totally confused about my sexuality

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Plan and hold a large orgy ( at least 50 people). "Do it" with everyone there. Afterwards think deeply on who you had the most meaningful experience with. this will define you for the rest of your life.

Hmmm.. wow i wasn't expecting this, but it's ok. It is possible for a lesbian/bi and gay guy to be together though..trust me i knew a friend in a relationship like that once..but really, there is nothing wrong with you. It's just what you are into. Completly normal :)

Don't worry until you start feeling like an animal specially a cow

You're straight.

roger, i believe you completely missed the whole "i'm bi" thing. but whatever. lol

Hi there, this is normal. alot of women have fantasies about gay men. You sound like you have alot of masculine qualities even though you are female and a woman like you would be suited to a bisexual man. Bisexual men are gental and loving and I think you would love this being the way you are. You would suit a man who is more feminine. You being bi should go for a bi man, hope this helps

I'll keep my personal opinions to myself because I feel that sexual orientation isn't something you "decide" but this is pretty common. I'm a yaoi fanatic meself. Look up "yaoi" or "shonen-ai" depending on your preferences.

i guess "decided" was the wrong word to use. maybe "realized" was better suited. but yeah, i've always loved yaoi fanfics and such. i've just been completely confused. and i do, actually, love bi guys. but at the moment, i'm kinda stuck in a rut. thanks for the suggestions though.

you are quite possibly the worst doctor i've ever had the displeasure of meeting. if you can't say something remotely nice, go the hell away.

You should have a threesome with two guys. You might like it a lot.

One, georgemcfly I love you. I have seen you in several forums and I always get the chance to laugh my ass off at what you say. Very funny and you always have something very true to say. It is true that homosexuals develop AIDs more than the straight person. In fact, the most common way straight people develop AIDs is from blood transfusions..the blood was actually gotten from homosexual males (This happened in America in the 70's or 80's by a disgruntled homosexual male. Thousands of children died)

TWO! (Almost forgot it) Homosexuallity is a preference. You do not "realize" you are gay. You CHOOSE it. There is no fucking gene in the body that decides your sexual preference for you. That is an excuse for homosexuals so they do not have to face the truth - They're only there for the pleasure and there is no love in the process.

Thank you, good bye, eat my shorts.

You have no idea what you are talking about, and generally when that happens its wise to shut your biggotted twinky-hole.

People don't "choose" to be straight, People don't "choose" to be schizophrenic. How would you know that its a choice if you have never had to make one?
Then again, this is crap coming from someone who things "georgemcfly"'s posts are funny o_0

As for the original poster............... Hahaha I am the same way. My friend felt the same way, she said said "I am a gay man trapped in a woman's body" rock on, you are not alone.

I used to be Bisexual you fool. Do not insult unless you know everything about the person you are insulting. I used to be with this guy. His name was James. We engaged in several homosexual activities. Later on, I discovered myself only in it for the pleasure. There was no love. Only sex. Hell, I've spoken to several homosexuals who say they only do it because it feels good. So, yeah. Shut up?

OH you had a bisexual relationship and have changed your ways. well gosh darn it you should have said that sooner. that makes all the crap you pulled out of your ass true!

Sorry but you can't make generalizations about an entire category of sexuality based on your and your buddy's quest for pleasure. Cry me a river, I don't really think its relevant that you were in gay relationships just for the fucks.

My arguement was "You are gay by choice". It is a preference, nothing more. I found myself not likingthe preference. Furthermore, there is NO scientific proof that shows homosexuality is caused by some malfunctioning gene in the body (And this is the theory that scientists have presented, thus this degrades homosexuals down to...what?...And accident? Haha. Funny.) Trust me. I've read the journals on the subject. All of the proof points to it being a preference. Hell, I've seen videos of doctors saying it's a preference. So, yeah. Shove it? :)

You really think that all those gay people out there "prefer" to be gay? with all the stigma, stereotypes, hate, dicrimination, etc? If you really assume they are doing it for shits and giggles you need to speak to a few genuine gays instead of you pleasure-lusty friends. I think that saying that all gays is a bit naive. Especially when you base your assumptions on lack of dependable scientific research and on your own adventures into pleasure-seeking.

I base my information on scientific evidence. As for my own experiences, I logically deduce, like I do with all things. They ENJOY the attention they recieve in the news. Stigma? People are too afraid to make a bad comment about them now-a-days...except for the few who dare to exercise their right to freedom of speech.

