watching my wife

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It's your personal sex life, so why would you even mention this to your family?!

Anywho . . . If it makes both of you happy, it really shouldn't matter what your friends and relatives think.

yes I wouldn't tell you family. I'd say it's a private matter and I think you're a very lucky man. Wanting to watch your wife with other men is a very common fantasy and you're lucky that your wife is keen to please you by tucking in.

There's at least another recent post on this same topic. It is completely normal but best kept private since society hasn't yet fully accepted this lifestyle. Swingers participate in exactly what you enjoy and have grown in popularity in recent years. There are many clubs worldwide that engage in such swapping/sharing with other couples. Do a google search and numerous clubs will pop up. It isn't as unusual as it used to be.

Totally normal activity. Carry on as long as you both agree to it. Does she suck a good c*ck with you watching also?

By the way, I am well hung and very sexual, and would like to please your wife while you watch. Where do you live?

Yeah, I didnt think I would enjoy watching my wife have sex with someone else til I actually watched by accident,well it wasnt all the way sex but kind of,it was after a party at a hotel my wife had a little to much to drink and so did I,we had a room at this hotel and I asked one of the bus boys to help me take her to our room I should of known better since he was pretty young and I saw him checking her out,so we got to our room and we laid her on one bed and I laid down on the other one I thanked the guy and he asked to turn off the lights before he left I was so drunk Ijust said fine go ahead and I dozed off for about five min I kind of woke up and saw this guy feeling her out I just layed there watching and getting very turned on I watched as he raised her dress sniffed her out I didnt know what to do,Iwas enjoying this alot the further he went the more I got exited after he pulled down her panties and started giving her oral and saw my wife enjoy this with a passion that she had an orgasm,I thought he was going to penatrate her but he looked over at me and probably thought I was going to wake up and decided to leave so after he left I finished the job wow was she wet,thats when I knew that I enjoyed watching my wife have sex with other men ....

This is quite normal in my book...my husband enjoys watching me and my lovers havinf sex, or hearing about a "date" if he is not there.

the reason you enjoy other men with your wife is youre gay.no other reason a man would take so much pleasure from seeing his wife get dicked.

you are a very lucky man to have a wife who lets you watch her with other men .there are hundreds of men who envy you i wish my wife would. do it with another man so i could watch yours roger

How can I get in touch with you I think I can fix you up.

When I was fifteen I had a boyfriend who SAID that he would like to see me with other guys.

Like a fool (And I was) I went along. First one guy, then (on different occations) another, another and then two at once while he watched.

Went on for about six months, THEN I got hold of his cell phone one day and read a few texts. Turns out the bastard was pimping me out!

That ended that.

Tobra - STILL PISSED!

It could be that you love your wife so much you like to see her pleased.

If she doesn't do it in a malicious way and both have a clear understanding you can find enjoyment out of her pleaser. So the more shes enjoying it the more you are.

Plus you get that third person view of your wifes body having sex.

I would like to watch my wife. She is very good, most exquisite in fact, and she gives fantastic head. I apologize but we are not allowed to use the kind of language that could adequately describe her masterful oral talents. I have already seen in action with a dildo with a suction cup, do I already know that she would be smashing to watch; dazzling, absolutely dazzling! Unfortunately the simple truth is that I simply cannot include myself in her relationships with others. You see we are followers on the path of the Goddess, and when Tique becomes Freya incarnate she can and does have sex with whomever she pleases, whenever she pleases, wherever she pleases. When Tique is Freya incarnate she has the first word, the last word and all words in between. She has the one and only say about where she goes who she takes with her and whom or what she does when she gets there.
I suppose for anyone who isn't familiar with what I'm talking about this would all sound most peculiar and possibly rather ridiculous and comical. I can already shouts of outrage from the men, but I assure you what Tique is doing is a MOST SELFLESS ACT. As High Priestess to Freya she is the only one who can command our efforts to raise and then craft the tremendous and unseen energy and then with absolute and perfect surrender expresses it and me through herself to Freya Thus she completes the first half circle of our and the earth's relationship with Freya. Next she places herself on Freya's altar in sacrifice and surrenders herself completely to Freya, completing the circle of our relationships, the stands to walk the Earth as FREYA INCARNATE. From that point on she is Freya's vessel and Freya's altar. It is upon that altar that she commands the sex that will deliver unto Freya the most divine and precious gift; Her own orgasm. She is the only one who can do it. I can't and doubt anyone else can do it with such adeptness. This is where Tique demonstrates her greatest asset and most precious quality, Herself. There are many Priestesses who invoke the Goddess, but none who do it in this way, and there are none on this Earth who become truly and completely the GODDESS INCARNATE. She alone It's quite awe-inspiring. I've known priestesses who've been in the craft for over 30 years. I've met Selena Fox. But I have never known anyone who's had such sheer natural ability and such perfect Grace.
So Mote It Be!

