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I too would like to know if watching my wife enjoyed by other men is normal. I don't feel any jealousy when watching my wife give her all to another man. I love it.
Just like the other guy, I love watching my wife being looked at, flirting with, and seduced by other men. We have a good marriage I think, because she too likes to have sex with other men and is turned on by me watching,
Years ago this turn on confused me and had my asking why I enjoyed this unusual type of sex. If you told anyone about it, family or friends, they would think you were sick. I don't feel I am, but can't give a reason why I enjoy this type of sex.
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I think its a normal feeling for a man to have. Many men have it, not many couples act on it, because the wife doesn't want to, or the husband would get jealous in real life.

I would love to watch my wife fuck another man. Not just any guy. I am about average; 6 inch penis. I want to see her fuck a man with a large penis, at least 9 or 10 inches. I want her to experience feeling a huge cock. i want to see the look on her face as he fucks her in places I can't reach, and makes her come. It is just sex, she still loves me, but I want her to feel how good a huge cock feels inside her.
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I've been married for over 30 years and have been having sex with men in front of my husband for the past 10 years. The trick is to find the right person and then agree a set of rules. It's a big turn on for my husband and what's turns him on turns me on, it's as simple as that............good luck
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How can that be a turn on? Your husband is watching you enjoying anther man's penis. When the other man isn't around and you want him what do you do?
Call him over to your home? Your husband doesn't get mad?
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sounds u guys found the sweet spot in your relationship.kuddo's.
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I agree totally !!!!!!!!!!!!!!
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We fully agree with that.
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There are no rules when husbamds allow men to fuck their wives, It continues and continues. One day you may want to watch you wife fucked by more then one guy. Gang banging her. What will the men rhink of her. She will be called names and men will not resepct her. Your friends find out and they will want her, Maybe a cousin of yours will try and fuck her what will you do? Think hard about my words. No I never did a thing like that nor will I ever.
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@: NickZ
What are you talking about??? it is an agreement between a man and his wife. It isn't giving her permission to do things on her own, nor is it allowing men to disrespect her. If this is something that people like, then it won't affect what he things of her. At all.
maybe a cousin will try? That is nonsense. She would as he would say no. That is all they have to do.
Your attitude is ridiculous and insults women everywhere to insinuate that if she has sex with another man that she will become uncontrollable and sex crazed.
Don't be foolish.
People like what they like, and as long as they play by the rules, there is nothing wrong with it.
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What rules are there with sex? May I see a copy. Sometimes married people think what they are doing is right.
You come along with your ridicullous thinking and accuse me of insulting woman. Man you are off base. I love woman. Woman are beautiful and charming. My point is that any sexual agreement isn't binding.
What if the guys wife only had sex with him, she knows nothing about other men according to you her husband makes an agreement to break her cheery again buy having sex with some guy. Whomever he is, he maybe a pig, a pervert, unclean and a big mouth who can't keep things quiet.
The wife with or without the so call agreement is now a slut. A beautiful woman with a good reputation from a fine family is now a slut, and you agree with it.
Listen I have a right to post in here just like you, and point out the dangers and short comings of what you believe is okay.
Shove off
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i totally agree with you.
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Im so glad i found this site and read things like you wrote.I could have wrote that,word for word.I dont feel as nuts now.
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@: love2
Keep you thoughts, dreams and fantasy in your bedroom. Talk about it, pretend it happened. Oh how good it felt. Leave it in your bedroom its foreplay. Do not do it. Keep the line in front of you and don't cross it. It will doom you marriage.

Yhese woman are sluts pure and simple
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my hubby's 5 1/2 inch penis is just fine.it works quite well.yet when we feel that extra horny,not the same ole same ole.we hope to get a long thin cock for me to suck or a long fat cock for me inch all the way in my puss.he loves how i shudder when its finally all the way in and i love the opend mouth stare of omg.she took... it all.
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I have been married to my hubby for 22 years.his cock is 6 inches long and kind of fat.I love it but have always wanted to feel a larger thicker cock inside me.we talked about it for a long time,and about 6 years ago we finally acted along my wants with his best friend David.I love my hubby but I also love Davids huge cock filling all my love holes while hubby watches and participates.they even fill me up at the same time.usually my hubby in my ass and David in my pussy.I have taken David up my ass a few times but he is so big that I have to be in the right mood (and have to have a few drinks in me to take him up there.my hubby loves to watch David stuff my ass full of cock!!
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Sounds amazing! Your husband is so lucky. I'd wish my gf was like this.
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Be careful, she may like it more than you want her to. Yes it's normal. All the people telling you different just won't admit it. If you like watching your woman orgasm, you would love watching her getting fucked. You not only get to see her face, but every single drool, quiver and hip movement. She let's me watch her have sex, but she makes love to me.
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@: rotagms
If a person was brought up away from sexual talking until they marrey thta's one thing, but sexual talking with friends and cousins may and I say may lead to any husband wanting to see his wife taken by another men. Yes, its normal,however, talking about it in your bedroom while having sex is delgthful and I suppose exciting.

But, my friend we have to draw line when to stop. You know what I mean? Lets do it oh how exciting it will be. STOP get close to it, but no gold star.

Man, your marriage is on the line and woman fall in love. Is that what you want? Hell no. Talk, but do not walk the walk. Go down on her, use a dildo, a vibrator enjoy your own sex your way. No other man in your lives.
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I agree 1000% and i have been fortunate enough to see my wife do this several hundred times and they always ejaculate inside her. She does not do anal per my request and she does not do BJ'S to completion per my request.
However, the look and sounds when a man with a 9 or 10 inch real thick dick fucks her is well worth it !!!
I've been letting her do this for over 12 years now and every time is wonderful ( about once a week or more).
He always pulls out slightly so I can see his cum and then pushes it back in after I take a few pics. If we had known it was this good, we would have started YEARS before that.
Tell your wife to read this and if she needs further encouragement, I can send you pics. By the way, my wiives lovers have been 5 men, but most of the time(500+) it was by 2 VERY WELL hung married black men.
Take care and have fun
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Are you really sure that's what you want? If you were on amphatamines your impulses to watch your wife enjoying a large penis may and I may be become relity.

Your wife also would have to take a few pills and both of you will fell sensual excitment like never before. However, when its over and the man left would you and your wife still feel the same towards each other? Really think about it.

A few of these people are oversex, yes that's true, they can go on and on. One day one will leave the other.

You love and want your wife. Keep that talk in your own bedroom. Careful what you want it may back fire,

Stay Well,
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That is my way of thinking... I have had the experience of another watching me fuck his wife and it is exciting also
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One of two parts

What a great subject…. My wife and I enjoy sex and love each other and feel that (sex rules) are between us only. We absolutely enjoy sharing, especially having a threesome. I have had two ladies to include my wife and she has had two men to include me. Our first experience was out of this world! We were stationed at a small isolated base in Germany when we had our first experience. A good pal of mine I were drinking good old German beer at a Guesthouse when the subject of a threesome. He started to tell me how he had gotten a little stoned and found himself in bed with his cousin and his cousins wife. He told me how great the experience was. Of course I got very excited just listening to him. Fast forward - later on in the evening while my wife and I were having sex, I told her about the conversation I had with my friend earlier in the day. My wife Aaron became very excited and climaxed quickly with me as I told her how excited I was to hear Mark (my friends) story. I could tell that Marks’s sex story aroused her. The next weekend Aaron and I got a little tipsy and began to play around on a rainy cold afternoon. Soon we were having sex on the sofa and again our sex conversation drifted to my Mark’s sex story. As we continued to have sex I braved up the energy and asked her if she would like to have sex with him. She begin to ask questions how we would go about doing it. I told her I would take care of the details. I told her that I would go to Mark’s room on base and to talk with him to see if he was interested. We decided that she should go to bed naked and pretend like she was asleep and I would bring Mark back to our home (if he was interested). I met Mark in his room where he was having a few beers and listening to music. I asked him if he would like to come to our home and join us in sex like he had with his cousin’s, wife. He asked me if I was crazy “that of course he would love to join us.” He quickly threw on jeans and we returned to my home. As we entered the living room, I told him we needed to get undressed before we went to the bedroom so we would not stumble around in the bedroom trying to get undressed. As we got undressed, I could see by the dim light that Mark was hung. I had never seen his cock before. He could see I was checking out his cock and he asked me if I thought Aaron could take it. I said less measure cocks (just like we use to do in the boy scouts) and we measured our cocks pointing toward each other. I am about 8 inches and Mark was about an inch longer and much bigger around. My wife is only 5’1” and 100 pounds. She is very very pretty, nice body and dark auburn hair down to her butt. My reaction cock size was lests find out, but take it easy and be gentle. We went into the bedroom where my wife pretended to be asleep in the middle of the bed.
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You have this thought of pleasing your wife when its you who wants to be pleased. You have to clime higher up on the ladder because you are oversex.
Don't use your wife would you like it after some guy did it to her word got around?
Behide your backs people are calling your wife a whore or maybe a cunt?
if the guy tells others you were there, your friends would believe you were a sex freak.

What will you do if every guy he told started taking ther liberties. Now, they all want to fuck her.

No it isn't right. Watch a porno enjoy it but not your wife. In fact she will not be your whole wife anymore, big dick will know how she looks without clthes how good it is to have sex with her and on and on
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@: NickZ
The thing is that word DOESN'T get around. People are private about their sex lives.
What you do in your bedroom is none of anyone elses business to judge, and if people are calling names, then you deal with it at the time. They are judging where they shouldn't be.
HOW would guys start taking liberties if you and she dont' allow it? THEY CAN'T!!!
So don't be ridiculous!
For you to say that she won't be your wife anymore is nonsense. If sex is the only thing that defines a wife and a woman to you, then you have issues. Besides what bearing does someone knowing what she looks like naked have on ANYTHING?
So what? She isn't your property, and it doesn't make her any less of a person, any less moral, any less loving, any less honest, any less loyal, any less humane, or any less ANYTHING.
Please, stop and think before you try to spread your sexual preferences and judgement on everyone else.
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Sex is private? Bull shit, you pick out the wrong guy and everyone will know what he did to your wife.

