I met this guy 4 months ago and we started dating. After the first date he let me know he was basically broke and his business was struggling. I felt sorry for him so I started paying for everything for him and his daughter.He has never paid for anything since. He didn't even get me a card for my birthday. Then recently he went with 3 of his buddies and 3 girls on a rafting trip. He says they were old ladies and I should trust him. I am hurt cause he hasn't invited me to do anything like that with him because I told him I couldn't keep paying for everything. I got upset with him and told him I wanted to "cool the relationship" for now. Two weeks later and I haven't heard a word from him. Why am I so angry that I didn't mean enough for him to miss me or us?