Hey man,

Don't sweat it. I'm a bi man in a very loving relationship with my lady who I've been with for three years. Catch is. you see that bi part? We lost our 3-some v-card over a year ago, and I found LOVE watching her. Sometimes this is helped by the male also being bi-sexual but our most regular "extra" partner is straight as a rod (to all you homophobes out there don't worry gay isn't contagious and i can play with her around straight guys and not uncontrollably attack him) and I love him being a part of our experience.

My biggest tip as you get more and more comfy with this idea is keep an open line of communication, don't be afraid to set boundries, and do some research you are far from alone.

There have been a couple j*ckbut comments/replies to this (i.e. calling you gay, etc.) ignore these. I believe it just shows your devotion to your wife's pleasure.

I mean obviously I'm a layman and no shrink but I know from my experience that, while not for everyone, it's a wonderful thing. Many people also seem to think that a 3-sum etc. is a reflection on the status of the relationship (i.e. one partner isn't doing their job). But this is ridiculous. Many of us men (as I'm sure the OP does) finds their partner's pleasure extremely erotic and fulfilling. Your are not only enjoying yourself but by keeping an open-mind you are being generous and loving through this, albeit naughty, and I wish you both the best of luck.

- To infinity and beyond

Well! its interesting to know that u too. I think its not bad if she also likes it. Unfortunately I cant disclose my desires to my wife as she is very religeous. tell me what I should do? Any idea?

I have finally come to the realization that the thought of my wife having sex with another man excites me. I thought I was insane and completely alone until I found this site and started reading some of the posts here. my fantasies about this are not as extreme as some of what I have read here, and I still have alot of fear about the aftermath. I have masturbated many times thinking about the men my wife has been with before, and often times imagine them doing to her what I am doing while we are having sex. My feelings are unexplainable. I am jealous, angry, hurt but very excited and turned on at the same time. I told her to go with another man a few nights ago and she finally did. At first I was hurt, but I was actually getting aroused when she told me what she did. We have still not made the decision for her to do it in front of me, but I am starting to think more about it. We love each other very very much, but we enjoy unusual sex at times. Our sex life is wonderful, but this fantasy is growing more in my head by the day. I have watched her with women several times and it was great, but my wife is obviously more attracted to men. I don't know why I am so aroused at the thought of my wife having sex with other people. For those who have done this, did it strengthen your relationship or did it damage it? Any advice anyone can give me would be appreciated. It is good at least to know that I am not alone.

I have the same fantasy,my wife wants to have another guy and have me watch to make sure that she is safe.She also wants me to have another guys wife.She said that would be her ultimate fantasy,but she wants to just go with the flow no pre planning.She said she might even want to swap partners in the same bed.

OK...question? I just met a guy who wants the same thing. I actually don't object to flirting and dancing to turn him on...and I have no objection to an MFM 3-some.

However, I would HATE it if it was the other way. I don't want my man wanting, looking or touching anyone else.

Can this ever work?

I think that it could work out if you both in agreement,and dont get jealous.You might really like it

I have the same desire/fantasy. I am only interested in seeing my wife pleasure/be pleasured, with me there to watch and join in, but only with her.

I am in the same boat. However when my wife takes a certain sleeping pill on an empty stomach, she loses inhibitions and not only craves to do things she normally doesn't like, like letting me cum in her mouth, but asks for other partners. And she never remembers a thing about it the next day!

