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What's going on?? [Erection/Cum problem]
Right, this is the truth and i hope i can get some helpful comments back.
When i jerk watching porn or something, i can get really strong hard ons and keep them, asif theres no problem. few years ago i was seeing this girl and when i got turned on i would go hard but almost any time it actually lead to us stripping or whatever i would lose the hard on [btw i was a virgin then] so i assumed it was just nerves of the first time, anyways, recently ive been seeing this new girl and i bought some kamagra so i could get and keep hard even if i felt nervous, and yeah it worked just fine, and i went for quite a while, but now a new problem has arisen, i cant get to orgasm and cum... i mean i really love this girl so much and when we have sex its awesome, but we can go for hours and i just wont cum, yet i dont have a problem with that at all, i can blow a huge load if im in a non-pressure situation (ie. watching porn and jerking)
is this normal?? or what?? and any helpful advice on what i can do to maybe sort it, if you say ''Go see a doctor'' please try to think of other ways to sort it first, i would prefer that to be my last option. anyways, thanks to any helpful comments.
When i jerk watching porn or something, i can get really strong hard ons and keep them, asif theres no problem. few years ago i was seeing this girl and when i got turned on i would go hard but almost any time it actually lead to us stripping or whatever i would lose the hard on [btw i was a virgin then] so i assumed it was just nerves of the first time, anyways, recently ive been seeing this new girl and i bought some kamagra so i could get and keep hard even if i felt nervous, and yeah it worked just fine, and i went for quite a while, but now a new problem has arisen, i cant get to orgasm and cum... i mean i really love this girl so much and when we have sex its awesome, but we can go for hours and i just wont cum, yet i dont have a problem with that at all, i can blow a huge load if im in a non-pressure situation (ie. watching porn and jerking)
is this normal?? or what?? and any helpful advice on what i can do to maybe sort it, if you say ''Go see a doctor'' please try to think of other ways to sort it first, i would prefer that to be my last option. anyways, thanks to any helpful comments.
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Did I mention I have a HUGE penis?
But, CabbyHubby makes a very valid point that it could be psychological. either way good luck. btw, my old boyfriend had extreme endurance. I'm talking like 30 minutes of straight blowjob to make him cum. MAN, my neck got tired!
1. talk openly with your girl about this, it's something you should work on together, and it's a sign of trouble if she mocks, belittles or doesn't wanna help (especially if you love her that means your stayin for awhile and your sexuality should be something you both work on)
2. The type of stuff you took affects your erection yes (i've used it and can be quite fun) but also can mess with your prostate, orgasm ability. I've noticed when using it (successfully for me) that the sensation is also lessened, so I'm guessing that your failure to orgasm might be partly due to this.
3. be open to yourself, if you have an issue or concern or doubts (not saying your gay) about a part of your sexuality you can't repress it, try to work on it, educate yourself (massive volumes of info on the net from reputable sources that you can research discreetly) and if you can't figure it out on your own don't be afraid to seek help, repression will lead to much worse problems later on.
As I said before ^ this turned into a book, im just layperson but consider myself an amateur sexologist and am working on schooling to become pro. So if you feel the need don't hesitate to contact me I will be more than happy to point you in the direction of some good trustworthy info sources.
Best of luck to you and her