aye aye aye well let me tell my story. well as people have said when i realised my penis looked different to others from porn etc i began to experiment. and wow that was THE worst thing i could ever have done. as a child i had a really tight foreskin and it wouldnt retract when i reached 15 ish i eventually pulled back my foreskin and it seemed attatched to my head!! anyways the skin then ripped and hurt loads, then i realised that my glans were not visible so i pulled back on that aswell. and guess what! the skin ripped again allllll around my glans leaving white dots now :( im 18 and this affects not only my sex life (becasue im a virgin) but also my whole apporach on women, ive only ever kissed a girl because everytime a girl have gone to do more than a kiss ive had to stop them and make up some bullshit that im not ready! on top of this my penis is a sensitive bastard and therefore im not the biggest fan of it being touched ive done many things to reduce the sensitivity such as letting water hit it in the shower and its actually excruciating. And this ten makes it very difficult to clean my penis, it smells a bit and always seems to get wet :( i really need help doctors have done shit all for me and i cannot go ahead and persue the girl i love because im scared of what she will think i i wouldnt be able to have sex with her and please her.
can someone PLEASE reply to help with any of the things i suffer from i also think the white dots are pearly penile pauples or something like that
Alright so my boyfriend has an uncircumsized penis and there are scars on it from the same thing you are going through... when we started dating he was really nervous about being sexual. He had never had a girl touch it before but he had had plenty of girlfriends so i was confused... we were in my room one night and i finally talked him into telling me what was going on... when he finally showed me i didnt care i loved it because it ewas different! We have been together for over a year now and i still love it! I love the battle scars! And we have the best sex! I think u just neeed to find the right girl and if she doesnt like it she doesnt deserve it and she is giving up the best sex of her life.
The pearly penile papules are absolutely normal so not to worry. They will not go away on their own but might be less noticeable as you age. If you really want them gone though, laser treatment is an option but since the procedure is cosmetic, insurance probably won't pay for it. Do not let a doctor give you any topical meds, they don't work. You said you pulled back on your glans but idk how cuz that is your head. By sensitive you mean painful? Because sensitivity is supposed to be a good thing ; ). If this was a while ago that you pulled back on your foreskin and it still hurts there is a problem 4 sure. If the skin is intact, give it time, if it's open, see a doctor asap because you do not want it getting infected. Don't feel embarrassed, it's best you get it taken care of. You are brave for posting it because some other guy reading this probably has the same question. Besides, you only get help if you ask for it. And this girl...if she was truly into you, she would be understanding about it. You and me are the same age and I know I would be if the guy I was with was in the same boat as you...but that may also be because I'm a nurse and these things don't bother me because I know about it. But don't worry about pleasing her, not all girls are all about the sex, its the way you treat her. Unless you think it would be too painful to have any sex, then like I said, get it taken care of. I hope I helped you and good luck!
I cannot believe I found this website again my first account was notfair but I forgot the password! Anyway what I mean by the glands part, it seemed like the inside of my foreskin was attached to the glands which is apparently normal at a younger much younger age so I just ripped it and have suffered the consequences ever since! Tbh I'm starting to accept the fact it's different I've screwed up far to many relationships over it so yeh, the sensitivity thing is still an issue but I think I'm going to man up and try desensitising it everyday and hope for the best!!!!!!!!
But seriously thanks for all the advice use to be extremely confused and now a year down the line reading this has actually helped a heck of a lot!
then i realised that my glans were not visible so i pulled back on that aswell. and guess what! the skin ripped again allllll around my glans leaving white dots now :( im 18 and this affects not only my sex life (becasue im a virgin) but also my whole apporach on women, ive only ever kissed a girl because everytime a girl have gone to do more than a kiss ive had to stop them and make up some bullshit that im not ready! on top of this my penis is a sensitive bastard and therefore im not the biggest fan of it being touched ive done many things to reduce the sensitivity such as letting water hit it in the shower and its actually excruciating. And this ten makes it very difficult to clean my penis, it smells a bit and always seems to get wet :( i really need help doctors have done shit all for me and i cannot go ahead and persue the girl i love because im scared of what she will think i i wouldnt be able to have sex with her and please her.
can someone PLEASE reply to help with any of the things i suffer from i also think the white dots are pearly penile pauples or something like that
But seriously thanks for all the advice use to be extremely confused and now a year down the line reading this has actually helped a heck of a lot!