My wife too is religious, however after 15 years of marriage (and we married late) and several kids, my age has caught up with me and I can no longer satisfy her as a man. She uses toys, but is frustrated that she has to resort to them and is worried that its the only way she can receive pleasure. I was, and remain, her second man to date. As I said, we married late and she got curious with another man before meeting me.

I led a more promiscuous life and had several partners before meeting my wife and have remained 100% faithful since marrying her. I've always left it open to her to have men on the side for sex since I have felt guilty about having had so much fun in my earlier life. She has always been firm that there is no way she would do such a thing.

Well, she was once again very frustrated with using her toy, and I suggested that she go ahead and find a man to please her and that would please me, knowing that she could be satisfied again. I know that I will never be permitted, nor would I even ask, to have the same permission. It is just that I want her to be happy and be able to enjoy being a woman with a man that can keep it up for her.

Wouldn't you know it, but she said that she would consider it because she knows it is truly out of my love for her and that she's coming to be able to separate making love from just having sex in her mind.

So, while I too have had the fantasy about watching her, she flatly refuses to have me watch. However, as a compromise, she has to tell me in excruciating detail about each encounter so I can live vicariously through her experiences. In some respects, the spoken word is much more erotic than visual exactness. Imagining what she is doing and then hearing the actual account are both very stimulating.

i am also one of these husbands who enjoys the thought of his wife passionately having wild sex with another man. im not bisexual nor want anything to do with the man nor want to be with another woman since a lot of wives feel thats what we may want but actually its a very unselfish thought of us where the wife would simply enjoy herself ?? my wife however is very conservative so bringing this fantasy up hasnt been easy ?? Suggestions ??

YES it can work .....but youd have to try first and explore.

Yes it can work - maybe you have to be a little creative about it. My GF wanted to, but was really, really shy about it.

We absolutely love it now. It happened to her quite by suprise one night (kind of). After tying her up and blindfolding her as usual (we love that), this time I quietly snuck in our neighbor (someone she absolutely adores and is always flirting with!!) and let him take my place and have sex with her. I had 'coached' him a little a week before so he knew exacly what to do to have her unconscious within minutes!! He did everything imaginable to her - it was fantastic! He was literally on her for over an hour and she was completely out of her mind with passion - it was unbelievable. When I told her she got so turned on it was crazy she wanted more with someone new. She still wants to be tied and blindfolded so the other guy thinks she doesn't know the switch has taken place - is she naughty or what!! The crazy thing is that everyone wins!

i too have the same fantasy. i realy love my wife moy but i would love to see her in action with another man. we have been together alot of years and the fantasy still persists and the more i think about it the more it turns me on. I sometimes wonder if im sick in the head? all i know is if my wife got dirty with another man it would drive me crazy with lust for her and the thought realy gets me horny. I dont know why this is i sometimes feel a hint of jelousy but the sexy part of it is i would like to see her do this and to watch her with another man is the ultimate fantasy. even the thought of sleeping with other women doesnt bother me because im happy with moy but i cant get rid of this fantasy. I worry she will think i dont love her and the truth is i do and always will and if i allowed her to do this i couldnt ever blame her if i didnt like the reality. truth is i think this is something i can be happy with as its only her i have ever had this feeling about and no one else will do and so i would love to see her get down and dirty with another man. I would even have a threesome but I would not touch the other guy because that would be a big turn off for me! at the end of the day she changed her mind and wouldnt do it and i respect that but how i would love for her to.

me too,i have the fantasy for 6 years,and i told her as well,she thinks i am mad,but she don't mind that.she has kissed a man 5 years agao,sometimes she was told me how did he met her,and kissed her feld her ass in the car,he was trying to feel her pussy,but she was stopped him,but she never have done anything further then that,once was very close,he took his c*ck out,and put her hand on it,and she got a shock,and took her hand back,her pussy getting wet... when she was home,the frist thing she did was changing her knicker...i asked her what was going on ,she still say they didn't do anything...so....i only pertanted what was happened in my mind...she said she won't do that,but i don't kow why she was weared sexy knicker go to work all the time..i don't mind she do that behind me,just need her to tell me what is the story about their sex after..or any other men she likes..