When a wife starts putting out it gets around. I am not judging I understand life and sex. This sort of thing (if its a must) has to he done far away from where you live. I don't approve of it, but be discreet or pay the price. Save your wife's honor
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@: NickZ
what if wife has zero honor?
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@: NickZ
After a while you realize thay all women are whore. So if a guy wants to whip it out and she wants to take it on, more power to her.
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i also would like to see my wife get sex with soeone and i watch them,photograph them, i also want to watch someone play with my wife.
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@: jamal
r u from khi?
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I feel the same way.
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Hi everyone new to this but....wife and i have been talking about this for a long time, since i told her i would like her to be fucked by anther man with large or small penis does not matter, i also want her to feel another man up her, the thought of it really excite`s me, we have been married for 35 years and both of us have never had anyone else, and i would like advise on this with people that have done this before
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I wish my husband felt this way. Hes always been very ijsecure and if i brought up how this makes me curious & would be an interest hed probably want a divorce! I just have different sexual curiosities like a lot of others obviously do!
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I have finally come to the realization that the thought of my wife having sex with another man excites me. I thought I was insane and completely alone until I found this site and started reading some of the posts here. my fantasies about this are not as extreme as some of what I have read here, and I still have alot of fear about the aftermath. I have masturbated many times thinking about the men my wife has been with before, and often times imagine them doing to her what I am doing while we are having sex. My feelings are unexplainable. I am jealous, angry, hurt but very excited and turned on at the same time. I told her to go with another man a few nights ago and she finally did. At first I was hurt, but I was actually getting aroused when she told me what she did. We have still not made the decision for her to do it in front of me, but I am starting to think more about it. We love each other very very much, but we enjoy unusual sex at times. Our sex life is wonderful, but this fantasy is growing more in my head by the day. I have watched her with women several times and it was great, but my wife is obviously more attracted to men. I don't know why I am so aroused at the thought of my wife having sex with other people. For those who have done this, did it strengthen your relationship or did it damage it? Any advice anyone can give me would be appreciated. It is good at least to know that I am not alone.
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I think the thought of my girlfriend having sex with another man is way exciting, i think the thing that turns me on so much about it is the thought of her screaming in pleasure as she looks at me know how dirty she is being.. I think the fact she knows she is being dirty will turn her on and make sex even better for her, and the more pleasure she is in the more turned on I get... Its the thought of her satisfying her primal urges... If you like sex, you would like sex with other people, if your significant other tells you your the only one they ever think of, I assume that is a lie, its way natural to think of other people, so why fight it? My girlfriend agreed to try it, wish us luck on finding someone to do it :) I CANT WAIT
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Hi I also would like to wish you good luck on your new adventure, my it go well for you, How ever I would like to pass on one bit of advice, if you want this to go well you must find the right person, and your other half must pick that person, then it is your job to give her all the help that she will need, how to dress, tell her how good she looks, how much you love her, making her feel good about herself will pay dividens later, the right man is very important he must be special to her and you as he will do things to your other half only you have done, so good luck, have fun and be part of a growing group of special people..K
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@: leckykm
chipster u r so right the guy is my wifes choice and I approve of him
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My wife and I went ahead with this. It took her a while to get used to the idea. We're in our early forties, my wife looks younger. The first time was after work, my wife set it up on-line, met the guy and made arrangements. We met outside the guy's apartment. Highly charged, very tense, I thought my wife might back out. But she went along, rang the apartment buzzer. The guy was all business, offered me a drink, I waited outside while he and my wife went in the bedroom. I listened outside closed door. Took about 35 minutes, after about 20-25 minutes I heard bedsprings squeaking. Second time was week later with me present in bedroom while same guy and my wife went through french kissing, fellatio, 69 and then penetration. I was sitting on chair quietly masturbating. Both times great. OK for us. Not normal I would say but not all that unusual.
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How did you and your wife feel after this. Is you relationship still the same?
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I want to hear more! Who was the guy? Where did she find him and do him and what did they do???
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It strengthins it just make sure that she is always comfortable with every guy and situation and dont pressure her.
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my husband asked me for years. then he threatened to leave me if I didn't. i finally did with a mutual friend and he liked it but said that it wasn't enough. five years later and many threats I reluctantly agreed and this time he became upset. He thought I did it too well. I really hated it, but did what I thought he wanted to see and it now is an f'd nightmare. He is constantly telling me that I am lying about not liking it. if you love your man very much, sex with another is not fun. I felt used and betrayed by the love of my life. Go figure. Damned if I do and damned if I didn't. It is a lose lose situation for me now. If in doubt opt out. men, for your information....women can have sex and look like they enjoy it, even if we hate it. You guys would never know it. I guess you don't care as long as you get it. ugh.
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I love my husband too, but he wants me to do this. I am starting to wonder if he loves me or not. I have not stepped into doing anything but we are talking about it.
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@: NickZ
NickZ you are a real dick. You are way too jealous my man. That is why the idea is so far fetched for you. Consenting adult do like sex with other people as long as they both want it and enjoy it together. My wife and I always do it as a couple and we enjoy it as a couple. In the beginning she was terribly jealous and the idea of me doing it with another woman was a definite no-no. Once she got used to fucking other men while I was watching she gradually changed her mind. When I finally slept with another woman during a foursome a did not bother her at all because she was enjoying the other guy and me fucking that guy's wife turned her even more on. Not all people are as conservative as you. Swapping partners is as old as the human race.
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i am a man, but i agree with u... i can still imagine it...
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@califtom-My husband also wants me to hook up with another man or a woman. But i am worried about the aftermath of this entire thing. When we are away we tell stories and masturbate but in real i don't know how it will work. Most part i am scared of few things like STD's. I have never had sex with random people. Only with few of my boyfriends before marriage,but I like the though but it scares me.I am also worried if my husband wants to have sex with another woman.But how did you guys feel after this entire thing.
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i agree me too i love to watch my wife screwed
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I feel exactly the same way. But imagining my girl with other guys doesn't turn me on at all, is just imagining her with other girls. She is Bisexual but likes man more. We did a threesome with her bestfriend but it was a bit awkward next morning. Now I met this girl that wants to be with her and she doesn't know and I've been considering to propose this to her. But I have the same mix of emotions... anxiety, anger, jealousy but It makes me so freakin horny!!!!
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Hold on to the jeslousy its your best ally. Don't do it again. Th next morning you felt sick, depressed and maybe dirty. Just stop it. Hey tell you wife you pay the bills and you love her. No men in her life, but you.

She wants a woman? Bisexuals can he controlled its the dyke and the full blooded lesbians that are the problem. Tell your wife the truth it made you sick. If she doesn't understand. Man, there are so many chicks out there that will love you and listen to you and never mention others in your sex lives

Good luck
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Guys like me, like guys like you... and their wives.
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When I was fifteen I had a boyfriend who SAID that he would like to see me with other guys.

Like a fool (And I was) I went along. First one guy, then (on different occations) another, another and then two at once while he watched.

Went on for about six months, THEN I got hold of his cell phone one day and read a few texts. Turns out the bastard was pimping me out!

That ended that.

Tobra - STILL PISSED!
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@: October
I think that would have happened to me eventually if i had not broke up with him. it all starts as a bit of fun (or so we think ) but they have other ideas. He was alwayys lifting my skirt up at the back when people were about
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i think it started out as fun and he enjoyed teasing others with u.life isnt perfect niether are men and women.for every 20 success story there are bound to be tragity's as well.some,not all men are pig's and one should never do this just to please the other.in antcase.there should always be rules to follow.
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maybe he lifted your skirt cause he was showing you off.
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@: October
Can't still understand why you had to read my msgs - they were PRIVATE!
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@: October
Just didn't get enough cum huh? Gee that is why you smell like piss
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@: October
thats sad.no one should be used like that...unless they are made fully aware and want to participate.
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yes I wouldn't tell you family. I'd say it's a private matter and I think you're a very lucky man. Wanting to watch your wife with other men is a very common fantasy and you're lucky that your wife is keen to please you by tucking in.
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@: colin
Hey pal don't push it youe wife has a reason not wanting other men screwing her. Respect her wishes she's your wife not a slut.
Love her and sexual love her.
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@: NickZ
It is clear that you have never had the opportunity to watch your wife with another guy. as a result, you don't know how big a turn-on it is for both of you. My wife and I now enjoy an ever deeper desire for each other than before. I allow her to fuck a stranger once every month while I watch and enjoy the scene. Afterwards the two of us have the best sex and that goes on for a couple of weeks until the next session. I think you are too jealous and therefore it will never work for you. Please don't preach for those of us who enjoy it and who understand how to treat our wives with respect.
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How do you do it i really want my wife to fuck her workout trainer during sex we talk about it but i dont think she will do it
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Perfectly NORMAL. My wife is 39 and over the past 10 years her sexual horizons have continued to climb. Our situation is a bit different in the way I have no desire to watch or take part in 3somes, 4somes or any other combo. She is free to explore as she see fit but no secrets are kept. She has experienced over a hundred lovers in that time spaning thru-out the sexual spectrum. Her resume incompasses every man from passionate caring lover to a cadre of dominate masters. She tends to drift off in that later group more so than not but thats ok. It's not for all knowing your wife of nearly 20 years has been taken to some undergroug BDSM club in Manhattan. It is however admittedly bizzarly exciting knowing of the unknown that is taking place w/ someone you love deeply.

My thing is business of which I run two. Time these days to keep it running & profitable is difficult to accrue for both. Giving her freedom to enjoy all life has to offer is a necessity. Trust between two people is of the utmost importance.
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Can some one help me get my wife fucked.
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@: ken33
im just wondering how 2 meet people as my husband wants 2 watch me get fucked ..i also enjoy the thought but ive never tryed it b4 can any 1 help ...need advice thx xx
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Hi Lisa,
My wife, Sarah, and I have recently gone though the whole process. As the husband it was a bit frightening, even though I initiated the fantasy that I wanted real. It was a couple of years (third and fourth year of our marriage) of just straight fantasizing when we made love. Whenever the "would you really want it" question came up from either of us, the other would backtrack out of fear or embarassment.

Eventually (and I can't remember exactly how it came up) when we were both really horny and I was sliding in and out of her she started thinking of a real person (I think I asked her to). She mentioned his name, Dave. She knew that we both know a few Daves, so she started playing guessing games about which one as I got harder and harder inside her. She said she just loved the way I was getting so crazy horny. Finally, she surprised me by telling me it was a married neighbour that lives across the street. I just happened to know that his wife was away for a couple of days at her mom's house and so I stopped making love to Sarah right there and then. She didn't know about Dave being alone. I just kept teasing her with the end of my cock around her hole, but refusing to slide it in. At one point she punched my chest in frustration, but I just kept telling her it needed to be Dave or nothing. Then I told her that Dave's wife was away and I could check and see if he was available. She gulped and said "You're not serious, are you?" I said that I was and told her to freshen up, dress, and make herself pretty; and off I went across the road because I didn't have his phone number.

Everything fell into place after I had a surreal conversation with him and he was convinced it would be safe. I told him that I wanted to see him cum inside her if Sarah didn't mind. Half an hour later, Dave was at the door. I led him to our bedroom where Sarah and Dave were soon in each others arms as if I didn't exist, except for one anxious moment Sarah had when Dave's cock was at her vagina. She looked at me and asked if I was sure it was okay. I told her it was and that at this very moment I couldn't love her more than I did. Dave sunk his cock into her so deeply and they made precious love until they both came and she was left satisfied and so very messy.

