When ever i feel like someone likes me i turn into a jerk

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when i meet a guy im usually first attracted to him, & if things start of really well its great and i am happy. but once i say i like him sometimes the guy seems like he likes me to much, and then i push them away. i dont mean to do it and i dont realize i do it till its to late. now i just naturally do it when i first talk to a guy im usually rude. id say your normal otherwise im not normal either haha.

You sound like you're afraid of getting hurt. Maybe something from your past made you that way.

You obviously have very low self esteem and you should fix that. One day you will find someone who loves you with all of your flaws, whether fixable or not.

I know what you mean. Sometimes you just don't know what you have until you lose it. Sometimes I look back o my relationships and wish I had been different, either slightly stricter and more in control or less strict and moany. I have managed to be angels to the guys that treat me bad and devils to the ones that have treated me the best.

You are afraid of getting hurt and you are protecting you feelings, which is normal. Try to analyse the person you are with and see if yo can imagine them in your future and ask yourself if he is treating you right, because the right men are so rare. Perhaps if you are open in your relationships you might find it easier to express yourself as you know that they know what you are feeling.

I hope this makes sense. It is hard realising that what you had was great after you have lost it.

cracky? is that you? i miss you cracky.... no, its not normal to be a jerk.

No it's really childish. Like you know as kids, if you like someone you would hit them and insult them. You just haven't grown out of it and are bad at showing loving feelings. Just try and improve on it. Not normal.