If you are both very secure in your relationship with each other, and understand that sex is just sex, it can be VERY good!
I am gone 2-3 weeks at a time.
My wife will sometimes find a man to fill in for me in that area (with my encouragement!) she say's she enjoys telling me about it more then doing it sometimes.
She films it for me when she can, and I have watched her on the webcam to.
I have no intrest in other girls, but love to see her in action.
Is it normal? man I hope so!

The idea has always excited me.
Have you tried topless beaches?

I love watching others appreciate her beauty.

Its normal....dont sweat it.

Normal? I don't know but I know I love for my wife to f**k other guys. There is a certain amount of jealousy in there and I think that's part of the excitement, kind of like skydiving. But if there was not even a hint of jealousy, then I don't think the thrill would be there. My wife is out, as we speak, having sex with another guy. She'll tell me all about it when she gets home. I'm trying to get her to do a gang bang, we'll see? Sick? Maybe. Fun? oh hell yes!!

great story .. is it real ?
my husband is like you. ifirst i thought he is not normal . but now i understand more.
thanks

This took us years to finally do, we've done it and it is great. I too love seeing give and get pleasure. It is extremely exciting, I video taped it and watch it often. We are now into swinging and have had some great experiences, we went to a 'swing' party recently and I got to see her in action. We finished at about 3:00 am and went home and were both super excited and had great sex afterwards. It was an extreme thrill having sex with her after a night of her having sex. I recommend it to couples who are 'both' into it.

Wow, interesting reads. I fantasize all the time about watching my wife having sex with another man in front of me, but not really too sure what I would feel like afterwards. In the heat of the moment it would be great, but afterwards? I'm not so sure.

I don't think either of us would feel comfortable with anybody we know or in our neighbourhood, but maybe on holiday in a different place I was thinking of hiring a male stud to sort the wife out?

Please advise your thoughts.

I think the thought of my girlfriend having sex with another man is way exciting, i think the thing that turns me on so much about it is the thought of her screaming in pleasure as she looks at me know how dirty she is being.. I think the fact she knows she is being dirty will turn her on and make sex even better for her, and the more pleasure she is in the more turned on I get... Its the thought of her satisfying her primal urges... If you like sex, you would like sex with other people, if your significant other tells you your the only one they ever think of, I assume that is a lie, its way natural to think of other people, so why fight it? My girlfriend agreed to try it, wish us luck on finding someone to do it :) I CANT WAIT

Yes you are normal, I get a real kick out of watching my wife with other men, I am not a cuckold, she will ask for my permision first and she shows total respect, and some times i join in at the end, it is a very big turn on for me, my wife loves doing it so why stop her, most people don't understand so it is simple don't tell any one, you only live once in this place, and it is over very quickly, so take the moment and keep it private, we don't use swingers clubs, we seek out on other sites, and always play away from home, good luck, get the most from it....Kev

Hi I also would like to wish you good luck on your new adventure, my it go well for you, How ever I would like to pass on one bit of advice, if you want this to go well you must find the right person, and your other half must pick that person, then it is your job to give her all the help that she will need, how to dress, tell her how good she looks, how much you love her, making her feel good about herself will pay dividens later, the right man is very important he must be special to her and you as he will do things to your other half only you have done, so good luck, have fun and be part of a growing group of special people..K

I had the experience recently for the first time of my wife with an old boy friend. It took place in our bed. The sex was an anti climax but was still incredibly hot. My advice is do not rush headlong into anything you may regret. An old flame would probrably be best as familiarity really helps, taking it further gradually. The range of emotions is incredible be prepared and really think about what to say and do after. I would set it up again at the drop of a hat but these things take time. Be careful. Once on this path you may never get off or indeed want to. Good Luck....

It's so erotic watching my wife get other guys off. I love it. I love telling her to slow down when he gets close so it's prolonged. I love the intense look on her face when she knows he's close.