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Why is it that I can't cum when someone gives me a blowjob?????
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i used to not be able to cum from a blow job
my wife can take the whole thing and she tried very hard cause she loves to suck my cock a loves the taste of my cum
anyway we found that if i sit at the edge of the kitchen table and she sits on a chair i can tense up and anywhere between 15 mins to 45 mins she can get me to cum that is the only position unless she lays on the edge of the bed on her side and lets me fuck her mouth and throat then i can cum love them blow jobs and others say hold off for a week before meaning dont jack off and it will help you to cum
all you can do is try diffrent positions and places all i know is i have to tense up like when i jack off to get off from a blow job
good luck and happy blow jobs
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Theyre technique is obviously poor and not satisfying you.A blow job is rarely as satisfying as giving yourself a handjob,because you know exactly what to do when jerking off.
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Nope, nothing to do with the technique. I am gay and have had many suck on me to no avail! What is wrong with me?????
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I agree, I don't know anyone that just wouldn't love to blow a load in a girls mouth! So it has to be the echnique the girls are using!
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I have had many women do it who know what they are doing and cannot bust from it. I still love it. It makes me so mad, and I am always trying to blow it, so I think it may be nerves, but am disillusioned to that because my father ( who is a single ladies man himself) has told me that he and his father have also never been able to, either. It sucks because I like head the most out of anything
But it is sweet when i am with a new chick, because they try for so long to suck me off (I think because they think they suck because they can't) until I tell them this.
Which I do not for as long as I can justify myself not to for.
I just let themselves feel bad about it so they will do it longer and better at first.
P.S. If I meet a chick hat CAN suck me off, I am going to marry her.
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Yeeah stop wanking for a week and cop a BJ. ull see how quick ull cum.
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Nerves may be playing a part as well.
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Maybe the human mouth isnt designed for it after all.Its all an individual thing i suppose.
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ChrisUFC
Alot of guys have this problem I do too, you just gotta find a girl who really knows what shes doing and stop beating your meat so much it only desensitizes your cock and makes it harder to get off from a bj
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ji2007 you have many many problems
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you and chris actually have to get your tools in a mouth before you can come inside one.saying "I cant come from bjs"when youve never received one is a bit deceptive isnt it?
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ChrisUFC
Yeah i guess that would help im going to see what i can do then ill report back to you slack
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Because you're gay, that's why. Have a guy give you a blowjob and you'll cum in no time :)
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that is not true i have been given a blowjob by both women & men and i can't get off on a blow job neither can my boyfriend .
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ROFL at paullii nigga i wank mawfawkin ten times a day and i still got cum left for the next day
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I also can't. I have one time and I had to move her head up and down fast and I hadn't jerked it in like 5 days. It may not work but it helps to watch porn during...of course that may take some convincing.
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ryyt its quite obvious if u think about it tht it isnt the techniqe or how goo it is or isnt its about weather u can cum easily or not some of us cant

and i bet alot of u probably havnt had a blowjob
n if ur "other" finds any of these comments uv posted u wnt get a blowjob for a long long time.
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I find that several things impact whether it "works" or not:

Time of day. Your hormones fluctuate wildly during the course of a day and night. Find your best time. For me, morning is optimal.

Alcohol. Even the slightest bit deadens me to the point where it will not work. Avoid alcohol before these occasions if you can.

Dirty talk. For me, some naughty talk both before and during the act helps a lot. Obviously, only so much talking can be done when the act is progressing. A lot of women feel silly dirty-talking, so you may need to reassure them.

Overall mood beforehand. If I am in a lousy mood beforehand, then it ain't going to work. This is not the kind of thing that can be done to me to cheer me up. I must already be in a great mood. Otherwise, it is just an exercise in frustration for me and her.
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Im The Same Way, But Unlike U I Dont See It As A Bad Thing, Getting Head 4 Hours @ A Time Is The Best
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I have the same issues but I never had difficulty climaxing when I was at a gloryhole. These are usually in adult video arcade stores. All I can say is when I stuck my dick through the hole I had the opposite problem...I was climaxing too fast. Probably because it narrowed the focus to the one activity and from what I encountered, the guy on the other side usually had great technique or just really enjoyed performing oral.
I use to live in Santa Barbara and went a number of times when I was in between girflfriends. It kind of helped me stay focused on college and not on relationships which was important at that time. Of course this won't take the place of a loving/sexual relationship but it gave me some much needed relief!
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Get a proper girl one that actually knows what shes doing. If your not coming shes just not working hard enough.
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ChrisUFC
Yeah get someone like slack he will do you up good.
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