He's been over two more times since then and they did it another time without telling me first. I just love it all and I'm so glad it is happening.

I guess the point is that this would never have happened if we hadn't introduced a real person into our fantasies. This was the bridge to reality. Good luck, Lisa! Let us know what happens...
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We are married over 24 years and fantasized about this for many years. After a lot of talk, we went ahead and did it. I would say, she had a great time as did I. It did bring up a variety of emotions for me ... but I am looking forward to the next time! We are still happily married and have good sex. I suggest you talk it through and be very stable in your relationship ... then if you are and decide to go forward ... have fun ... she and you will experience a new side to sex ... that is extremely erotic!
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@: mcouple
You are so very right! What a great experience. My wife and I was married for 32 years before we tried this for the first time. We are now actually sorry that we have waited so long. Our sex life is so much more fulfilling now.
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love it.
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Dear Lisa:
If you husband loves you why does he want to share you? Think about it. Yes we all have thoughts, keep them in your bedroom.
Over sex people do over sex things, and then regret it. Why should some guy know all about you? Tell you husband No deal
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@: NickZ
Because it is their sexual taste. It has nothing to do with love. Please stop defining women, love and relationships solely by your sexual standard. That is a terrible way to look at love.
What harm does it do to have a sexual preference if both parties enjoy it and they are in a healthy relationship?

None!
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Nekidchickens
Thanks a lot for you coment, you are so 100% right, the sexual standard of some people have NO THING 2 do whit Love a Sex,
If 2 people love echoter they can have some sexual preference and no afect the relationship
i got a new relation, and i feel bad to tell her that just to think that she go whit other guy make me so horney, i dont talk about penetracion , can be just a dance or erotic games but after i read so many coments here i got the conclution that theres No thing wrong whit me, i love her and i like that she get plasure in life so is just sex, and even do we didnt try yet, if it happen it will be something special if we bouth agre,
have fun everyone
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@: NickZ
you should really go be with your wife and let grown folks alone.
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@: ken33
If she is pretty any guy would do her, be carful he may want oral sex from her and she may refuse.
He may want to ass sex her abd she may refuse. Watch what you want some guys are perverts.
I do not believe it would help your marriage. Sexually yes, loving no.
Once she is touched by another she isn't really your's anymore. Listen, no matter how exiting you believe it may be your dear wife is being used. Let it go
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@: NickZ
Once she is touched by another man she isn't yours anymore?

Wow, you really are a backwards little man.

She isn't property!
She is "his" for as long as they want each other.
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No pal I am not backwards and I do not live in the past. A wife and husband are not property. They are friends, lovers, soul mates and often I have called my wife my harlot.

I belong to her and she to me. Why would I want another men touching her? Sex? When the man kisses her what is that called sex? Woman are not like men they fall in love easy. Have I ever thought that way? No, my wife and I are in love and sexually in love. We go to sporting events even watch boxing matches. No I'm not backwards and I can say you are not backwrads or insane.

Your life is yours until one day when you lose your wife to another. What will you do? What will you do?
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@: NickZ
My wife and I have been doing this now for the past three years and we are more in love than ever before. There is just no way that she is going to leave me for someone that she does not even know that well. It is very clear that your biggest fear has to do with your own insecurity. You are not certain of your wife's love for you; therefore, you will never ever trust her near another man because you don not trust her. What a shame! poor wife!!
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@: NickZ
agreed NickZ
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@: NickZ
In this life you got no propertys,
i mean the day you die, you take nothing whit you,
She is so free as you are,
thats the razon number one for War,,,,, my , my my ,, my
love and paz, be and let be
but i respect you opinion
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@: NickZ
NickZ oh NickZ wake up and smell the coffee. You are so narrow minded. Remember not all people are alike. What works for you does not necessarily work for others.
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As a professional massage therapist who, as a sideline does erotic massages for married women with their husbands present, I can tell you that this is very normal. Of the couples I've worked with in this specific area (mostly from out of town) the massage almost invariably leads to full sexual intercourse between myself and the wife with the husband sometimes participating but generally just encouraging. After more than 75 of these sessions, I conclude that both the husbands and wives are totally normal and view this more as an extesion of their love and trust in each other than anything else. These clients are from all walks of life and range from the very young (one couple was in their early 20s) to the somewhat elderly (one couple was in their 70s). For most, this would be a once in a lifetime event which would leave them with highly erotic memories for a lifetime....the memory of watching a loving and faithful wife wantonly and enthusiastically fucking another man's cock directly in front of her husband. I suspect if you asked 10 totally honest men, at least 9 would tell you that the idea of watching his wife give up her vagina to pleasure another man's penis, as long as the event was with the husband's consent and also for the husband's excitement, excites the hell out of them.
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What part of the midwest are you in? We recently moved to KY from CO and had a great experience like that with a massage therapist once and would love to repeat it.
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Yes it can work - maybe you have to be a little creative about it. My GF wanted to, but was really, really shy about it.

We absolutely love it now. It happened to her quite by suprise one night (kind of). After tying her up and blindfolding her as usual (we love that), this time I quietly snuck in our neighbor (someone she absolutely adores and is always flirting with!!) and let him take my place and have sex with her. I had 'coached' him a little a week before so he knew exacly what to do to have her unconscious within minutes!! He did everything imaginable to her - it was fantastic! He was literally on her for over an hour and she was completely out of her mind with passion - it was unbelievable. When I told her she got so turned on it was crazy she wanted more with someone new. She still wants to be tied and blindfolded so the other guy thinks she doesn't know the switch has taken place - is she naughty or what!! The crazy thing is that everyone wins!
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Normal? I don't know but I know I love for my wife to fuck other guys. There is a certain amount of jealousy in there and I think that's part of the excitement, kind of like skydiving. But if there was not even a hint of jealousy, then I don't think the thrill would be there. My wife is out, as we speak, having sex with another guy. She'll tell me all about it when she gets home. I'm trying to get her to do a gang bang, we'll see? Sick? Maybe. Fun? oh hell yes!!
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Yes you are normal, I get a real kick out of watching my wife with other men, I am not a cuckold, she will ask for my permision first and she shows total respect, and some times i join in at the end, it is a very big turn on for me, my wife loves doing it so why stop her, most people don't understand so it is simple don't tell any one, you only live once in this place, and it is over very quickly, so take the moment and keep it private, we don't use swingers clubs, we seek out on other sites, and always play away from home, good luck, get the most from it....Kev
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When my husband first wanted to watch me... I couldn't believe it. I was offended. But I was hot to feel another man and didn't want to cheat. This was hot when we did it. But I also go and dates and tell him about it as we have sex. That is really hot for both of us. I suggest you try it both ways. I prefer the dates... so sometimes I bring them home if the guy is receptive to it. How I do that is a whole other story. I am the last woman you would think would do this.. but it is incredible sex.
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I totally understand!!!
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Tell me more about your story. :-)
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Soccermom: it is great to read your input. My wife and I have a similar profile to yours. We are just now talking about trying this out. Would love some advice.
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What about reletives and friends are they the last one,s to know? Maybe they know all about you, maybe they call you names behins you back like whore or cunt?

Stop it now save your repretation
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@: NickZ
NickZ, you are going way too far. You have a right to your opinion, but you are just raving on and on. We know what you think. Thanks for telling us that. Now please, let other people who think differently please have a conversation.
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@: NickZ
How would a man "steal her"???

She can't go anywhere that she doesn't want to go.
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For now she's your wife, however, each tomorrow is a new day. Will she still me yours?
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Wow!
Real dream come true!
i will like to try the dates with my girl, i mean is a good opcion for erotic game and is not like the girl have to finish in sex,, can be only chat dance or fun, so you come home and tell everything to you man, nice for you nice for him when he found it hot
can you share more deep you storys/
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aace
I'm the most open minded person in the world. I love to see her take another man and then him pull out on limp with sperm dripping off his cock after my wife has drained him good.
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i am also one of these husbands who enjoys the thought of his wife passionately having wild sex with another man. im not bisexual nor want anything to do with the man nor want to be with another woman since a lot of wives feel thats what we may want but actually its a very unselfish thought of us where the wife would simply enjoy herself ?? my wife however is very conservative so bringing this fantasy up hasnt been easy ?? Suggestions ??
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Suggestions: Keep you wife and your fantasy in your own bedroom. Stay away from others. You and you beloved wife can say anything to each other. When its over you both will feel no shame
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i too have the same fantasy. i realy love my wife moy but i would love to see her in action with another man. we have been together alot of years and the fantasy still persists and the more i think about it the more it turns me on. I sometimes wonder if im sick in the head? all i know is if my wife got dirty with another man it would drive me crazy with lust for her and the thought realy gets me horny. I dont know why this is i sometimes feel a hint of jelousy but the sexy part of it is i would like to see her do this and to watch her with another man is the ultimate fantasy. even the thought of sleeping with other women doesnt bother me because im happy with moy but i cant get rid of this fantasy. I worry she will think i dont love her and the truth is i do and always will and if i allowed her to do this i couldnt ever blame her if i didnt like the reality. truth is i think this is something i can be happy with as its only her i have ever had this feeling about and no one else will do and so i would love to see her get down and dirty with another man. I would even have a threesome but I would not touch the other guy because that would be a big turn off for me! at the end of the day she changed her mind and wouldnt do it and i respect that but how i would love for her to.
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@: pjsays
hi ther i love to see my wife fucking a man we dont no to see him kiss her lick her and suck her and best of all to see is cock in my wifes wet pussy its so lovely .and she loves it to just to see her being used but in a nice way is so sexy one time at a hotel she was fucked by 3men one was fucking her and she was sucking two cocks as well thay all fucked her it was ok for me to has i fucked one of the mens wife that was nice my wife ok with me fucking women to . and yes she loves me and i love her dont no how men fuck the same women year on year . my wife has had a blackmans cock but i was not ther that will be my next thing to see a nice black cock up her wet pussy . so if your thinking of letting your wife do it go for it its all so nice
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you are a very lucky man to have a wife who lets you watch her with other men .there are hundreds of men who envy you i wish my wife would. do it with another man so i could watch yours roger
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I wish my husband would have the same fantisies as all of you! I have them myself....especially since he never wants to have sex. I'm not bragging but I'm a very good looking women & have always had men flirting w/me & presueing me. I'd have no trouble finding someone & at the rate he doesn't want to I'm afraid I'm going to go out & end up seeing/screwing someone anyway. I'm 5'7", 120lbs w/long brown hair. For my body size I have rather large breast. Before anyone says why don't I talk to him....I have so many times I've lost count. I'm in my early 40's & he's 12yrs older than me. I'm @ my sexual peak & want it all the time. He doesn't care & thinks I'm supose to deal I guess. Yes I have my toys but that only goes so far for so long. I want the real thing. I'd like a dick up me instead of all the toys sometimes. I'm sitting here trying to think the last time he f@#!%d me & honestly can't remember. I know it's been 2 months prob. That's 59 days to long if you ask me. I can walk around the house in my sexy pj's hoping that'll "get a rise" out of him but no such luck. What's the deal? Any idea's? I've stayed faithful for our entire marraige but I'm scared that's gonna change if something doesn't change w/our sex life! I'm up for any suggestions!
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he is crazy. Take him to see a councelor
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We have the opposite problem, I wish my wife would bone other guys... we should have been together lol...
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You married for better or for worse. Your husband maybe having a problem talk with him.
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@: NickZ
Absolutely talk to him. This is the first thing I will agree with. But it may not be a problem, it might just be his sexual taste.

