When hugging a friend what would be considered to long of a hug...might it mean there was some other kind of feeling there, the longer the hug lasts? is it normal to hug a friend for 20secs?
1. If motion stops (no back-patting, etc.,) or you start to relax (getting comfortable) for more than about 1/2 second
2. If the hug progresses tightens, or includes suggestive rubbing, say, of the very lower back
3. if there is a hint of coercion -- that is one person trys to withdraw, but the other resists
Anyway, in any of these situations, something more than "hello" or "goodbye" is going on, and 20 seconds sounds plenty long enough to accomplish something.
i hate this my girlfriend used to do it to her friend who was a boy and it used to drive me mad then well she left me and went after him so yeah in my eyes a long hug means somthing else
Hey, I hug everyone for like, 10s when they leave the house lol
Watch him/her hugging other people. The amount of time may vary, but if it is significantly longer when he/she hugs you then something might be going on.
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1. If motion stops (no back-patting, etc.,) or you start to relax (getting comfortable) for more than about 1/2 second
2. If the hug progresses tightens, or includes suggestive rubbing, say, of the very lower back
3. if there is a hint of coercion -- that is one person trys to withdraw, but the other resists
Anyway, in any of these situations, something more than "hello" or "goodbye" is going on, and 20 seconds sounds plenty long enough to accomplish something.
Watch him/her hugging other people. The amount of time may vary, but if it is significantly longer when he/she hugs you then something might be going on.
But this disturbs me cause after she does
I always catch her fingering her self under the blanket while watching t.v.
She came to the point , Of admitting to me
that hugging me makes her hot down there
i know after she leaves the living room
The room smells of musky odor and sex smell
she has gave me dirty notes of me and her
f*cking But I try to ignore them