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Why do white girls go out with black boys? why?
Hi, my name is john and I'm 17. i live in London. i wont say that i am very good looking, but i don't think i am ugly. my hair looks alright, i do have some bling. i always smell nice, i try to buy expensive stuff, cloths, aftershave, shoes, etc.. But for some reason in my school, many of the really good-looking girls like black boys. these girl are pretty smart, they have posh families and all that and also they don't smock weed. what i don't understand is that why do they go out with these ugly people. what do they see in them? i am not racist at all and i have nothing against them, but to be honest they are not good looking, well not all of them, the ones in our school. and still these girl like them. why? these girls are really nice and they are not slags at all. they can get really good looking white boys if they wanted. there was this nice girl in my school, and we were kinda close, and i was going to ask her out, but on her birthday, she didn't invite me ,but invited some really really ugly black boy from our school, and then people told me that they kissed and then they started going out with each other. Why? i am sorry if it was to long, but please help me out and tell why, if you know the answer.
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Start with brushing yer breaf and bathing.
Get some FUBU quick, niggwa.
It certainly aint for the strength of the societies they form nor their historical intellectual victories.
Also, in white societies there is a fashionwave going around stating that men and women are the same, something which leaves men confused about what is expected of them and black men with an edge.
My life got flipped-turned upside down
And I liked to take a minute
Just sit right there
I'll tell you how I became the prince of a town called Bel Air
In west Philadelphia born and raised
On the playground was where I spent most of my days
Chillin' out maxin' relaxin' all cool
And all shootin some b-ball outside of the school
When a couple of guys
Who were up to no good
Startin makin trouble in my neighborhood
I got in one lil fight and my mom got scared
She said 'You're movin' with your auntie and uncle in bel Air'
I begged and pleaded with her day after day
But she packed my suite case and send me on my way
She gave me a kiss and then she gave me my ticket.
I put my walkman on and said, 'I might as well kick it'.
First class, yo this is bad
Drinking orang juice out of a champagne glass.
Is this what the people of Bel-Air Living like?
Hmmmmm this might be alright.
But wait I hear the pricey booze, wine all that
Is Bel-Air the type of place they send this cool cat?
I don't think sow
I'll see when I get there
I hope they're prepared for the prince of Bel-Air
Well, the plane landed and when I came out
There was a dude who looked like a cop and yelled my name out
I ain't trying to get arrested
I just got here
I sprang with the quickness like lightening, disappeared
I whistled for a cab and when it came near
The license plate said fresh and it had dice in the mirror
If anything I can say this cab is rare
But I thought 'Now forget it' - 'Yo homes to Bel Air'
I pulled up to the house about 7 or 8
And I yelled to the cabbie 'Yo homes smell ya later'
I looked at my kingdom
I was finally there
To sit on my throne as the Prince of Bel Air
My nearly 13 year old daughter has her first real crush and on a black boy. At first I thought it was just a phase. But this kid has hounded her relentlessly for near a year now. He treats her like a queen, and he doesn%%u2019t even get discouraged when she tries to shake him off. She is finely giving in to him. He's a smart kid and knows what he wants. Her school is 40%% black 40%% Spanish/other and 20 %% white. She is constantly being exposed to black culture and thinks being black is cool.
I'm not a racist, but, I want to have white grandchildren. This is a poor start. Yeah, I know I'm in for much more teen crap to come yet. Her brother did the same thing. He liked black music, sports guys, and anything black on TV and movies. He liked black girls or half black ones. Real skanks too! He choose all black friends all who were all into some kind of trouble. He is 17 years old and was tried as an adult for selling crack with his gangsta friends who ratted him out. My step son swore over and over that his friends were so great. Right! They got him started doing B&E's first and they were caught and then weed, no big deal, but then selling crack. They gave him two years in a rehab after he did 5 months county jail time. Most black%%u2019s kids near here are from poor families and run wild.
I've never had to be racist, but what the fuck! I'm not going to let her do the same thing her brother did. First she's too young to date even and needs to focus on school and family. She still has a puppy love with our pet dog & cat and wants so badly attention now from a boy. This boy gives her all his attention and she eats it up. You know how girls get a bad reputation and I want to protect her in every way from all things bad. I can't supervise her at school or tell her how to feel inside. We talk very much and she has a great relationship with her mom and I. We are very understanding. We caught her lying for the first time about this kid and that isn't our little girl! The more we try to discourage it, the more she will want to go black? What do we do?