Do not however feel obligated to do things that you are not comfortable with.

Both parties need to want it before they should go down that road. If you are not up for it, jsut tell him and he should respect that. There are lots of other ways to fulfill him sexually.

If you are, then be careful in your choices, define the rules, and have fun!
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i am also letting my wife, but lately she say she is too tried
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This took us years to finally do, we've done it and it is great. I too love seeing give and get pleasure. It is extremely exciting, I video taped it and watch it often. We are now into swinging and have had some great experiences, we went to a 'swing' party recently and I got to see her in action. We finished at about 3:00 am and went home and were both super excited and had great sex afterwards. It was an extreme thrill having sex with her after a night of her having sex. I recommend it to couples who are 'both' into it.
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wonderful.just awsome to hear....it may not be in the open air everday.but swingers are everwhere.growing all the time.local sex parties at home are everwhere and growing.we wont be the minority much longer.....lol
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When after approx 10 years of marriage I told my wife I wanted her to fuck another man, it didn't go down as well as I'd hoped! But, after several years of nagging her she agreed to do it. I found a guy through a website, booked a hotel room, and a week later watched as he gave her the sort of fucking I'd been dreaming about! That experience broke her in, and demonstrated to her that this was an ok thing for us to do, under certain conditions. I don't really care whether it is normal or not, because I came to realise that it felt right for me and that's all that mattered. Other guys with big cocks fuck her (and I watch), but I'm the one that cuddles her, loves her and makes love to her. We all know that women can fuck several men in succession, and truth be known,I want the woman in my life to have that experience once in a while, and she does, and we're cool about it.
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yes enjoy sloppy seconds
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I have the same fantasy,my wife wants to have another guy and have me watch to make sure that she is safe.She also wants me to have another guys wife.She said that would be her ultimate fantasy,but she wants to just go with the flow no pre planning.She said she might even want to swap partners in the same bed.
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@: aafan
I am 59 years old...I am hoping that My wife will let me hook up with another man while she watches. She ways thqat this is what she thinks of when whe gets off with her vibrator, but she is is afraid of STD's. She has watched me suck off another man, and I know that we will both curl or toes together if we ever get brave enough to let on to our desires...
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Hey, there is not much more I could add about how I feel about this as everyone has covered most of how I feel. I love the idea of my wife being with someone else even with out me there. It's so exciting. My wife has given me a hall pass for a week in one week so I told her that I want her to be with another guy aswel but she says she's not interested in sleeping with someone else. I think it would be different when she's drunk. Is there anything I can do or say to her that would make her feel as excited about this like me?
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@: T4zdvl
Yes I like to see my wife take other men in her cunt. I like to watch as they find out how good her pusy is above any pussy they have ever had. I like to see them please her.It is a constant turn on fer me to see them enter her and please her so. Then to see how much cum they can ump into that hungry creature I'm married to. If it offends anyone,I could'nt care less,as long I can get her filled and used.
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You sound like you want to lease yor self not your wife. You are indeed ovesex its so important for you to reah higher and higher with sex. When will it end after your wife leaves you?

Yes she will leave you. What oh what will you do?
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@: NickZ
You have no idea what she will do. Stop telling others how to live their lives. If you can't keep your sexually stunted morality out of it, then stop answering.
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Screw you Mac if you palm your wife off so guys "can do her" that's your business, when people ask questions I will answer and point out the pros and cons.
who are you Mr. know it all? I to have my thoughts on the subject and no bla, bla, bla mouth can shut me up. Keep what you do in your won bedroom, why brag about it have you no shame??????
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I have to tell you that I think it is very normal. I love to watch other men watch my wife in a lot of different settings. Most of all I enjoy watching my wife being fucked by other men and often women.

My first experience came one New Years Night where she drank a lot of different mixed drinks and got blow away. When I got her to the hotel room she stripped and went out onto the balconey and got severl mens attention that were in the parking lot. She laughed bounced her tits and came back into the room. I had shed myself of my clothes and pushed her to the floor where I fucked her harder and deeper than I ever had before. After I finished, she told me to do it again. I could not at that moment. She got several beer bottles and started to fucker herself with them and I took the opportunity to ask her if she wanted me to go out and get another guy. She looked at me and asked "would you enjoy that" I said "yes I would love it". She paused for about two minutes and then looked at me and told me to go out and find soneone with a big thick dick and bring him back to the room.

I left and approached a guy in the bar next to the motel and he agreed but said he had a friend with him. I thought if one was good two would be better and if she resisted it would be easier to control her with three of us.

We got back into the room and she was on the bed totally nude and semi asleep. I told them to have fun with her and that they could do anything they wanted to her. She woke up while the first guy was entering her pussy and the second guy was parting the lips of her mouth with his dick. She did not resist and they both dumpped loads deep into her. As they got off of her she pulled one down to her and told him to do it again but harder and longer. I decided to join so all three of us filled all of her holes. Her ass jerked and twisted as she was being fucked in her pussy and asshole at the same time. This rotation when on for about four hours until we all were exausted.

She woke up about 11 A.M. the next day and we left the motel and went to eat. On the way home she asked me what happened to her last night and I told her to just think about it but that she should realize that she would most likely never be satisfied that way again. She still asks me even though I have told her all the wonderful details.

I am trying to get her to do it again because that was the most exciting time of my sexual life with my wife. I still use it as a turn on when we make love.
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omg,my hero....sounded wonderful.
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Your a ver lucky man, I wish my wife was as open minded as yours.
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@: sabbin
If I found out my wife cheated on me that's the end of the marriage. No way will I want her in my bedroom.

She wants to fuck? She can fuck off. Bye, so long
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@: NickZ
my husband and i have already got u figured out.u have no wife,no women and it just killz u others are having fun and you not.lol honest,open,consenting adults.be sure its what u really want.take baby steps at first if u need to....dont listen to the lonley preacher man....he really wish's he could be u.
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hello my name is james me and my wife recently descussed this topic and are more than willing to do this , but we have no idea on how to go about finding someone to forfill our needs...........can anyone help us i live in virginia
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First of all try and keep you sex making in your own bedroom. Finding just any guy is very dangerous, suppose he tells people you both know he screwd your wife, then other men are going to try with or without your permission, and your wife will be called a whore, a slut and even behind your back they my call her a cunt.

Enjoy each other and stop that kind of talk. It can break up your happiness . Hold back the sex talking with others
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My ex husband of 23 years, whom I am still close to. We split because he wanted to live somewhere I didn't so he moved! Anyway, We were married about eight years when during sex he whispered in my ear how much it excites him imagining me fucking another guy. I said NO! This went on every so often for the next 3 years when on one occasion I was seriously aroused and about to orgasm and he asked me again and I said I would. I did and he loved it! I could not believe it! For me it was sixteen years of fantasy! taken out to dinner, drinks, dancing and hot sex! I would come home and the house would be spotless! Then I would lie down on our bed and he would clean my soaked pussy! I miss it!
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If the truth were known proberbly more than 50% of guys would like to watch their wife being f**ked by another guy and like me they have a guy in particular that would let f**k their wife,I am one of the lucky ones I have a guy a guy fucking my wife occasionally...
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@: johnno
if your truly in love.its a beautiful thing.my husband reminded me.he loves sloppy seconds.says theres nothing like it.i love it when he shoves it in me.the squeeshing sound from the first load is a audio turn on for us both.the only thing i dont like is knowingly picking up a guy who is cheating on his wife.if he says,yes.she knows i do this.we tell him we want her number to call and verify....
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@: johnno
I like to see her face as another man cums in her.
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my husband says its a great turn watching my eyes roll up in my head.my fist gripping the sheets so tightly.thats when hes sure i'm having a good time and so will he....
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The other man may not want to stop fucking your dear wife. Your wife whom you say you love may want other men to fuck her.

How will you stop her? No it's not wise. It all sounds exciting, but keep the talk in your bedroom. You can lose your wife. Friends may find out, and soon they to will want her.

Be smeart watch pornos. Hang on to your wife
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@: NickZ
go away preacher man.
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@: NickZ
You are so very very boring. Just get lost you piece of shit!
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klaus54
Best thing in the world is to watch your wife take another guy's load
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@: klaus54
Another guys load maybe his AIDS load, Go head take chances
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@: NickZ
so,it has aid's.how is that any of your business.you are one of those burn in hell wierdo's by day...
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I have read a lot of these comments although not all as some appear to be gratuitous story telling and most probably fantasy.

Having said that, there is nothing wrong with fantasy, but just don't expect that everyone 'secretly' wants this. There are very many couples who do not involve others in their sexual activities because; they don't wish too! If your partner is willing then fine, but you should not expect it and therefore feel disappointed when your partner doesn't cave into your pressure for her to be unfaithful, albeit with your permission.

For some this can mean the end of a relationship, or can cause an unnatural strain on the sexual side of the relationship. Sometimes it can be great to make what you already have be fun and exciting, sex doesn't have to involve extra people in real life.

What you need to understand is that in a genuinely loving relationship many women cannot separate sex from making love and forcing them to do that is destructive and confusing. I am not denying some women do have this ability, but it is not as common as you would like to think it is (has the fact that a number of the women appear to 'not remember anything' or the fact that you kept part of what happened a secret, not given you a clue?).

Basically, keep it as a fantasy where it belongs, unless you are both in agreement right from the start.
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Oh, just want to make sure you all understand I don't allow all men to ejaculate in me. Just the ones I date and feel close enough to after many time together. Just like dating in the real world. But my husband does love when I feel comfortable allowing it to happen. It spikes our already hot love life. He calls it an added bonus.
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SoccerMom a mouth full of cum from anther guys dick is disguating. Where are your morals? Are you oversex? Watch pornos with your husband.

Your married live is coming to an end. The love will be lost and the happiness you shared wil be gone and for what>? Sex
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@: NickZ
preacher man?the world may end tommorow according to your kind.if so,we are going out on our terms not yours lonley man....go grab your bottle of jergens and keep yourself busy while the grown-ups talk.
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My husband enjoys hearing about my date fun. For me it is just great sex. A win win.
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Anonymous
It's your personal sex life, so why would you even mention this to your family?!