To believe they were born gay...wow. That's funny. I had honestly hoped I'd get a chance to meet someone like you. Can you tell me the exact number of how many partners the AVERAGE homosexual has per year? I doubt it. I doubt you watched that video. The average homosexual has roughly 10 partners per year, most partners are found during orgies. Now, this is the average. Of course, there are those who are below and above the number. This isn't from personal experiences. This is from study on the subject. Obviously, you never studied the subject. You just heard tid-bits of information here and there, ingesting the small amounts you heard. I've read books on this subject. I've written Grade A papers on this subject. So, yes. I do know what I am talking about and as for you...I doubt you know shit except for what you read in your middle school books.

Its nice that you read and watched videos (lol) and still came away with the idea that all homosexuality is a choice. Its bullshit, generalized and idealized bullshit, but its nice nontheless. I know more than just "tid-bits" thank you. You are expressing your opinion, and it is my opinion, and the opinion of many others, that it is people like you whol like to sit in the high chair where viewing is easy and make judgments on other people's sexual motivations. lovely.

Ah, yes. The emotional card. See, psychologically speaking you are evidentally pushed against the wall. See, I can see this. The portions of youjr sentances...a person who was truly arguing would of explained why they know more than tid-bits. So, my assumption is, and can only be, you know you are losing. Of course, I can never change your mind, because you are throwing out that opinionated bullshit. I don't care what your opinion is. It's wrong. How do I know? Easy. You are calling homosexuals freaks of nature. Malfunctioning genetic codes. How assuring is that? If I thought I was a malfunctioning gene, I'd just kill myself. Why would I want that on me? Now, generalized? I do not think so. It isn't generalized. It is scientific FACT that homosexuality is not caused by a malfunctioning gene. Now, I will go into child abuse now. Of course, there are indeed psychological cases of people becoming homosexual due to sexual abuse from their fathers. Others turn into serial killers. Psychological evidence proves that

Of course, the best fact about all this is...I know you're wrong and I can argue all of my points ALL day...and all you can say "homosexuality is a choice. Its bullsh*t". You have no proof, I have mud slides of proof that homosexuality is a preference. I have voiced statements. I have numbers, statistics. I have old papers that I've written. I have psychological and medical professionals backing me. So, yeah. You lose.

All this is doing is stoking your own ego. I admit I am not good at debating, as you strangely seem to be ;), but I am a good confidee and I understand human nature aparently better than most people. Being gay is not always a choice, and I know I am not alone in saying that. Maybe one day you will meet someone who will change your mind. I only hope their are other people in this site who can explain this better than I can.

/bow its been fun. You win the verbal fight but not the battle.

in this whole big 2 person debate thing im going to enter =p

personally i have had some confusions about myself sexuality wise.

i always loved women, and i still do, but certain events that happen in your life can lead you to thnik other wise. which is why i agree with annonymous.

i mean some gay men act like women. (the way they walk, talk act in general) so that must be a physchological trait from perhaps an event that happened in their past, or maybe EVEN a fucked up gene. but i dont see a lot of gay men who have this kind of womanly trait, most that i see act like regular people.

women, i cannot tell a gay woman from a straight woman, they all look the same to me =]

this is why i came to the conclusion that for MOST people it must be a choice.

lately i have been wondering to myself if i really am bi. thing is, i dont find myself sexually or emotionally attracted to men, if i see a guy ill be like "hey thats a handsome dude". i get the feeling that if a guy can think these things about other men then it must be gayness.. but i have heard other things stating otherwise. gay shit has always been nasty to me, and i dont find it natural, and have no desire to be gay/bi or anything.

so i shall chose to be straight. but confusion always strikes =/ btw im 17 y/o

ur not bi then

you just want understanding.

nothings wrong, just get a sex change!!

listen all you have to do is get a guy and kiss him and then get a girl and kiss her whichever feels the most right is the way to go

I had the same problem hun, here's the cure...

Read yaoi, draw yaoi, find two hot gay men and watch them if they don't mind or watch gay-porn. By the way, men do the same to us lesbians and bisexual women, most of them love seeing two girls go at it.

Nothing is wrong with you, meny girls like when gay guys kisses, me to, I've asked my gay friends to sand me some porn from gay sites, and they thinks it is funn, nothing is wrong and you are not bi, only like porn!
You can always get a bf hwo likes to kiss ather guys! :D

i like how you made a comparison between homosexuality and being schizophrenic
goo choice cos there both mental illness's and should be treated