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Trans-Gender Guy Trouble
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Ok, so thise dude i know no longer wants to be a dude. According to him, he is a woman trapped in a mans body. This, i have no problem with. If you want a vagina and long hair, more power to ya', sister. All of his buddies, myself included, were a little taken aback when he first told us. I mean, a guy you've been friends with for years has decided to get a sex change. Thats a little strange. But after we all got used to the idea, everyone was cool. Even him and his ex managed to move on.

But now, he's become such an gigantic drag and never seems to have any fun anymore. In a word, he has become "emo". Like, Really, really, really, dashboard, bad poetrey emo. He is to emo what U2 is to rock bands from Dublin. It Sucks.

This has been going on for some time now, and we're all getting real tired of the melodramatics. He thinks we hate him because he's getting a sex change, which really isnt the case. I've told him this - it REALLY doesn't help that ive dated said ex girlfriend. So now we dont really hang around with him anymore.

We know it mustave been hard for him to come out about the gender issue thing, but its all in the past. Is it normal for me to dislike him now for being an annoying emo whinebag?
Do you think it's normal?
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lionhead (1955)
2006-05-09 13:29:27
Of course, nobody likes a Emo. Oh, and i think the best word too discribe him is drag queen.

That dude is crazy. I wouldn't want to have anything to od with him anymore personally.
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roosmer (1812)
2006-05-09 15:52:28
It's perfectly normal to dislike emos. It's nature's way of making sure the stupid population doesn't mix with the intellectuals.
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Anonymous
2006-05-09 19:31:04
Yeah, emos need no longer breed, so, encourage the sex change so he is unable to have children anymore.
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DeadGirl (1977)
2006-05-10 08:05:00
Yes it's normal. People do change and develop different interests. Friends grow apart. It's cool you didn't judge him about the sex change thing, but nothing wrong with you hating on his newfound emoness. People do have limits of tolerence.
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Anonymous
2006-05-14 01:40:45
Well, if your friend is really serious about this, the first thing you should do is get used to switching pronouns. SHE'S going through a lot right now (believe me, I know, I'm going through the exact same thing, though I'm not turning into an emo b*tch), and if she's actually going through with it, she's most likely taking hormone medications, which do rather drastic things to both her body and mind. Think PMS 24/7 until the doses get straightened out. So she's liable to be a bit bitchy/whiny/emo at times.

If it really bothers you, sit her down and tell her that the way she's been acting is bothering you. Make sure to tell her that you're fine with her changing her sex, and that that isn't the issue. If she continues to act like a whiny emo f*ck, give her some space and some time. She might grow out of it eventually.

Or she might not. She might just be an emo f*ck, and the transition from male to female just brought it out. In which case, drop her like a bad habit, nobody likes emo.
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duracell (2487)
2006-06-22 10:08:28
He needs his friends now more than ever. You sound to me lika a guy who tried to be a good friend but gave up on it because it is so hard. Then you and your group of friends begin to talk him down in your minds and together to make excuses for why you guys are giving up on him.

But I can imagine this is hard, the dude is full of estrogen and full of testosterone. He is nothing but emotions. It is also common that when the testicles are gone then the thrill is gone too(the high sexual drive possibly) and everithing looks like a big mistake.
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