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White female attracted to dark skinned men
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I've always been extremely attracted to Hispanics, African Americans, anything darker than caucasian. My mom is racist, and I know she wishes for me to get married to a white man. I know that it's my decision and my attraction, and I am not overly concerned about her opinion, but my heart longs to be married to a man of a different race and culture, and I'm scared I will marry a white man. I know that if I do, I will love him and be attracted to him, and this decision won't be affected by my mom's feelings...any thoughts or advice would be appreciated! (Currently am dating an amazing man, half Hispanic, Half African, and mom isn't pleased)
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ive been looking for white women like you
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I'd say go with your decision. Just because you have a Mom who's a racist, doesn't mean it's up to her to decide for you; You are an adult. I'm like you, too. I feel more attractive to hispanic men (went out with a couple before). I had a white boyfriend, and since we broke up, I feel more attractive from the way hispanics talk with the accent, and how romantic they can be. Anyway, I believe that race doesn't make a difference. LOVE IS LOVE!
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okay so im kinda goin through the same thing im dating this amazing light skinned guy but my mom dosent knoi she says she ant raciest but she just perfers me to be with a white guy lol do u think u can help me
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I have never even so much as kissed a girl who wasn't my race. Black girls are so beautiful, I definately want my future wife to be black, no doubt.
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i agree with u but not younger guys they r obnoxious but older guys know how to treat a girl haha :)~
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@: sammif
Normal. I agree with you but not younger girls, they're wieners, but older women know how to treat a man...and also are wieners.
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You have what is scientifically referred to as "fuckedupimtheheadsyndrome"
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Ollieo
I think as you gain more experience and confidence in yourself and what you want you will be more comfortable in your own decisions and will end up marrying the right guy. You don't like disagreeing with your mom. But on this she is a bigot and wrong.
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Honestly I dont see color when I look at my man. I think his dark skin is very sexy. its only when I see us in a photo or in the mirror I notice how strange it looks. so I know how it can look to someone else. but I see nothing wrong with being attracted to someone of a diffrent color.
And about your Mom. she just needs to get over her self. if you are happy then she should be happy for you.
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ok your parents are racist thats not the best way to start out but yes liking ppl is normal. all i can say is date ppl based on personality and how they treat you compatability not based on skin color and dont worry about what color your husband will be. if you concentrate on superficial stuff like that you will always have regrets about what if you picked the right person.

dating ppl based on skin color is like picking your food based on color u dont know what you might end up eating it might be good it might make you sick you better off closing your eyes and taking a lil lick and nibble till you find what u like
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I agree. Focus on character...not color. There's a thin line between Preference & Prejudice.

& a lot of women like you "long to be married to a man of a different race and culture" without fully educating yourself about that culture. Its not the brightest thing to do...especially since you only seem to be interested in skin color and sht like that. Thats pretty ....shallow.
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Close your eyes, lick and nibble... haha
that sounds like fun, whip cream anyone?
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A white girl who likes darker skin guys and her parents disapprove!? I'm shocked lol what's next? Movies where over privileged white girls wanna dance with minorities? Or white as snow teens talking like southern black kids
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Hi! :) I'm just like you! I'm a white girl, blond, blue eyes etc. And I also LOOOOOVVVVEEE those beautiful tanned dark boys. *wink*

Girl, you should follow your heart. I had 3 longterm relationships with white dudes and the sexual attractions was always below freezing point because... I'm just not attracked to them! Then I met my BF and WHAM!

You can't change your heart. I will always be attracked to dark men and by my experiences I can tell this is not something that will pass. You can't compensate this, no matter how create a white guy's character is. Trust me- been there!

Your mom will just have to lift with the facts. Please, ignore her. Ignore, ignore, ignore. I know it's hard. But this is YOUR life.
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You know what, you should follow your heart, when finding love, it shouldn't matter what race he is
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Personally, I like extremely fair skinned men, or semi dark skinned. :D I'm not racist, it's just my attractions. Like I was at the gym and this gorgeous dark skinned guy was there..... ;)
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Well im half white half mexican, but my mom is the white one and my dad is the mexican one.
And my mom sometimes ask me why I dont like white guys and I tell her they're ugly to me. lol Well they can be cute but thats just not what I go for. I too have always attracted hispanics,and african americans, ever since I was like 12. lol
I have dated a black guy before (nothing serious though cuz i was like 12) But I remember my mom was mad.She cant say anything to me though about hispanics because she married my dad a hispanic man lol
I have always been attracted to Hispanic guys mostly. I fit in more with hispanics I feel like (most all my friends were hispanic). But my point is it you cant help who you love? And you shouldnt care what people think (i know its hard) but whatever makes you happy is what matters.
I plan to get married to my BF of 2 years and hes mexican. :) im happy

so i think its normal for white girls to like black guys
I see it all the time!

goodluck to you!
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First, hooray for being a Diversity Ranger! Second, why wouldn't it be normal? WE ARE ALL PEOPLE. Grouping us according to skin color is as arbitrary as saying you should only be attracted to people with curly hair or people over six ft. tall. Who's to say your soulmate was put on earth in the same country, in the same ethnicity as you? Any person on this earth has the potential to be 'the one', regardless of how they look. Again, we're all humans.
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Black dudes dont even mess with there own wemon any more
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That is disgusting..
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It's terminal sorry :(
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ARE YOU FAT
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Interracial dating is gross.
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The reason it is improper for a white woman with any social etiquette to be with a "dark skinned man" is not because of racial tension or anything of the sort; it is because there is something seriously wrong with a woman who defies all social norms and is willing to sacrifice the consequences that go with dating someone out of your social strata.

Basically, the reason you are attracted to dark skin men is probably due to your mother's dislike for them in the first place and if you want to walk around having people think you're a cock hungry whore for the rest of your life that is just fine. You should try thinking about why you are not attracted to your own race.

I am personally attracted to some, yet very few black women. There are not nearly as many social consequences for a male to be attracted to a black female as vice versa. Males have their societal benefits and women have many more, so get over it. It is not natural to be attracted outside of your race unless it is a rare occurrence and there are many studies that back this up.

Personally, I am somewhat biased because I get irritated when I see dark skinned men with attractive white girls and then hear the way they talk about them when they are not around. I have many "dark skinned" friends and the story is usually the same although there are some exceptions. It's not natural. Is it okay depending on the circumstance and the individual? Yes.
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Another thing, why the hell is this eighty-four percent normal? Do eighty-four percent of women really find it normal to be specifically attracted to people outside of their own race? If so, then we're all fucked but I'm pretty sure the fascist state of mind our country is starting to come around to is affecting people to not answer truthfully (aka the past fifteen years or so.) The Nazis were extreme liberals too, and this is not to say the extreme conservatives are any better.
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Oh dear Carl: What about all the g-damm white boy traitors who date those Oriental women, hum?? You have a lot of nerve calling the kettle black (figure of speech) when every other white guy I see is dating some Asian slanty-eyed, you know what.

What's good for the goose is NOT good for the gander or, "if I'm a white boy, I can date who I want and comment on who white women date, because I don't date them. They're too ugly."

White women -- you go -- show those white boys you don't need them. Go girls, go. When they give you respect, respect them back!! Otherwise, just keep watching them date,screw and intermarry these Asians and produce their racial mutts!!
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