Is it normal to hate having ANY water left on the bathroom basin? My wife gets annoyed after I've brushed my teeth or washed my hands and there are any drops of water or even streaks still on the basin - they must be wiped off to a Mr Sheen shine IMMEDIATELY! A drop here or there doesn't bother me but it drives her nuts. Is this normal?
But neat freaks need to indulge their fascinations would inflicting them on normal people.
This observation will ultimately be of no value to you. If you can buy household peace by simply wiping down the sink, then do it.
My mother doesnt give a crap about some specks, unless I did something to upset her earlier.