I might add if she was 18 and in love with a black person, we'd try to support them 100%%. No pun intended.
YOU LOOK LIKE ONE
stop moaoning u shud feel sorry for us blk gurl cause all the mann keep leaving us for white gurls just cause where cleaner white pppl are easier to gett and that what blk boiis love but its not right i aint going out wivv a whitte boii just cause off themm blk manzz discracing the blk nationn p.s that person who rotee blk ppl have gorrila noses i hope u get fucking sott up ur wizzle ass !!!
People are gonna hate regardless...whether you date in your race or not. Try not to hate the person but respect their decision...i can see your frustration though. Just remember you can't change people, for better of for worse, until they want to change....
ITS PROBABLY NOT A PHASE EITHER, I STARTED LIKING THEM A LOT AT ABOUT 10, NEVER LEFT THEM ALONE, AND NOW HAVE 2 MIXED CHILDREN.
&& FOR EVERY OTHER WHITE GUY ON HERE SAYING THINGS ABOUT WHITEGIRLS LIKING BLACK GUYS, YALL REALLY MUST BE JEALOUS THAT BLACK MEN CAN SPIT MORE GAME THAN YALL CAN, AND CAN GET THA WHITE WOMEN BEFORE YALL WHITE MEN CAN..
&& FOR EVERY WHITEGIRL WHO IS "CURIOUS" - A BLACK MAN IS NOT A SCIENCE EXPERIMENT, STICK WITH THE WHITE MEN.
my sisters also both have baby boys ones a little redneck and the other is a mixed baby and he is a gangster every one needs to get along life is 2 darn short 2 fight all the time
And anyone who thinks that it's unfair to judge these guys before i meet them would be correct. But once you go black, you don't go back. Not because these guys are better in bed or better ppl. Because white men don't want seconds after them. I plan to keep my child away from public schools, and the black public in general.
Racism goes both ways too. Is there a best white actor award? Is there a month to celebrate white acheivments... No, because blacks want to seperate themselves from whites. Watch out blacks or you will find that soon, there will be no black race. Just a bunch of yellow ppl who have no idea what their heritage is. That would be a shame.
So the thing is that some girls may think it's cool and everything because of what they see in hollywood and the media..not knowing it's not the real world. The real world is K******s story...The question is what's gonna be these girls story down the road in 5 years or so...We never can get rid of our past..good or bad.
I KNOW THIS THREAD IS A YEAR OLD BUT HAD TO SHARE IT ANYHOW.
There is a line from the movie- Man about Town with Ben Afleck when he says "there's no way I can bring myself to ever kiss her again when I know she's had his c**k in her mouth.
To all you little white girls out there who may be thinking of doing a black boy, but think they can go back, deep down inside at least 99%% of all white guys feel like that about 10 times over. Maybe not right now in their screwed up teenie stage. But believe me when I say we do grow up but we don't forget.
Cry racist as loud as you want. The truth is EVERYBODY is racist to a certain extent. To deny it is to be out of touch with the universe and just plain naive. It's always been,is, and always will be. It's normal to want to be with the people whom you are most comfortable with, those with the same cultural background and things in common with.
I've even seen here some black guys resort to base insults against even about the penis size myth. Intelligent women know the truth..As a matter of fact I'd put mine up against anyone. I can hold my own (no pun intended) I know there's some bigger but a whole lot of 'em smaller and hanging from some of you black boys on here ranting. Actually in truth it's the results of studies that Eastern European men have consistently larger c**ks than anyone else. Want to hear another myth? Only white boys love to eat p***y and know how to do it best...Oh wait that one really is not a myth .
wat makes me sick is that everyone is doing it they are forgettin all bout love any trying to find a partner with a different skin color so that they be worhsiped.
Both black and white race is now not appriciated so in order to feel dat way u need a "string" white girl gets with black guy just to feel the part.
