Hmm, I don't think i'm inlove with him but I think about him constantly uno, and yeah we arn't together is was like a hookup kindov thing he texts me here and there but because his about 5 years older than me I dnt see myself trusting him. I mean you never know how many other girls he does it to =S
but... have you met him again and again?! then it is not a stranger, it is someonw you share pleasure with. Love (uppercase L) is one thing, but to enjoy sex with anyone we need love (lowercase) anyway, or get into violence and possession. So after all, you may love him, not in the way you normally think about Love... but there's something... maybe his hairy skin is more appealing than you think!! :) Just enjoy it 'till you can and both want
How long have you two have been together? Just wonder.