So i liked this guy 4 ages. And he liked me. We hooked up a few times but we fell out and stopped hanging out.
But now we talk agian and we get on really well, he's sweet to me and sometimes I think he act like he likes me back, just things he says etc. I reaaallllyyy like him.
But he has a girlfriend.....
But why did he pick her? I've met her, and everyone says she's not that great. I don't wanna diss her but I dunno why I'm not good enough. I was once. I can be again.
I feel like if he liked me back I'd be a better person. Cause he's so good hearted. If that makes sense.
IIN??
But now we talk agian and we get on really well, he's sweet to me and sometimes I think he act like he likes me back, just things he says etc. I reaaallllyyy like him.
But he has a girlfriend.....
But why did he pick her? I've met her, and everyone says she's not that great. I don't wanna diss her but I dunno why I'm not good enough. I was once. I can be again.
I feel like if he liked me back I'd be a better person. Cause he's so good hearted. If that makes sense.
IIN??
I ended things with my ex bf because he finally admitted to me that he wasn't over his ex gf.
Afterwards he still contacted me saying he was confused. That he didnt know why cos she treated him badly, looked down on him and his family, took advantage of him and that his family and friends didnt like her and that they were so different.
Yet he tells me how amazing I am, how we are the same and he feels this is right, that his family and friends like me blah blah blah.
Ive cut contact with him now cos he told me he's contacted her. So I can't be that great!
What I would say is to just leave him to it. What I've realised is that only he knows what he is thinking and no one can change that. Maybe if you spend a bit of time away from him, he'll have time to miss you and realise what he could have had with you.
And maybe by that point, you'll have moved on and have decided that maybe he wasn't really the one for you.
Don't look down on yourself. If you realy believe that you'd be a better person because he is there, the relationship wouldn't work out becuase you would end up relying on him too much.
Go out and be yourself. Look out for yourself for the time being. Take this opportunity to do things for yourself.
I do know it's hard, I often too daydream about what could have been, cos everything seemed so right between me and my ex. His ex was our only issue, though it's one that cannot be ignored.
Just remember if its meant to be, it will be.
The facts are: He's NOT with you and he is NOT single.
Whether or not YOU like his girlfriend is irrelevant.
Believing that being with him would make you a better person, is just an excuse you are using to make yourself believe there is some altruistic reason for you two to be together, when in reality, it's just a load of crap.
You are the only one who can make YOU a better person, don't put that responsibility on others.
It's normal to still have feelings of affection for him is normal, but to act on them while he is still attached to somebody else just makes you a jerk.
We all know that Angelina Jolie is a bit nuts, but if Brad likes her, then why not?