Anywho . . . If it makes both of you happy, it really shouldn't matter what your friends and relatives think.
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I agree with you, Anon. I personally do not see what the attraction is, but I always say - "to each they're own."
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Hey man,

Don't sweat it. I'm a bi man in a very loving relationship with my lady who I've been with for three years. Catch is. you see that bi part? We lost our 3-some v-card over a year ago, and I found LOVE watching her. Sometimes this is helped by the male also being bi-sexual but our most regular "extra" partner is straight as a rod (to all you homophobes out there don't worry gay isn't contagious and i can play with her around straight guys and not uncontrollably attack him) and I love him being a part of our experience.

My biggest tip as you get more and more comfy with this idea is keep an open line of communication, don't be afraid to set boundries, and do some research you are far from alone.

There have been a couple j*ckbut comments/replies to this (i.e. calling you gay, etc.) ignore these. I believe it just shows your devotion to your wife's pleasure.

I mean obviously I'm a layman and no shrink but I know from my experience that, while not for everyone, it's a wonderful thing. Many people also seem to think that a 3-sum etc. is a reflection on the status of the relationship (i.e. one partner isn't doing their job). But this is ridiculous. Many of us men (as I'm sure the OP does) finds their partner's pleasure extremely erotic and fulfilling. Your are not only enjoying yourself but by keeping an open-mind you are being generous and loving through this, albeit naughty, and I wish you both the best of luck.

- To infinity and beyond
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we might only interject to pick just the right guy.as u both become more comfortable with it.picking up a man at say a bar won't feel so embarrasing....then the hunt is as much fun as the sex....
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The idea has always excited me.
Have you tried topless beaches?

I love watching others appreciate her beauty.

Its normal....dont sweat it.
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Very Normal...If you loves your wife too much.
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We've been together 25 years, and I've watched her make love to others, several times. She’s blond, blues eyes, petite, 5’3”, 110lbs and very, very pretty. She turns her share of heads. It never gets old. I get to enjoy her presence all day as we also work together in a home-office.
I've watched her when I knew she had no clue I was watching such as when we drove down to a Mexico coastal condo with another couple. We were there no longer than an hour and she and the other wife were at each other on the floor for their first time while us husbands watched from the kitchen bar stools. There was also a hot tub a couple hundred feet away under the windows of the complex's bar. I was tired and wanted to take a snooze. The three of them walked to the spa and had no idea I had followed them and watched from a short distance. It was especially erotic knowing that if someone was near the windows of the bar, they could look straight down and see her and the couple. I watched as he sank his cock in her for his first time and as they fucked while his wife sat in the tub and masturbated while she watched from just a few feet away. It was voyeur watching voyeur watching my with and him. It was a rush and a half.
The fun came when they decided it was time to return to the condo and I had to high-tail it back with a raging hard-on, and then catch my breath before they walked in. I pretended to still be asleep as they came in and continued their play. After a few minutes I snuck out of bed to a spot where I could watch. I think it was the other wife who noticed me standing near the doorway and whispered something to my wife. She turned her head toward me for a second and gave me a sheepish grin and then continued with their play. I remember vividly to this day and use that memory while jerking off.
We've been in the "lifestyle" since before the Mexico trip and have had many occasions to watch each other in many situations. We've never had a problem.
One fantasy I have is to catch her with either a guy or a girl when she had no idea I be there.
We're very secure in our relationship and I'm confident she knows there is no possibility of me becoming attached to anyone else.
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I enjoy watching my girlfriend having sex with other men, especiall blowjobs. The thing I don't like is when she says she wants to go with another man, with just them and not me.
As long as she does it in front of me, that's great. My girlfriend owes a guy twenty dollars. She told me that she told him that she would pay him with a blowjob. I asked her if I could watch. She said no. That was disappointing, especially since my girlfriend is white and the guy is black.
That's one of my favorite things, watching a white girl suck a big black dick. I'm going to try and cIme up with the twenty, since I can't join in. I have already watched Sue several cocks, all white and one black. If she keeps insisting on doing it without me being there, that's not going to work. She can suck all the cocks she wants to as long as I can watch. Maybe I'm not normal.
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sounds so dirty.....yummy!
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I have watched my wife have sex with 2 other men while I fucked her from behind. It is really a turn-on! I don't know why I get so excited by seeing my wife suck off two cocks. Is it why I want to have these cocks inside my mouth, but am too shy, or is it too much of a turn on to see her suck off the cum shot off in her mouth while my cock is stroking off in her cunt?
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my husband loves the taste of another mans cock in my mouth and the smell of his cum on my breath....i feel so dirty but he makes it feel so right.
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i also fantasize my gf getting fucked by others. even i imagine all her 3 holes filled with cock at the same time. i want to do this in real but i dont know how. she lives in mumbai.
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I like see two filled but not her ass, she doesn't think an out hole should a in hole, nor do. Pussy and mouth cum all ye faithful, cum all you can.
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My wife and I did this several times with my best friend, she got really insecure afterwards, maybe because she suspects he and I were up to something else, which we were !! we met seperately and sucked each others cocks until we swallowed each others cum, neither he or I saw that coming, it just happened one day at his house during the game, I still get hard thinking about that, AND thinking about my wfe fuck other men in front of me...I wanna suck cock while it fucks my wife's pussy !!
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my husband likes your idea.see's nothing wrong as long as it's between informed,consenting adult's....u go boy....
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Would you mind watching me shaft your wife. I'd like to watch you watching me and see your facial expressions when I cum in her pussy. I'd love to see your smile as I take my dripping dick from her pulsating pussy.
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Now that's hot.... want to see that with mine!
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god that is so hot.
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Sorry guys and girls. I know some have asked me questions about my experiences, Well, we are still doing it and we still enjoy it tremendously. Our sex is incredible. For me it is incredible with or without my husband. LOL. When I date, I love telling my husband about my adventure as much as having a hot date. And I still love having him there watching. What do I like more. I think for me personally, going out on dates is very exciting and hot. I usually only go out with guys I am very attracted to. Being seduced and the excitement of being 16 again makes me feel alive and hot. When we meet couples or single men, it is great but different. Love having him there but it takes a little while for me to relax and enjoy myself. Don't know why, and may never know why. But he loves "sloppy seconds" as they call it and frankly now so do I. I still can't believe I can have two men ejaculate in me on the same day. It is just so exciting. My initial battle was with myself, my christian upbringing, not wanting to be a "loose woman" or unfaithful. Now the thoughts are never in my mind. I am an adult and I make good decisions that are good for us. Nothing wrong with enjoying sex with the man or men you choose. And it is not wrong. He loves it as much or more than I do. Before we started this, our sex life was barely alive. Now, it is very much alive and maybe better then ever. I just can't believe that I am so happy with sex again. And he is too. We are both living our dreams and fantasies. I will be more specific if you ask.
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I had the same fantasy for years and would talk about it as my wife and I made love. One day on a weekend getaway I told my wife I had a big adventure planned, we were going to visit a swingers club. To my surprise she said "sure". I will shorten this story quite a bit, we met a guy that night who came up and kissed my wife's hand and asked her if she would give him a blow job! She replied, I'm not ready for that yet. Later the same guy came back and introduced her to his friends, one of which got down and started blowing him right in front of my wife. He said to my wife, "I bet you haven't seen anything like this before close up have you?" and then took my wifes had and put it on the back of the girls head and the other on his ass. Then he had my wife pull her head on his dick back and forth while visiting naturally with my wife. Later that night we visited a back play area and sat on a couch watching others fuck and suck. After a few minutes our friend came up dressed in nothing but his boxers and sat on the couch next to me and visited with us about our experience. All of a sudden he turned to my wife and said "you have very nice tits" to which I replied, "do you want to see"? Without a word he moved to her other side and began sucking on her nipple. I responded by pulling down her dress on my side sucking on the other. It felt weird as we both sucked and our beards scratched each other! Within a minute or two he was down between her legs licking her leg and working his fingers into her clit. She held her hand there looking to see what I would do. When she saw I was ok with it she removed her had and let him move into position and started licking her pussy.

I have to say I was in heaven while I sucked on her tit and watched him and then her reaction to all that was happening to her. She started to breath heavily and I knew she wasn't going to last much longer. Then all of a sudden he stopped. I told him to "get back down there as she was about to cum" and he quickly moved back into position and began licking her for all he was worth. I took her hands and placed them on his head and then went back to sucking her breast. In short order she began having powerful orgasms. When she finished she smiled at him and he moved up to start kissing her and I moved down to lick up her juices while watching the two of them from below. They kissed, he suck on her tits some more and then the next then I knew she was stroking his cock while watching me lick her pussy. It was unbelievably awesome for me. She didn't suck on his dick or go any further, but the night was still surreal. I have finally achieved my fantasy, and so did my wife.
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My wife amd I talked about it for a few years. I asked her if she would. She said yes. So I had a friend cone over her had his eyes always on her chest or ass. So I decided he was the one. I left and he was to come over and I was late coming home.Ha ha. So she put her legs apart and let hi get a long look at her pantie covered pussy. It did not take long. When her tits "acidently showed a little later, every thing was a go. Watching him mome over to where she was seated and then him making love to her beautiful breast and then pull her panties down and start to lick away at her pussynwas a rush plus. The they both stood up. I had told her only do what she wanted. So seeing her standing there and her being caressed allove while she held on to hes very hard thick and longer than my cock excited me.Then she pushed him back to the sofa and she sat on his cock. It was a rush seeing that thick cock slide all the way in her tight pussy. She rode him like a pony. S
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Over sex that whay you are. I don't mean to insult you, however stop it soon or your wife will keave you.
Your wie is gone now what do you do? Watch porners and jerk-off.
Save your marriage before its to late
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There's at least another recent post on this same topic. It is completely normal but best kept private since society hasn't yet fully accepted this lifestyle. Swingers participate in exactly what you enjoy and have grown in popularity in recent years. There are many clubs worldwide that engage in such swapping/sharing with other couples. Do a google search and numerous clubs will pop up. It isn't as unusual as it used to be.
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there are 5 sex clubs with in a 50 mile radius of our town.8 if u to 100 mile radius.
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I'm interested in doing the same thing with my wife and she might (maybe) be interested as well. But I'm not sure how we go about apporaching it? I mean, she could probably go into a bar and sit by herself and get picked up and act like she's interested in something, but then how would you broach the subject of being married but still willing to do something so long as he's willing to have me be in the room?
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I have been the other man and although the husband never got involved or was in the same room he was in the house whilst I had sex with his wife. We met regularly over a period of about 6 years and I suppose it was a buzz for me but also a buzz for them . He had problems getting it up and she was extremely horny so we helped each other! We filmed our sexual exploits on more than one occassion and she told me that they watched it in bed and it got him going.I did ask her if he or she wanted him to be there but it was declined.
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My wife, Sarah, has been with her lover only three times in the last six months; the first two times was with me watching and participating a bit; the last time she went with him at his house and only told me about it afterwards. I don't know why, but the date and hearing all about it afterwards along with lots of loving was the biggest turn on for me. I can't wait for her to "date" him or another guy again... Soooooo hot!
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ITS BETTER TO LET HER GO OFF AND DO IT
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ihope that my wife an i can get to try this
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My wife is being fucked by another man right now. She's been out for 5 hours. This is the first time we've done this. Got to say my heart is racing. Can't wait for her to get home.
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Lordy, Lordy......I can honestly say that my marriage lasted as long as it did because I let & even encouraged my wife to screw other guys in front of me. (We were married for 29 yrs) Divorced over other things. If you would like to read a little about our experiences check my profile ( my cumming ) here on IIN.
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This should be called: "this is my fantasy", never laughed so much at all this crap. Get a real relationship you know the one, where love is part of it? Where marriage vows are meant? Where being faithful means something?