I know its seems ive completely fallen of da subject but its pissin me of not being accepted as a black person because ders a new black (biracial)so we aint good enough!
but as far as im concerned us north and horn of africans have the ge'ez script (eritrea and ethiopia), coptic script (egypt), and the berber alphabet (Magreb). we happen to reside on that continent you just dissed and be aware that the ethiopians devastated one of the largest european armies, italy. i dont give a shit if you consider us black or not (due to facial features), but we nonetheless are africans, and all africans have a great culture.
I can't really say why John, but pop-culture is one of the largest (and most dangerous!) propaganda engines to date, and unfortunately many kids are naive, and thus drawn to act upon it's influences. As I said today's pop culture is based on that black trash culture, which I stated above.
My best theory then is that with those negative influences forced upon white (and East-Asian) kids, black trash is being elevated to the status of hero or idol in their eyes. So maybe it's a combination of shame these white girls are duped into feeling for coming from a white well to do family, in addition to these false images that pop culture has created about blacks. Gives them a kind of rebellious thrill, and makes them think that they look cool and in front of everyone. Frankly, it just makes them look like stupid white trash.
Unfortunately John, this kind of filth is going to continue to go on, until white people get fed up with it, and maybe do something about it. Just keep in mind, you are a white man living in England, and it's NEVER racist to be concerned about wanting to protect your culture and heritage in you own homeland!
(Incidentally John, have you tried to write this girl, letting her know how you feel? It can never hurt, and you might be surprised. With a little sincerity maybe she will wake up to common sense before she ruins her life.)
The very three things that make false weak people. Women are sadly only valued for their looks, because they´re empty inside.
Cannot teach a pigmy to be a banker.
Women have nothing to say about themselves so they talk about their boyfriends.
Any scumbag arrogant rich kid or bully puckerhead,coward while in school tend to get the cute girls the problem is the guys that study and work hard in school get none but later in life will make lot´s of money and then finally get the chance to fuck a slut!
black boys are the shit.
i have a black bf and i enjoy life with him.
i would not change anything i could.
So yu can just stop with the crap.
b.c honestly black boys are just as good as white boys if not better.
i have never really dated a white guy before.
so i dont really knoe wat to expect from them.
but i have dated Black boys.
and i have bein datin my boyfriend 3 years now and its been the best time i have ever hadd in my life.
so for all yu haters that dont think white girls look good with black men.
yu are seriously wrong.
lastly, white girls messing around with black dudes is gross.. white girls have no self respect, and are easily manipulated. blaming all their problems on everyone else. (seen it dude! female inmates do nothing but cry and sob all day!! ive heard it all)
black girls on the other hand, dont put up with their bullshit, and thats why black dudes try to hook up with white girls... anyone who doesnt like this comment can suck my fuckin cock, cuz i came straight at all yur motha fuckin throats... and FUCK FUBU FUBU means Farmers Used to Buy US!
you live in london dude, hook up wiht one of them fine ass muslim chicks... atleast they got morals.
Don't get me wrong I used to see alot of white girls when I was alot younger but as I got older and more sexualised I just found myself wanting get with women I'm attracted to which were mostly what one might call 'exotic' women.
It's not that I rule white girls out completely now its just I haven't met one that has proved me wrong yet! I mean if your a white male that's been with a 'foreign' looking girl then you'll know exactly what I mean when your walking with your 'exotic' girl on your arm and white girls are hissing at you walking past (no word of a lie here either!) so really my experience of it is one of deep hypocrisy on both sides. I live in England too and was born here so I can relate to what these guys are saying it's kind of disappointing growing up to see loads of 'our' women selling out to black men because that's what it feels like they're doing! But trust me as you get older and have more life experience you will see that in fact these white women that go black 99.9percent go back take my own sister who has a beautiful mixed daughter who is also my God daughter and niece and who I'd protect with my life, she had this wogs kid yeah and he did the predictable running thing and she was lumped with a child to raise alone while he went to pursue his rap career (once again no word of a lie) but anyway life goes on she's now happily married to a white man that dotes on her works all the hours God sends to provide for and has taken no shame in marrying a white girl with a mixed daughter and giving her 3 of his own who are brilliant brothers and sisters to their big darker skinned sister who is a shining example of a big sister to them as well.
Anyway Im sure someone here will now take the time to point out all my contradictions don't bother I'm already well aware of them lighten the fuck up stop being so serious over all this political correctness make u too sensitive!
