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what am i doin wrong... long please read
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ok i really love this girl shes amazing in everyway and i loved her since seventh grade.im a freshman now 15 yrs old. i still love her alot.we are still extremly close but she doesnt like me the way i like her. and i sent her all these really deep things.example...this is a poem in the quotes then i responded to it...

"girls are like apples on trees. The best ones are at the top of the tree The boys dont want to reach for the good ones because they are afraid of falling and getting hurt. Instead, they get the rotten apples from the ground that arent as good, but easy. So the apples up top think something wrong with them when in reality they're amazing. They just have to wait for the right boy to come along, the one who's brave enough to climb all the way to the top of the tree."

(then i gave it back to her with a response)

I might have climbed half way up the tree and made alotta mistakes doing so

I grabbed every rotten apple I saw because they were the easiest to get

But they made me sick

And everytime Id grab one the branch would break and Id fall

Then i realized, even though I knew it already, these apples are no good and the only one that would make me feel good is at the top

Your that apple, all the way at the top, the best one there

And im willing to climb and fall a million times in order to get to the tippy top of that tree and have that one apple


...it effected her alittle but not the way i thought it would and i sent her so many other things to show her how much i lover and it doesnt do anything... and the thing is the way she acts towards me is like she likes me but she says she doesnt UGH why do girls f**k with your head so much...and this has happened b4 this too and now i just feel like giving up


2 of my freinds that i explained this to said its because it was the way i was brought up to be...my parents always told me to show the way i feel and show that you care...

they said im too far ahead...that like im into the serious stuff bc of the way i am and everyone else just wants to have fun no seriousness attached

am i wrong for this???

what should i do
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Comments (16)
roger49 (3711)
2007-02-13 22:24:52
Sounds like you're pushing her too hard. You need to back off a little bit. It isn't always good to be that forward. She's sending conflicting signals. It may mean that she likes you but doesn't want a relationship right now, or that she just likes you as a friend and that that's just her way of being friendly. Girls fuck with you head so much because they're girls, that's what they do.
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Rory2424 (4424)
2007-02-13 22:44:09
Okay, I've been there. First of all, you are not wrong for this. Sometimes a girl comes along and you just want to be with them no matter what and you would do anything for them. If you have made your feelings to her known though and she isn't responding back in a similar fashion, then it appears she doesn't feel the same way towards you. I did the same thing you did awhile back with the best female friend I've ever had. I pushed it too far though and now she is really frieked out and we are not even friends anymore. Trust me, you don't want this to happen. Here is what I would do if I were you, and what I would do for myself if I could go back in time. For now, just leave it alone. You've made your feelings known to her and all you can do is wait. Perhaps in time she will change her mind and decide she wants to have a relationship with you. Perhaps not. But if you continue to push the issue, she will get tired of hearing about it and you will ruin your friendship with you. At 15, you do seem a little young to be so serious, but it's refreshing to hear about a young boy who isn't just after sex. It sounds like you really want to be with her but be patient and maybe you'll get your chance. As for girls fucking with your mind, yes they pretty much all do it. Some do it because they like the power trip and it boosts their ego, some do it unknowingly not really meaning to hurt you, and some because they are mean bitches. Anyway just don't keep pressing the issue and maybe she'll come around. good luck.
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roger49 (3711)
2007-02-14 13:19:48
@: Rory2424
You have to be careful too, there's a fine line between pushing the right amount and pushing too much. Once you cross the line you've probably blown your chances. You've just got to pay attention to the girl's reaction and try to make a judgement call.
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Rory2424 (4424)
2007-02-14 13:32:13
True roger, and that line is different for every girls, so yes it's a judgement call and a tough one to make. So to the poster: It sounds like you know this girl pretty well so hopefully you know how far to take it and how far is too far.
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Thermos (5578)
2007-02-14 17:59:07
Your poetry sucks and the fact that you send her crap like that shows her that you obviously prefer the man meat.
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Bobert (4857)
2007-02-14 18:29:05
I think you should leave her alone. She isn't interested, just because you like her doesn't mean she has to be inclined to reciprocate.
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Nodo_TheRanter (5564)
2007-02-15 13:42:09
Good luck being a Stalker when you grow up!!!
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sk84l1f3 (5750)
2007-02-16 17:31:21
@: Rory2424
Thanx at least some ones felt the way i feeli hope it does turn around
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JungleQueen (6963)
2007-03-27 09:49:59
I feel for you...maybe you should back off a little show her wat shes missin out on and maybe she'll come runnin, you sound like a good guy. maybe she needs to see you with someone else be4 she can realize her true feelings.
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chuckaluck (7186)
2007-04-03 16:01:52
you blew your chances. move on and stop making yourself look like an ass.
advice for future: dont become bestfriends with a girl and then try to have an intimate relationship. that doesn't work
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youwishyouknew (7140)
2007-04-04 14:40:20
I can totally relate. I loved a boy from the age of 12-15. When i turned 16, the feelings faded away inch by inch year after year. im 21 now and i dont even think about him anymore. perhaps on a VERY VERY VERY VERY RARE occasion. Just forget about her. and give it time. You will soon forget her. And you will meet someone new. It may not be till you are eighteen, but someone new will come along.
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becca8893 (4494)
2007-07-06 23:48:41
The girl is probally being a tease, she doesn't like you but your probally jsut someone she knows likes her so she flirts with you. I would find someone else, because u seem like a good guy who shouldn't be getting hurt by this girl. I know shes mazing and all but there are so many other amazing girls out there for you to be with.
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itsalwaysfreakingnormal (7202)
2007-08-04 19:29:09
Too long.
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knuckifyoubuckk (15316)
2008-07-25 00:21:59
just remember that rape is always an option. just sayin.

-crank dat
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buriedalive (16071)
2008-09-22 13:06:54
maybe she's just a little creeped out cos of all the things you're doing
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MisterGee81 (16946)
2008-10-15 10:07:51
You sound like you have no balls,Stop trying to win her over and grab her and kiss her,No girl wants a pussy who is desperate you are doing things all wrong you need to charm her but also be man enough to take what u want,Its guys that you that ruin it for other guys buy being a pussy,Man up stop whining and take what you want dont sit there and cry a river that wont get u no where fast so man up stop whinning no one wants some one like that
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