And you women in here, get a real man who can satisfy you, then you won't need an 'outsider'. And if your man can't get it up, there are other ways to have a satisfying sexual experience with him.

It's like sex has become the total focus of your lives, not a way to express your feelings for each other.

I totally support 8serene8's and spicemix's comments, says it all really.
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Yes, I fantasise about watching my wife have sex with another guy. First I would like to see him slowly undress her, then to caress her breasts and pussy, and for her to lick and suck his c*ck. But so far have'nt plucked up courage to suggest it. How do I persuade her? Any tips?
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It's a huge turn on to think about my wife getting screwed by another guy or girl.

Our fantasy in bed began years back and was about a threesome with another girl. The fantasy became real about 5 years ago and since then when we travel, we try to find an attractive girl to hook up with. My wife is very attractive with a sexy body and other girls find her very attractive.

We've had about 15 threesomes these past five
years, have filmed them and sometimes watch them which is also a big turn on.

Anyway, my wife recently said that, after all the girl threesomes we've had, she now wants to get screwed by a different cock and wants me to film it and join in if my want (but noy with the guy).

She is due her turn...I'm just wondering how things might change or how we both will feel afterwards. I'm guessing not much different than the girl threesomes.

Any advice?
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hi I loved your comment i finally was honest with my husband about my submissive needs couple of years ago. we've always talked about living out our MFM fantasy;but since he's started taking charge our sex life is way hotter. we would love to find a dominant male(preferably a master)to help us live out fantasy and maybe help train us more in the dom/sub part.
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owwww
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my second wife was a whore when i met her. that was what excited me.
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You married a (Mala Fammina) Bad woman in Italian. She will never tell you everything. She will always be a puttana whore.
She will never be your wife, but a woman of many men. Good luck with that kind of life
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me too,i have the fantasy for 6 years,and i told her as well,she thinks i am mad,but she don't mind that.she has kissed a man 5 years agao,sometimes she was told me how did he met her,and kissed her feld her ass in the car,he was trying to feel her pussy,but she was stopped him,but she never have done anything further then that,once was very close,he took his cock out,and put her hand on it,and she got a shock,and took her hand back,her pussy getting wet... when she was home,the frist thing she did was changing her knicker...i asked her what was going on ,she still say they didn't do anything...so....i only pertanted what was happened in my mind...she said she won't do that,but i don't kow why she was weared sexy knicker go to work all the time..i don't mind she do that behind me,just need her to tell me what is the story about their sex after..or any other men she likes..
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I would never have thought of ever watching my wife have sex with other men, but one night while we were having sex she wanted to use her dildo while we had sex, this really aroused me & we discussed the thought of bringing other people to the bedroom, we tried it with someone we know & it turned out to be a nice erotic experience, only bad thing was my wife got way too drunk & doesn't remember some of what happened that night. Were trying to bring a girl into the mix now but we haven't found someone willing. Overall I enjoyed it & would do it again, I enjoyed it so much that now I only enjoy watching DP porn now.
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I find it extremely erotic when my wife makes love with other men. I love her and am pleased when she has enjoyed herself with other people.
Sexual intimacy is probably the most intense pleasure in life and i love her to receive love and sexual pleasure from others.
I am proud of her, she is her own woman and if she wants sexual intimacy with others why should i deny her.
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i am 31 yrs old and my penis is about 6 inches. i had dreams that one of my acquainted men much older than me and my wife was fucking her in his house. i fantacized about the same and masterbated. my wife has a good figure but small boobs. i keep fantacizing about ny wife naked with that older man. having dreamt about the same many times i one day talked about the same to my wife and asked her if she would call that man for an intercourse at an apartment and i would see them from the wardrobe. she is actually confused. i think that sometimes she wants to be fucked by that man and sometimes she is hesitant. i really want to see my wife fucked by that older man. what do i do?
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I would like to witness my wife is being fucked by another man. I want to see her moan when she cums because of another guy's cock. Am I okay?
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would not mind helping you out with your fantasy
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I would love to see my gf with other men. The more guys and the bigger their dicks the better. I love her very much but I feel maybe my cock isn't enough. I'd love to watch but if she won't let me I don't care, I just want to know she is being filled in all her holes at the same time. I think watching her pussy being filled with a cock twice the size as mine would be so exciting. The thing is, I don't know if she'll be willing. Help!
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I have been married twice and both my wives liked being had by other men. I watched and joined in on a lot of the time. They both liked to let other men look at their bodies.
My first wife liked more than one man at a time. Her favorite was five that way she could have every hole filled and her hands full. It was really sexual watching her enjoying herself. She got more enjoyment when her boyfriends left and she had me in all the holes they were just in.
My second wife liked to go out and seduce some man and come home with a full load in her, and have me go down on her while she told me about her evening.
A woman's pussy is really hot just after she has been with a man with a large penis.
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no..its not normal...why in the world would anyone share his wife..whats the use of marriage then!!!!
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what will u do if she gets pregnant by another man by chance.......
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Aleks85
I don't understand how any man can want this. Most men are naturally competitive with eachother and very jealous so...

I think this is more of a fetish for people to jerk off too than to actually participate in.

I feel bad for anyone who has this fetish in real life, because if their wife is participating they don't respect you as a lover.
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Watching your wife being fucked by another man is an amazing experience. First of all, you suddenly realize that you no longer look at her as your possession that you should jealously protect. She is just like you a person with fantasies and desires. Secondly, she starts to appreciate you as well as your relationship more because she knows that you love her and want to see her happy. Finally, it is a liberating experiences. Suddenly you look at life differently and start to enjoy it more because you realize that it goes by so quickly. For those of you who are curious to try it out - I would like to say go for it! But please first work on your jealousy.
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what i want to know is do you get to have sex with other women as well or is this one sided
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Don't know what the previous commenter is on about, but back to the subject:

I constantly fantasize about my wife working her hips on another man's cock. She has been faithful throughout the last twenty years, but has confessed that a previous lover, an older man who actually was her first; had continued to fuck her occasionally even after we were married. She says she loves sex with me, but at that time in her life she just couldn't help herself with him (she says he was 'rather large'!!!). So now the thought of her and this old man and what she did with him really turns me on.
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Can someone introduce me to those who wants their wives being fucked....i wanna fuck a young woman and make her cum....drop me a msg
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I love every aspect of it... The look on her face, the lust, and the jealousy which I use as a tool to get even more turned on. We tried it on vacation for the first time about 10 years ago and it was the perfect spice we needed. Our already hot sex life became even more crazy. We did it 4 or 5 times again since, and every time we did it, it got better. No rules, no boundaries, I let the guy do as he pleases with her. he can kiss her, he slap here around if she lets him, he can penetrate wherever he wants, and He can ejaculate wherever he wants. The only stipulation is that the guy must have a bigger penis than mine (the larger the batter). This is not for weak or insecure people. You must walk in it understanding that this just sex and walk out unscathed.
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It's so erotic watching my wife get other guys off. I love it. I love telling her to slow down when he gets close so it's prolonged. I love the intense look on her face when she knows he's close.
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Well! its interesting to know that u too. I think its not bad if she also likes it. Unfortunately I cant disclose my desires to my wife as she is very religeous. tell me what I should do? Any idea?
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I am in the same boat. However when my wife takes a certain sleeping pill on an empty stomach, she loses inhibitions and not only craves to do things she normally doesn't like, like letting me cum in her mouth, but asks for other partners. And she never remembers a thing about it the next day!
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what is the name of the pill?
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My wife too is religious, however after 15 years of marriage (and we married late) and several kids, my age has caught up with me and I can no longer satisfy her as a man. She uses toys, but is frustrated that she has to resort to them and is worried that its the only way she can receive pleasure. I was, and remain, her second man to date. As I said, we married late and she got curious with another man before meeting me.

I led a more promiscuous life and had several partners before meeting my wife and have remained 100%% faithful since marrying her. I've always left it open to her to have men on the side for sex since I have felt guilty about having had so much fun in my earlier life. She has always been firm that there is no way she would do such a thing.

Well, she was once again very frustrated with using her toy, and I suggested that she go ahead and find a man to please her and that would please me, knowing that she could be satisfied again. I know that I will never be permitted, nor would I even ask, to have the same permission. It is just that I want her to be happy and be able to enjoy being a woman with a man that can keep it up for her.

Wouldn't you know it, but she said that she would consider it because she knows it is truly out of my love for her and that she's coming to be able to separate making love from just having sex in her mind.

So, while I too have had the fantasy about watching her, she flatly refuses to have me watch. However, as a compromise, she has to tell me in excruciating detail about each encounter so I can live vicariously through her experiences. In some respects, the spoken word is much more erotic than visual exactness. Imagining what she is doing and then hearing the actual account are both very stimulating.
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Yes, leave it alone. Don't start something you will never be able to finish. Woman can go on and on. I never heard of a guy getting gang bang by woman/

You wife is religeous,then keep it that way. You married her. Anther guy fucks her and she isn't the same woman you married. What if he tells a friend? What if other men start hitting on her when you're not around? Some life style you'll have
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Wow, interesting reads. I fantasize all the time about watching my wife having sex with another man in front of me, but not really too sure what I would feel like afterwards. In the heat of the moment it would be great, but afterwards? I'm not so sure.

I don't think either of us would feel comfortable with anybody we know or in our neighbourhood, but maybe on holiday in a different place I was thinking of hiring a male stud to sort the wife out?

Please advise your thoughts.
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I had the experience recently for the first time of my wife with an old boy friend. It took place in our bed. The sex was an anti climax but was still incredibly hot. My advice is do not rush headlong into anything you may regret. An old flame would probrably be best as familiarity really helps, taking it further gradually. The range of emotions is incredible be prepared and really think about what to say and do after. I would set it up again at the drop of a hat but these things take time. Be careful. Once on this path you may never get off or indeed want to. Good Luck....
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You used the right words once on the path one may never get off. What if you lost your wife? The whole fantasy is sexually exciting, but after its over is she really still your wife?
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Don't do it, yes it all sounds great, however, when its over you're not going to like your wife. She will enjoy it and not care you are their watching.

