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I am a black woman who would like to meet white men. I know you must be asking why. Well I have dated white men in the past, and believe me I do not have anything against my own race eithr, it would just be nice for a change. But lately I am wondering if white men are really into black women anyway. I would like to experience another relationship with a white man because I think they are just as good as my black man and i think they should feel confident to go and approach whatever race they wnat to, without feeling scared and wondering about what others may think
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Jim_Pfoss (19247)
2009-03-26 23:20:35
Wow, is this really still an issue in some places? That is so sad. I've lived in California most of my life, and it's pretty typical (with exceptions) that parents have known for decades not to teach racism to their children. Maybe my experience is completely atypical, but I was hoping this sort of issue was finally becoming a curios of history.
By the way, white men are pigs, too. Oink.
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JoeyAnne (21868)
2009-04-12 05:52:01
@: Jim_Pfoss
You're being a little hypocritical here my friend. You're telling this woman men are the same all around, and at the same time, you're telling us Californian parents teach their kids against racism. Parents are parents my friend. There should not be any stereotypes, no matter where you live.

Do not generalize white men to be different from black men. It's all about preference. In this case, you prefer white men.
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Yamiaisha (23043)
2009-05-16 21:05:48
I used to have a white fetish too, until i really started dating black men.
I like both, but so far ive really been impressed with me own race. I'll try some asian next go around, see how that works.
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Nobodyislistening (23937)
2009-06-06 23:46:45
I dunno. I've seen how a culture can influence how one thinks something is acceptable social behavior, but that's about the only noticeable change I've ever seen between races. Though I've only dated other white people, everyone I've ever asked has said no. All my girlfriends have been ones who have been interested in me. Glad you're giving something diverse a go. There is this one black/latina girl I know who's sorta cute. If my current relationship ends I might ask her out if I work up the nerve.
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holio (27854)
2009-08-30 21:00:23
It's an issue all over the place, and where it isn't race, it's religion. If Jim_Pfoss can point out an exception to this observation I'd love to hear it. Having said that, my experience has been that the buddies I have who've been with black girls either tried it for the sake of variety, or couldn't make it last, in part because eventually the social pressures cause problems. At best there's a lot of whispering and silent disapproval. At worst I've seen families split up over it. Not pretty.
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