What is considered a long hug?

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There seems like a few ways to go here:

1. If motion stops (no back-patting, etc.,) or you start to relax (getting comfortable) for more than about 1/2 second

2. If the hug progresses tightens, or includes suggestive rubbing, say, of the very lower back

3. if there is a hint of coercion -- that is one person trys to withdraw, but the other resists

Anyway, in any of these situations, something more than "hello" or "goodbye" is going on, and 20 seconds sounds plenty long enough to accomplish something.

20 sces is a while i think if both of you don't resist you got something.

i hate this my girlfriend used to do it to her friend who was a boy and it used to drive me mad then well she left me and went after him so yeah in my eyes a long hug means somthing else

Hey, I hug everyone for like, 10s when they leave the house lol

Watch him/her hugging other people. The amount of time may vary, but if it is significantly longer when he/she hugs you then something might be going on.

My niece is age 16 I am a male age 41, She hugs me cause, She says i am very cuddly
But this disturbs me cause after she does
I always catch her fingering her self under the blanket while watching t.v.
She came to the point , Of admitting to me
that hugging me makes her hot down there
i know after she leaves the living room
The room smells of musky odor and sex smell
she has gave me dirty notes of me and her
f*cking But I try to ignore them