I HATE HATE HATE GETTING HIT ON BY BLACK MEN. I'M SAYING IT ON HERE SO THAT MY HOUSE OR MY CAR ISN'T BURNED TO THE GROUND FOR SAYING WHAT I THINK ABOUT A RACE THE SAME FUCKING WAY YOU BLAKC PEOPLE DO ABOUT WHITE PEOPLE EVERY FUCKING DAY,. T.V, COMMERISALS, EXT!!!! SPREAD THE WORD. MY BEST-EST FRIEND IN THE WORLD IS A BLACK MAN, AND HE KNOWS, AND UNDERSTANDS EXACTLY HOW I FEEL!!!!!!!! I'M NOT A FUCKING RACEST!!!!!!!!
"Once you go black, you WILL go back"
yeah i don't know you but a lot of people responding seem to be hateful and sound very ignorant. Why are you even concerned with the girls who do date black guys? not to be mean but, what if you're just ugly? And your stereotyping is out of line , hateful, MEAN, and make you sound arrogant. "they don't smock weed. what i don't understand is that why do they go out with these ugly people. what do they see in them? i am not racist at all", what? i know people have their own attracion but u do sound pretty racism. I don't know but maybe you need to move to America because I KNOW I am beautiful, and a lot of other black people over here are beautiful as well.
PLEASE WRITE BACK!
x
Girls in that age like to copy what other girls do. If a pretty girl starts to date a black guy, the other pretty girls will want to to that too.
Also, black people in general, are very confident in themselves, and act "cool". Girls in any age like guys who are confident and cool.
Just relax man. Be yourself, act like yourself, be cool in your own way and make sure that your level of coolness is higher than theirs.
What you'll find in the future is the white race vanishing until either technology falls and evolution takes its place again or people start working in-doors, so the lack of Vitamin B gives the white man the advantage. I think its just a trend at the moment, it will soon pass when immigrants start swarming the country.
But tbh I think the word "racism" is massively misunderstood and over used in this argument.
COMPLETELY AGREE WITH YOU!!!!!!
Your alll the same on here, Black or White you both sound quite racist!
Wer all the same just different colours. White people stop hating on here, a white girl can like a black boy if she likes! Racist people is down to each individual! some black people are racist and some white people are. Im a white girl and i aint racsit but some white girls are!
stopp enbarrassing yourselves pleaseee every one is different...
or maybe, it's because all the white guys you wanted to date didn't want you so now you hate on them. well hey, don't hate us because your fat and ugly.
stupid white people these days (male and female)... they know more about other races' heritage and culture then they do about their own. we can all blame MTV and the jewish liberal media for this dilemma.
First off i am not racist by any means. But I can say that i hate all white people. Once again not racism. Just Personal preference. ALL WHITE PEOPLE are insecure, lame, and just overall jealous of black people. @fuccblacppl. i will find out who you are and have one of my black gangster firends come rape you and your entire family. just giving you a heads up. All these white mother who dont like their daughters going out with black guys, im going to send my gangster friend to come rape you after he is done with the prison guard. I am a proud very wyell eudcated black people. Your just mad cause i can call u white people crackers in public and noone will say boo. but if you called me that horrible n word me and my gangster friends would murder you and then afterwards we would get apology letters. white people are so ignorant. The only reason racism exist today is because the stupid white man had to come to our land and enslave us then slept with our women because the white women is hideous look like et n shit.
Why should you care? Let them do as they wish.
And dude... bling? You think you can really give these girls what they're looking for?
my wife went into the restroom while the guys and me were laughing and took a quick shower. when one of the guys went into the restroom to take a piss he saw her getting out of the shower and came up to her and was feeling her up all over. i took all her clothes out of the room and put them in my car.
she acted like she was being abused when the guys grabbed her and maybe she felt she was. it was clearly out of control. she got a dick up her asshole that night.
Did you know black people can still get skin cancer?
It's rarer, but a black person is much more likely to die if they develop skin cancer than a white person. So, don't go around thinking your immune to UV rays, cause you're fucking not.
Also, I'm not particularly racist, but black guys like you are why certain white people are racist. You threatened to have your friends rape and murder people...over the internet. Tough as fuck. As well as rude and uncalled for. If you want people to respect you and treat just like every other race then you probably shouldn't say that you're sending your "gangster friend to come rape you after he is done with the prison guard."
