Well I think i might have lost my social life.

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its normal to lost some touch but not all, and not being able to socialize is bad for you, it's nice to have your time, but totally reclusion is bad , believe me i know!

why don't you want to go?
maybe you should try going out sometimes, maybe you should push yourself a bit.

all my life i always avoided going out and people and end up that i developed social fobia...

Yea I don't really have any friends anymore. I used to have a lot but they just move on and so did I. I go to college now, and I really can't bond with anyone, and I think it's because I'm almost 23 years old and everyone else is 18 or 19. So it's hard for me to relate when I want to be around mature people. I do try to be nice and stuff, but I can't talk to people who talk about anime and video games all day. LOL. I have co-workers I go out with sometimes, but I don't really think they like me. They say I'm too sensitive, and I can't really dance. I do get depressed sometimes because I feel as if I have nobody who really cares about me. It doesn't matter though really, because at the end of the day I would rather just be at home with my little boy then be out getting drunk or getting laid. I don't understand people, and I don't think I ever really will.

Well i dont know why i dont want to go. lol> my friend are i guess you can say the cool crowd in our town, they perty but are still working and smart. id just rather stay to closer friends i guess but, they want to party. i dont know, but i do SOMETIMES want to go out. lol

you sound cool,
got family problems,or are starting to use drugs?
you just might need a' bit of time to work some shit out.
it seems you are popular.:)

well i hang with the "in" crowd i guess you can say. but i dont know...

Man i guess it depends on the person.
I have also began to notice some off my friends are leaving me (:O)
You could say i'm a "geek" like most off the people in my school but i actaully think i'm pretty handsome (unlike my other friends withglasses and teethbracers) and just because i like to paly world of warcraft and video games it doesnt mean i aint social... i mean i meet new people all over the world on the internet everyday! and just cuz i dont know how to build a fiddy from scratch or hang in gangster gans late at night doesnt mean im lame O.o

recenelty 1 of my friends joined the "cool" people and im stuck with the geeks. but i like the geeks, we can talk and sociolize like normal people and talk about things i cant talk about with the "cool" people. they only seem to talk about lame things and things the broke or vandalized yesterday... now me and Erik only like say Hi when we pass almost nothing more.

my other friend now adays hangs with the cool people but we still meet and stuff.

but i guess this is normal

Yeah I think this is noraml. I've only kept in contact with my really close friends.Other people that I just said "hi" to or just spoke to cause they were there I lost touch with.

yeah, it's normal. Most people are shallow, self-centered and self-posessed bastards anyway. If you have 2 or 3 true friends, and I mean friends who will drive to Utah in the middle of the night to get you with no questions asked, then you don't need a ton of fake friends.

Hahah Utah? seems nice. ;]

same here !!
but i fell out with my bff and she turned all my m8s against me so i had a few left....then i had to move house so then i had none !! so now im scared to go out and because im ver chubby...i think people stare and me and think im extra ugly

I guess it is a transitional age. Do you know where you are heading?

You sound like a ego-maniac, it sounds like your going for some attention and TRYING not to Sound conceited but failing