If you have to do it, use a stud not anyone you both know. Word gets out so an so screwd your wife others will try whrn you're not around.

Your wife will be called a whore. Think about that men you know will try and do anythig with her. THINK
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Very normal. I love watching my wife with other men, especially when they cum inside her.
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Did you believe when a guy porks you wife he wasn't going to cum in her. Wake up. He will cum until he can't cum anymore.

What you and your wife are doing isn't new, This sort of thing has been going on since man and woman have been having sex. Hollywood actors do it. Business men do it, but sometimes there is that one problem the guys wife leaves him or she becomes oversex and screws any man
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I like for my wife to fuck my buddies but the main reason is so that I can suck their dicks. My main suck bud and I thought this would be a way for us to be able to suck dick without having to sneak around. He likes to fuck her and I like to suck his dick. I'd rather suck him than fuck her.
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You like to suck pricks? Why did you marry your wife? You rather give blow jobs then have sex with your wife. HELLO same sex marriage is here. Why have a female wife?
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are you guys serious? im sorry but this is very fucked up! is it normal to fantasize about these things? totally, to act on them? mmm not really! you men go on a rant about how much you love your wife blah, blah, blah and then promptly proceed to disclose the most disrespectful details of your "free porn" possibly made up stories. some of the above stories sound like nothing more then a selfish pig of a man pimping out his wife like a piece of meat to his buddies. and the stories about your wives taking sleeping pills or being drunk at the time and not remembering what they did, disgusting! you seriously call that love? thats not love that's lust, the most fucked up kind of lust ever! my husband and i are very happy together, and we have a beyond fantastic sex life one that isn't only kinky, sexy and wild but is also filled with love and respect. and you wanna know what turns him on the most? watching me get hit on by men who think they actually have a chance and watching me shoot them down. thats what drives him crazy, knowing that i could if i wanted to but dont because my man is the sexiest man alive and no other man could ever measure up. ladies you should be ashamed for letting your guy convince you to partake in such dirty affairs! you people say thats normal? i say maybe if you act like an animal you should be treated like one. only animals have no regard for what they do. people like you are the reason the world is riddled with sexual diseases, all you care about is sex and have no respect for your bodies and taking care of them, and no respect for each other. and you say your relationships last so long because both parties are willing to whore around? bullshit, your relationships are probably just to stuck in this sexual perversion you call 'normal' to go anywhere. if you want to see your wife having sex, get a big mirror and put it by your bed so you can watch yourselves, or grab a camera and film it, that's what we do and its safe, sexy, and very enjoyable. fantasizing is normal, acting on those fantasies can be dangerous, hurtful, and ultimately ruin what could have been a beautiful relationship. i complain about the manly ways of my husband from time to time, but stumbling across this discussion made me feel so lucky and grateful that at least he's not a disrespectful pig!
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Reading this comments made me realise that the world is coming to an end and people are really getting insane...I am not very religious, i really love sex but some fantasies must be kept fantasy..I can't imagine someone who really love his wife to feel cool by another guy fucking her...I am sorry, partners who involve in this act are either PERVERTS, GAYS, LOSERS who cannot satisfy their wifes or THOSE THAT DOESN'T LOVE THEIR WIFES...I can't imagine the type of advice u would have given ur children if they have a relationship problem with their love ones...
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i have been married two times. when i was with my first wife i got her to go a nudist camp even though she was very shy. i liked the folks there seeing her nude. later i go her to take off her top on a beach at panama city, fl and walk down the beach . she left her top with our towels and i could tell she was getting off on showing her breasts. some frat boys came up and talked with us and when they were leaving one of them asked to hugh my wife bye. when he did he slid his hands onto her breasts and she was moaning. he sucked her tits and she loved it. another time, several yrs. later we were having a party at our condo and one of the chicks there got her to try some free base coke. she hit the pipe about nine times and chick who turned her on took her to the bathroom, stripped her naked and then took her back out to the party.
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No it's not normal if you really love your wife. It's quite disgusting if you ask me.
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@8Serene8 agree with you, wtf is wrong with these people
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My fantasy started by asking my wife to tell me about her wild days before I met her. She is drop dead gorgeous, blonde hair, blue eyes with the most perfect enhanced "D" cup breasts and an EXTREREMLY tight pussy that is absoluetly gorgeous (I'm not just saying that. I post pics of her on showyourcunt.org and all the guys make comments as to how perfect her pussy is). She is EXTREMELY sexy, sexual and sensual, very open about sex and lost track of how many one night stands she ad before we met including menages..all of course while she was drunk. I finally talked her into letting a friend film us fuck which he did several times that eventually led to him having sex with her but he turned out to be gay and that was a turn off for us. Plus he was blonde haried and blue eyes which isn't her type. Over the years we would hang out and get drunk with an out of town friend and my wife would give me head and I'd eat her pussy in front og him then he came over during the day and we got drunk and started talking about letting my friend screw her. She ended up being the one to make the first move by saying "let's just go upstairs and do it". Which we did. He fucked her doggy while deep throating me and came in less than a minute (I told you she was a turn on!). I video taped them and he taped us afterwards. I love jacking off to the tape watching her reach under to guide his cock into her cuz he was only average size. I then told him not to cum inside her and she joked "my tubes are tied, don't cum inside of me"...God her saying that makes me just want to cream my pants now! Anwaty, she wants to keep sex just between us now but I'm pretty certain I can get her to do it again. She relaxes and gets real horny when she's been drinking...
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My wife and I were about 36 and 39 when we rode on country roads late one night with me driving, her in the middle. Our friend kept the wine coming and he started french kissing her, which both of them knew i wanted. Later his 8 inches uncut hard appeared out fron his underwearless shorts, and it found her hand and all 3 of us enjoying it. She I think because he is a good 2 inches longer and much thicker than me, so it felt so different to her. They continued kissing and she holding his hard and this went on for a couple of hours. I was rock hard with excitement. More later...
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I like the fantasy but could not live with the reality. Dose that make me insecure or not normal?
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Sorry, but yes it does.
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Normal in every way. Just hold the line. Talking like that is close to foreplay. Leave it in you own bedroom
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You are ideed normal. You love your wife very much, and keep on loving her. Watch pornos fatansize, that's the fun. When the fantasy becomes reality. The fantasy is over.
Where is the fun?
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I find it fun to watch me wife take another mans cock in her and I really love to see them empty thier nut sack in her pussy. One time when she was doing me and a friend I was close to her cunt. Watching this bigger than my cock slide into her all the way. About 9 inches of thicker than me, stiff cock go into her box and then he held it there. That got me more excited than usual. I made up my mind I was going to sneak something naughty. So I was there and was moving his dick up and down when I told her to come here and like him. Which she turned to do but I snuck and put his cock in my moth. I wanted to see what she like to do. The I put his cock in her pussy & watched as he empty into her. She then licked him off. I was so proud of her.
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OK...question? I just met a guy who wants the same thing. I actually don't object to flirting and dancing to turn him on...and I have no objection to an MFM 3-some.

However, I would HATE it if it was the other way. I don't want my man wanting, looking or touching anyone else.

Can this ever work?
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I think that it could work out if you both in agreement,and dont get jealous.You might really like it
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I have the same desire/fantasy. I am only interested in seeing my wife pleasure/be pleasured, with me there to watch and join in, but only with her.
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You want to pleased your self that's what you want. Have respect for your wife. Once another men screws her she isn't your wife any more.

You may have opened a pandora box and your wife becomes a great whore. Love her, watch pornos together but never share her.
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@: lilred
If you are both very secure in your relationship with each other, and understand that sex is just sex, it can be VERY good!
I am gone 2-3 weeks at a time.
My wife will sometimes find a man to fill in for me in that area (with my encouragement!) she say's she enjoys telling me about it more then doing it sometimes.
She films it for me when she can, and I have watched her on the webcam to.
I have no intrest in other girls, but love to see her in action.
Is it normal? man I hope so!
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@: lilred
YES it can work .....but youd have to try first and explore.
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@: lilred
I would be ok with that...
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@: lilred
You want a guy to Dick you? Your husband may want to Dick some woman. Honey it takes two to Tango. Dick for Dick.
Drop that crazy desire you have. Tell you husband to bring home a dildo and to go down on you.

Save your marriage
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Yes it is normal, according to the percentage of 88% This is not a fantasy it is innate. I could get into religious hangups caused by most monotheistic religions, but it's pretty well known that when polytheism was not only the norm, but practiced globally, when all civilizations became called civilizations they were actually civil. It's in our blood to share, monotheism made us (humanity) selfish.
This is a real dilemma for people who struggle with open communication. Because in order for all parts of the puzzle to be put together without losing any pieces, both lovers must trust, adore and respect their partners fully, without exception. When the communication barrier is no barrier at all, life together becomes perfect. Then the offering or giving into sharing every aspect of fulfillment: mental, physical and sexual tensions become a sexual completeness you could call "the secret of life".
Only a giving, loving, very communicative couple can enjoy sharing to such an extent without problems. If you can not talk about it you wont enjoy it.
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I the wee hours, I stopped the truck and asked her to go down on him, and after some urging she did but didn't stay down long enough to finish him. Watching her suck him was so hot. Later we took her home and then I drove him home. In his yard he pulled it out again, still hard and waved it at me. I didn't know what to do but i knew he had blue balls from hours of playing with my beautiful wife. The rest is history, and we all had fun. She never knew about the latest part, but she and I had super sex when I got back home.....There's more when someone inquires.......
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@: jbj955
for real?
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i have wanted to watch my wife have sex with another man i told her that about 2 years into my marriage she said No way not ever then a few years later i found out she cheated on me 4 different times i asked her how come she didnt tell me or ask me since she knew i wanted to watch her have sex with another man she had no answer well now it 30 years later and im still wanting to watch her have sex with another man sometime shes say ok and nothing happens im am at a stand still i guess i am just going to keep dreaming about it
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I saw this on Law And Order Svu he always was aroused by his wife having orgies with many men and he made his daughters watch and join i think on was 7 and the other 15
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I think your assumption that your hubby doesn;t fantasize about you having sex with other men may be false. He may just be scared or plain clumsy about sharing something that really turns him on.

Many men who enjoy their wives having sex with others are like your husband, somewhat inadequate beween the sheets. It the love they still have for the woman they can no longer satisfy that drives the fantasies. He may desire more than you know to see the flush on you face and glassy eyes of post-coital bliss from being with a lover.