You, sir, are an idiot.
they just dont like selfish and racist, people like you. , oh and also bling ? .. wtf?.. not even a black man would say that..
also black guys , have a certain confidence about them , and some people just have different tastes for different things.
like your racist people need a life
when the lord comes to jude ya'll you could kinda fugure out where your gonna be going
ya'll dissing other ppl is like ya'll dissing GOD creation this is how he made us we didn't ask to be white nor did we ask to be black or asian or tan but that's what GOD wanted us to look like so come judgment day you take that up with the creator and see if he like's what you think of his ppl it is what it is period
We dont all share the same point of view.
I myself dont hold a grudge against anyone who is white or black because weather you compete or not with a person from another or same race, it depends on if they prefer black or white skin, but you shouldnt judge by the colour, always by how you get on in the relationship the only things that tends to piss people off are people (of any race..!) that use and/or abuse women (or girls). If you beleive that its all about the size of dicks or skin colour then thats sad and i hope that all those people (mainly girls) would realise its not about that.
By the way I am white and have a white girlfriend but also had a recent relationship with a black girl in the past and there was no complaints from either of em and mine isnt huge so let's not get insecure lol
Any girls who complain about dick size tell them to fuck off coz they're not worth a shit, always remember that.
Finally, there will be a girl for you out there wether your or they are white,black or asian.
So chill out and dont hate it if a girl u like goes for a black lad its not like your competing against the black race to see who can make the most kids of their own race its inevitable to mix races and dont complain coz if it really bothers you, ya can get with a white girl, THATS YOUR CHOICE.
P.S dont be so vain it just makes things worse lol
Signed the white man
I think the OP is a black guy posing as a white boy.
The other possibility is that the girls are female wiggers, which is nothing special alot of kidsthese days are wiggers, I consider this a sign that someone is a total moron and won't have much to do with them anyway, you snobs can talk down to me in your big posts all you want, it's a shame that real musicians out there spending thousands of hours mastering their insturments don't get noticed because of all the hip hop "music" with sluts jumping around and rap "music" with punks talking trash into their mics is popular for some reason. Call me racist all you want, jimmy hendrix was a great musician, do you know why? he played a fucking insturment and did it well.
Anyway, to answer your question, there are several reasons why some white girls go after black guys..
1.Curiosity-maybe they just want to see if the "black men have bigger penises" claim is true lol
2.Rebellion-maybe they want to get a reaction out of their families
3.Adventure-maybe they want to just try something new
or maybe 4.Just, because they don't see skin color as an important factor in their relationships. After all, love has no color.
Plus a lot of black males have a certain confidence and are more aggressive when it comes to hitting on females. Maybe if you carried yourself in the same manner(not changing your personality, just your attitude), you would get more girls. Remember not to feel defeated if you get rejected by a girl. EVERYONE has to face rejection sometimes...even black men lol.
I prefer black men for many reasons, they tend to be more direct, more confidant, more self-aware, more well-groomed, with better sense or style, sexier features and better in bed than white men. Also, I want to marry a black man and have children with a black men because I would like to build a family with aspects of both white and black values, and want unique, exotic looking children ( I am tall, curvy and polynesian, cherokee and irish mixed) therefore I think that mixed with an attractive dark chocolate man would make beautiful children.
I don't know, lots of white girls prefer white men, but for those who don't, I fully understand.
Whites are superior in every way except basketball, and even in that who gives a fuck. Shaq is black and rich; the white guys who pay his salary are richer.
White is right.
If evolution were so true man should have evolved into a more tolerant species devoid of resentment for other races. And when we blacks start behaving like many whites have behaved all through human history we're giving ourselves away as being incapable of better conduct than them.
you sound ignorant
maybe its u have no game
a girl doesnt want a dude with no game
so stop hating and move on
As for this poor 'pretty smart' girl, it's not like she's an adult or has a brain of her own to make her own decisions. She has obviously been influenced into this disgusing nature. CLUB HER! Club her fasT while she doesn't smoke weed. It's for her own good. She has no idea what she is getting into.
