looked at sexually, and him because... well possibly because he likes to watch, or because he can say "yah it's all MINE too".


If you don't mind... then hell enjoy it.
Just because they see your breasts doesn't mean it will turn into more than that.


Unless you both want it to.

The question is "should I" - not "can I?" Of course you "can" you're an adult, you consented etc.. But you feel uncomfortable enough to ask if you "should" and the answer obviously is no.

This is not a natural and respectable form of social nudity - such as sunbathing, having a sauna, modelling in art or various forms of naturism.

This is allowing your husband to sexualize you and put you on display in front of his fellow sleaze-bag buddies. How low. How degrading. That he is manipulating you with your love of him and gullibility to behave this way is disgusting and vulgar.

They are a group of pigs and he's the worse. Stand up for yourself as a woman. Maybe tell him to ask his mother to do that next time he asks. Your choice is between dignity and being his ho.

I think there is nothing wrong with it. I believe you should also wear short skirts with no knickers and give them a sly flash

i think he maybe wants to see you raped or worse. all depends who sees your tits and wants them for there own use.

Personally, I would never like to show my girlfriend to other men in this way. In fact, I am on the opposite side of the spectrum - if it was possible, I would make her invisible to other men as I am pathologically jealous (I know it is not normal but this is not the case here).

However, I think that your boyfriend´s preference is normal, or at least there are many men who are the same as him in this respect. If you do not mind it, then why bother?

You can check out also this: http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Candaulism
(probably not very accurate, just for basic outline)

I voted Normal.

I dont think thats a good idea, what if your boyfriend asks you to go further than just being topless in front of his friends?

You seem to be okay with it and your boyfriend seems to be turned on by it. I say no harm,no foul. Go for it.

IMHO the first time was actually normal. That kind of random accidental nudity where you decide to just go with it is quite innocent and more or less socially acceptable I'd say.

But trying to recreate it doesn't work. If you do it again, everybody will know it's fully intentional this time. I'm not saying there's anything wrong with that, but you need to make sure it's on your terms.

I want to be your boyfriend's friend.

He definitely likes the attention and the look on his friends faces when they see his girlfriend with nice tits, it gives him that guy satisfaction feeling. But if he gets carried away it, it would mean that he is wanting something out of it, like what frog_lily said, a gang bang.

it is pretty weird but probably just a small sexual fantasy of his, he wants his friends to want you I guess.

Women go topless abroad and you are in your own home, but if your boyfriends mates are staring at your tits do you think they are listening to you when you talk, do they take you seriously? I asked my husband this question he said he would not be happy with me walking around with my tits out because it will give them the wrong idea. And he respects me to much to do something like that!! He said it would make me look cheap and slutty and give them the wrong idea and they would probably only come around to look at my tits and not see me as a person. Would you want your boyfriend walking around naked in front of your female friends with them all looking at his penis? Your boyfriend sounds like he is proud of you and wants to flaunt you but you are not an object or a toy. If 1 of your boyfriends mates came on to you, how would your boyfriend react? Probably turn him on, which i think in my opinion is wrong.

After reading some of the replys, ..self esteem issue?? That's a ridiculous thought!! I go topfree at the beach without a problem and that has absolutely nothing to do with having a lack of "self esteem"! If you're already topless and it is your place where you live... correct??? and your bf doesn't care, then it's fine. Seriously, since your bf was supportive that first time,
unintentional or not, who cares??? I go topfree at the beach with my BF and I feel comfortable with it too.. Sometimes, friends are there at the beach with us..but this is inside your own home!!! So YES, you should continue to feel comfortable topfree and it is completely normal to be topfree inside your own home and that's your business. I don't see why you should have to change your habits around your own home especially when your BF is comfortable with it too! People need to chill out!!