You need to be as creative as possible in drawing him into sweet fantasies of illicit sex. Give it a good try, and good luck!
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Yes. That's the winning formula--that it's a turn on for both of you. That way you continue to have an important relationship thing in common
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Hello people we was really hope n to get some feed back, on our prier posts
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Hello, my first time here and I love it...........
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IT HELPED OURS, BUT SHE HAS SINCE STOPPED
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anyone plz suggest.
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I too love my wife to make love with other men.
Sexual intimacy is life's most intense pleasure, i love my wife and like her to enjoy herself with others. I find it extremely erotic when she gives herself to another man.
She is happy when she has a lover, and if she's happy, i'm happy too.
We've been together 30 years, she has had several lovers, and i love her just as much as when we first met.
If it's worked for us this long how can it be wrong?
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I have never been so turned on as I was the first time I watched my wife suck another mans cock. We picked a guy from a list of candidates that responded to an add we had placed. Set up a meeting and within a minute of entering this guys house they had their hands on each other and within five minutes she was sucking his cock long and deep. We had the best sex of our marriage when we got home that night.
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im trying to get my wife have sex while i watch
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@: canada
i to like my wife flirting with men wish we could bring him home st laurent qc
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I love it. I like to see my wife flirting, having foreplay with other guy in very discreet & secured manner. A guy who has love, admiration & bondage. Foreplay would include kissing, touching, holding, grabbing, running, lifting. All till their heart desire.
But no sex for some reason. I don’t know why, but no sex. They must know this boundary.
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@: JP123
that would be real hard for me its like having your cake and not eating it.....
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In my fantasy, foreplay is supposed to work as appetizer for all three or four people (if you have your wife there to watch). For full course meal, one should go to their home & have it.
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These all are fantasies n we have no right to control other people's fantasies
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I want to know why it turns me on so much? Me and my girlfriend met on an adult dating site started out as sex she had done threesomes 3 guys a girl had pictures she had sent me really turned me on. We had a threesome with a her and another man he was longer than me it was awesome watching her suck his cock. Both of us were on the bed ironically she spent more time on him. We ended up having a kid together and naturally all that stopped. But now the kids are getting older we go out drinking a little more. She has a hard time having orgasms unless it is anal. She has an Orange personality if anyone is curious look it up fits her to a T. Anyway ive suggested we do something but she says if she loses weight etc. Anyway we were out a party with some girlfriends of hers at work. She is the life of the party (again orange Personality) she went around showing her ass. A female coworker was showing her piercings they were in the bathroom looking at it. One girlfriend she has at work kept saying her man wasnt that big. At the party someone showed my GF a picture of his cock it was big and she was trying to feel him up as she was getting drunker and drunker flirting with guys talking about nice cocks I really think if someone put the moves on her she would have done something. I fealt mixed emotions turned on but only if I was there to watch nothing behind my back. Well it never happened but I'm thinking the right person it would since she has had 3 some experiences in the past. There is going to be a party in a few months at this bar that is attached to the hotel with some of her coworkers. I really want to find someone hot that I can have to seduce her while we are there at the party, when she is a little drunk ask if they want to go somewhere and he will say your man can come too. Am I crazy anyone think it could be pulled off or is it sleezy?
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3some sex, especially MMF is awesome. If you do it once you want to do it again and again and again - and that goes for both sexes. The only thing that I am sorry about is that my wife and I only started with this when we were in our mid-fifties. We could have had so much fun in our thirties and forties. Well, for us it is rather late than never. A word of advice is that you should first work on your jealousy. Once that is out of the way you open up a new sexual world with a lot of fun and enjoyment.
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Background.. Been with wife 16 years, she has only had me!i have no gay thoughts , no desire to cheat, love her loads, and she tells me she loves me about 10 times per day, she is a perfect wife and mother and she really is beautiful and we are best friends and soul mates.
I will be graphic as its easier to write. About a year ago whilst fucking her I asked her if she would like another man to fuck her as I would not mind if she did , I said call it a gift for being so damn perfect and loyal to me, well many months of questions and doubts later we got to the stage where she trusted me and felt comfortable pointing out men she would enjoy being fucked by!.It is great fun , a real turn on for both and great to really get to know what your wife is really thinking. We recently started to talk about a mutual friend (male), he fitted the bill perfectly as she knew him and his history(important to her), and I know the fact he was meant to be at least 8 inches turned her on.Well we finally arranged to go to his place for food and drink and we had a plan that we all agreed to and that was to have the one drink and I would take her hand and lead her to his bedroom, when there the planning kinda stopped but we all knew my friend and I would spend all night taking turns fucking her pussy and mouth and no doubt cumin in her as many times as possible, I'm not gunna lie , I was looking forward to see my wife being fucked hard by my friend, I wanted to see how sexy she looked with an 8/9 inch cock hammering her pussy.I also wanted to see how out of control turned on my friend was as he took her pussy and to see that moment when she felt another man make her cum and when she realised and felt another man filling her pussy with cum...damn , two days before my friend injured his shoulder and cancelled, he then entered a relationship so we had to cancel.We all still talk and even this week he told me if he ever becomes single the first thing he's going to do is fuck my wife lol.The wife is very choosey and is still looking for the lucky man, I for my part don't even understand how my life and wife are so perfect that I yern and have tOld the wife id love her to be regularly fucked hard and cum filled by many many men, it will happen, but at her pace and with whom she chooses.
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it is a disorder hasnt yet being officialize. much like fetishes of oftenly men in power to be chained, whipped and sexually molested by a mean buxom. these watching sex partner swapping has become more and more apparent in the west proves there are an "IMBALANCE" in the western culture, for if everything is well and balance there wont be such excess of sex behaviour. but again the western culture itself would prevent the correction of this since since that would go head to head with western ideas of "liberalization" and hedonism. so we all doomed. if you have a small children for those of you still sane, find other much less "liberal" place to live, we need to save some of the still "steril" generations and be avoided from these things for the future of mankind. thanks.
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its actually a woman objectification. and signs women in the west are getting less smarter everytime.
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My last marriage broke up because my wife would not stop being unfaithful. I tried three-ways, MFM, but it wasn't enough, cause she cheated again. I really enjoyed watching my wife with another man, and now that I am remarried, have offered it to my new wife. I love her beyond words, and know I would feel some jealousy, but just the thought of it gives me a raging hard on. I don't want this to get out, so I don't want to do it with anyone we know, but I don't know how we can trust someone (diseases)without knowing them. It doesn't really matter, because my wife doesn't want anything to do with it. She might think I would want it the other way around FMF, but she is very wrong. I want to see her totally satisfied, and one man (especially at my age) can not do that. She is gorgeous, and a lot of guys would want her. I think, if she allowed it, she could have 20 orgasms in one meeting....how awesome would that be for her!?! I would love to watch her having an all out, blown out orgasm, while some guy is pounding away at her.
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Those Guys dont Feel Jealous and Hatred to watching his wife making sexual Fun with other Guys in front of them they are not Man rather they are Transsexual Coward, Homosexual Pig and fucking Filthy biggest Gay disease in the Earth and should have been burnt without single bit of fuel
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seeing my wife drop something on the floor and some guy goes to pick it up and seeing her open her legs and seeing his reaction to this display turns me on. Funny how cluzy he becomes constantly dropping things to find out if it by accident or intention. He soon finds out its a invitation. Love to see how fast she can seduce him. Strange how many guys will fuck a woman even if her husband is watching. I really like to watch her face as a different cock fucks her and empttys all its cum deep inside her. if you are clean ya all cum
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you are making your wife a hoe.I i'm only 18 and if i get mary i would not like that.
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I would gladly give all the help anyone needs :)
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It's great to know this is pretty normal, I don't have to question myself anymore.
I brought this up to the gf a while back when we were discussing fantasies, I only mentioned it because she said her big one(or rather the big one she'd voice) was to be with two guys and experience a double penetration. Unfortunately she followed up with saying it would most likely be a deal breaker in our relationship because it would lead to me wanting a FMF......told her I've been there and its too damn much work....LOL
She has tossed out scenarios/stories while we were making love which caused me to hammer the hell out of her but recently even that has gone away and if I mention that I'd like to hear her do it again she gets pissy.....
She is a wild one down deep and was when she was younger but now seems to be trying to bury it..... wish she would let it surface a bit more, even if its only verbally fulfilling our fantasies.
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do you get to have sex with your wife if not you are what is known as a "cockold" where the man never gets to sleep with the wife some times the wife will have the man in a chastity device (loving my one) and wont let him out, unless its to wash his well you know what.
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It's normal. Look up the phrase NTR.
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You are different my fucked up in the head friend!
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A lot of couples are doing that now . Me and my now ex-wife did the wife watching and wife swapping . I liked the wife watching better . We did it with strangers , friends and with men she only knew . She went out a few times while I stayed at home and while I was at work . One time I just dropped her off at the motel door so she could be with a man we had met before and I went home . He brought her home when they were done . That was fun too . I would eat her cum filled pussy while she told me about the men fucking her when I was not there ..
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I would like to watch my wife. She is very good, most exquisite in fact, and she gives fantastic head. I apologize but we are not allowed to use the kind of language that could adequately describe her masterful oral talents. I have already seen in action with a dildo with a suction cup, do I already know that she would be smashing to watch; dazzling, absolutely dazzling! Unfortunately the simple truth is that I simply cannot include myself in her relationships with others. You see we are followers on the path of the Goddess, and when Tique becomes Freya incarnate she can and does have sex with whomever she pleases, whenever she pleases, wherever she pleases. When Tique is Freya incarnate she has the first word, the last word and all words in between. She has the one and only say about where she goes who she takes with her and whom or what she does when she gets there.
I suppose for anyone who isn%%u2019t familiar with what I'm talking about this would all sound most peculiar and possibly rather ridiculous and comical. I can already shouts of outrage from the men, but I assure you what Tique is doing is a MOST SELFLESS ACT. As High Priestess to Freya she is the only one who can command our efforts to raise and then craft the tremendous and unseen energy and then with absolute and perfect surrender expresses it and me through herself to Freya Thus she completes the first half circle of our and the earth%%u2019s relationship with Freya. Next she places herself on Freya%%u2019s altar in sacrifice and surrenders herself completely to Freya, completing the circle of our relationships, the stands to walk the Earth as FREYA INCARNATE. From that point on she is Freya%%u2019s vessel and Freya%%u2019s altar. It is upon that altar that she commands the sex that will deliver unto Freya the most divine and precious gift; Her own orgasm. She is the only one who can do it. I can%%u2019t and doubt anyone else can do it with such adeptness. This is where Tique demonstrates her greatest asset and most precious quality, Herself. There are many Priestesses who invoke the Goddess, but none who do it in this way, and there are none on this Earth who become truly and completely the GODDESS INCARNATE. She alone It%%u2019s quite awe-inspiring. I've known priestesses who've been in the craft for over 30 years. I've met Selena Fox. But I have never known anyone who's had such sheer natural ability and such perfect Grace.
So Mote It Be!
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the reason you enjoy other men with your wife is youre gay.no other reason a man would take so much pleasure from seeing his wife get dicked.
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