Was I molested?

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Well the readers can't really determine whether he did this by accident i mean you didn't really describe his actions much i mean he could of been friendly with you and just tried to scare you by grabbing your stomach but thenagain he could have been trying to actually touch you there and therefore yes he did molest you and you should report his ass to the authorities. Did you tell your mother about this when he did it?

you are not over reacting AT ALL! a man knows his boundaries and what is appropriate and inappropriate. Putting our hand up a child's shirt is not a mistake a man in his right mind would make. You should have told your mom and talked to someone beacause how small you think the situation may be, thing like that you always carry mentally. And maybe even physically.

Um...Unfortunately, I have to say that sounds like a sort of... suppressed molestation. That is to say, he had the urge, but not the sheer lack of morality to take it to the full extent. He was probably being perverted and having urges, but knew that if he went any further, you would KNOW that this was molestation, rather than simply questioning whether or not it was.

One of the key factors here is: Why did he even have his hand up your shirt? He doesn't need to touch your breasts in order for that to be molestation... that in itself sounds sexual, and as a result becomes a form of molestation...

Plainly put-- you were molested.

Jeez this is hard! Hmmm depends on how vividly you remember it. It could have obviously been a mistake, accident or inconsideration. Either way, you should have, and still should - discuss this with someone. It has obviously affected you, and who knows, your speculations may have been correct.

It all depends on how you feel you want to deal with it. If you are unsure, see a councilor or seek emotional support from professionals.

Good Luck,
Jay

try to remember details of what happened. I think that you might have wanted or do not want to over react to anyone's behavior, and wanted or want spare people the worry and time. Clearly, you arent sure but i agree with jaw5791, go to a professional and sort things out. Good luck!

There is two sidees to every story, but the way you descrube it worries me a bit about his intentions. Thank god adults were nearby or he may have tried to take it to the next level. It "could" of been a friendly touch, but very doubtful, you should tell your mother.

Yes you were. 100% yes. there is no way this was an accident. did you tell your mother?

Hi I am a perv I like small breats but that was criminal I only date girls of proper age . I sugest telling a expert about this matter

Yes, you were molested. Men don't accidentally put their hands up an young girl's shirt.

My dad had a friend that would come to the house, he would try to get be and my brother to wrestle. He tossed a blanket on us and felt up my boobs. He did other things, too. These were not accidents, this is how molestors get away with stuff by making it look innocent.

Yes this is molesting. Or feeled you up. What a creep. avoid him like the plague and if you have not gotten counseling get it. Even if you never tell your mom. Posting it here you are taking the first step. I am sorry. That sucks!

There is no accidental way for a hand to slip UP a shirt while standing on solid ground.

Ehh this is a yes or no question about whether you were molested or not right?.. some people need to stop asking more than one question because its hard to say what i'm saying yes or no too.......

and if only 31% of the people say you were molested with the info you gave... uh people you ffcked up

no u aint molested girl, just give him a telling off!

Are you looking for a definition? He touched you inappropriately and should have not done it. You really need to quit dwelling on it tho. The more you spin this in your head the more power you give it. Just let it go and move on. You are only hurting yourself by making such a big deal about it. Almost every woman has been touched inappropriately some time in their life.

I hate to be mean, and this may sound harsh, but honey, he copped a quick feel of your tits once when you were younger. It's really time to get over it. It's not even a big deal. Jesus!

He didn't put your hands down his pants or vice versa. I don't mean to downplay your "trauma" but seriously...it was nothing. Let it go and move on. You're letting an small "incident" control your emotions. There are people out there who've suffered far worse than you.

Well next time you see him, just ASK him why he would do a sick thing like that!! Then give him a good kick in the nuts and you'll feel much better afterward!! I mean, this dude's a PEDOPHILE!!! There's no accidental way to slide your hand up one's shirt!!