Not trying to be vulgar, this is absolutely true --
My girlfriend loves to pee herself during sex. Sometimes, while we are having sex, she will just spontaneously start peeing all over the place. She usually has an orgasm during or just after this act.
At first it kind of turned me on, I thought she was very open minded and uninhibited, plus she is very good looking (my friends think she is at least a "9"). But it is starting to bother me - she wants to do it almost everytime we make love, and I can't get the stale pee smell out of our bedroom.
Once I caught her masturbating and peeing on the bathroom floor (by herself!). I've started to drop hints that this is starting to bug me. When I said it might not be normal, she said "I don't want to be normal, things that are wrong & gross turn me on".
Is this a normal thing? I submitted this question to sex therapy forum and the response was basically "yes, it's ok." But if this is normal, what the hell ISN'T normal?!
I have been waiting for someone like this to come along for many years now.. perhaps you can point me in the right directions??
does she ever pee on your face when you go down on her? that would be so hot
but i think a lot of people confuse female ejaculation with pissing
it is not uncommon for girls to release a clearish and basically odourless fluid during sex, often around the time of orgasm. this is not piss, it's not uncommon and is nothing to worry about.
a piss fetish, on the other hand, is not especially normal, but unless it's causing real problems, it's also nothing to really worry about..
However, if her fetish is bothering you, you really should speak with her about it. Just tell her that it's bothering you, or you'd rather she not do it as often, sometimes hints aren't enough. Still, if you want to realy turn her on, do try peeing on her once and see what she thinks.
Anyone want to talk about this more, e-mail me at jasonzad@rcn.com
Jason
Tobra