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Ugly Duckling?
I'm a 16 year old female.
Almost all my friends have fairly attractive boyfriends and I am single. Realistically I am more attractive than them. I don't think I'm really pretty but I have nice fair skin, white smile, and curly hair. For all of my life older people such as family members and other random older people (30 and up) constantly say how beautiful I am. Yet I attract little to no attention from any males! I don't try to force it, nor do I act shy. I am very outgoing, opinionated, and goofy. I tryed to wear makeup and the only thing that happens is girls say i look pretty....BUT NO GUYS! I eventually just give up. My dad left a long time ago and I think I'm just seeking male admiration and acceptance..maybe. Is it normal for a some-what attractive girl to still be single? Am I semidelusional about my looks? Am I too intimiatating? I'm not a burn-out hippy, but I'm not some superficial barbie bitch either do guys not find stoner girls attractive!??!
Almost all my friends have fairly attractive boyfriends and I am single. Realistically I am more attractive than them. I don't think I'm really pretty but I have nice fair skin, white smile, and curly hair. For all of my life older people such as family members and other random older people (30 and up) constantly say how beautiful I am. Yet I attract little to no attention from any males! I don't try to force it, nor do I act shy. I am very outgoing, opinionated, and goofy. I tryed to wear makeup and the only thing that happens is girls say i look pretty....BUT NO GUYS! I eventually just give up. My dad left a long time ago and I think I'm just seeking male admiration and acceptance..maybe. Is it normal for a some-what attractive girl to still be single? Am I semidelusional about my looks? Am I too intimiatating? I'm not a burn-out hippy, but I'm not some superficial barbie bitch either do guys not find stoner girls attractive!??!
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go smoke weed
if u were cute ud have a bf easy.
you sound insecure more than anything, dont worry. It'll come good, trust me. you need to relax and stop looking for someone and let things move along. that is the hard part.
you dont sound like the type who will go up to someone and chat them up even though you arent shy, there are a few of us out there like that. PATIENCE.
if you are into the stoner scene get to the festivals, i dont know where you are, but in the uk the festival and free party scene is on its way. lots of like minded people who dont care about image so you can just be yourself much more.
as for weed its probably not helping you as it can make you think too much, if you have to smoke, dont smoke skunk the green stuff tends to make people more introverted and sometimes more paranoid. smoke resin, pollum or goldseal is best, it will mellow you out more and you never know might help you chat to people slightly more.
if no one is asking you out, use ur amazing good looks and ask them out. some times they are jsut wenines that are to frightened to ask u out urself. set some goals girl!