As for this 'black race' it should stopped. You should watch and take note of everything they do, even if it doesn't really concern you. I mean that girl is your property, she is inclined to love you. I mean you are the same race right?
As for you parents with children who like black people. You are doing the right thing by discouraging them from liking blacks. It's not like you might be pushing them away and making them hate you. I'll be damned if you end up in an old age home telling the same story over and over again.
Why don't you go jack off some more because you can't get a someone to like you?
YOU'RE the one who is going to burn in hell, because YOU'RE the one who is racist, not the ones who are openly accepting all kinds of races.
I think both white and black people are raciest just dont know it.
1 black people think every white person is racesit and weak
1 white people think white girls like black people and black people do drugs
2 black girls think that white girls are conceded
2 white girls think that black girls are all gangster
3 black parents think all the white guys do drugs or abuse the daughter
3 white parents think all the black guys do drugs or abuse the daughter
this list could go forever. adding new stuff or repeating the old. cant we all just get along
im nether white or black but i still wish everyone could get along
also this list dose not apply to everyone some people got out of the cycle but still many are in it
2.BRAİN DOESNT HAVE COLOR
3.EXAMPLE:AFRO-EU-USA GİRLS TALK MORE İNTERESTİNG THAN WHİTE GİRLS,AND ARE MORAL,BETTER FRİENDS AND THEY CARE MORE ABOUT THEİR FRİENDS.MORE DEPENDABLE...
4.WHEN A GİRL DATES TO MUCH,LOESES HER CHARACTER,AFRO-EU-US GİRLS DATE LESS MAN SO THEİR CHARACTERS ARE MORE HUMAN-SAME FOR MEN
5.WHEN U WANT TO GET A GİRL,U SHOULD İNSİST,AND DONT GET TİRED OF İNSİSTİNG,WHO EVER DOES THAT GETS DA GİRL...DONT CARE ABOUT WHAT THE GİRL SAYS JUST İNSİST
I do understand how you feel and your concern for the peace of your neighborhoods, however, the problem comes in when you overgeneralize about a group of people as a whole. I am a blk female that comes from an educated family. My mother and father both have 3 Master's degrees and I am currently working on my first. I NEVER lived in the city or urban environment. As a matter of fact, my mother is just as afraid as the typical white person to even drive through the city. Btw, I have always lived in "white" or diverse suburban areas right outside of Chicago. My job gives me the opportunity to communicate with people across the country and internationally and what I've found is that many whites are victims of poor neighborhoods, bad educational systems, welfare systems, etc. Basically, all of the qualities which I have noticed many whites on this post to describe ALL black people. What makes this train of thought racist is to place the stereotype on ALL. There is no such thing as all white people are racist just as well as all black people are lacking of any intellectual virtue. People are individuals--always remember that. Our current President and 1st lady sure defy the notion of that. Both are ivy-league educated and contrary to popular belief, there are MANY more of us just like them. I want to re-itterate that I am black and not mixed and am highly educated. One more thing though. Have you ever been to Chicago? There are far, FAR more whites that go to bars here. I almost NEVER see any black people go to bars and get sloppy drunk. Just food for thought.
2. You find them ugly because you were influenced to think that way.
3. Maybe the 'white girls' can see through your baggage of tense feelings and they don't like it.
4. Maybe they consider themselves as mixed race.
5. Maybe their relatives had skin cancer and they want their children to avoid it.
6. Maybe they are related to to Rosa Parks, Martin Luther King or Barack Obama.
Come on dude,the list could be endless.
I disagree that black dominates whatever it's combined with.
In reality,this view is reflective of the lack of value ppl hold for black.
Ppl value white,so accordingly exemplify it's qualities.So much so that when the color white is diluted in the least it's made a big deal of.
On the other hand,the color black doesn't warrant the same value therefore the dilution of it goes unnoticed.
Ex: black and white make gray
Ppl easily recognize the amount of dilution from white to gray.The same level of dilution occurs with black,but isn't noticed.The color gray is nothing like black.Black is solid and not as grainy as the color gray.Gray is dull while black is definite and refined in it's characteristics.
I live in the USA & it's seen as a step down to date black ppl.
The closest a respectable person within the white community will come to dating a black person is to date a bi-racial person.
I've noticed that non-trashy/non-reject whites actually favor dating bi-racial ppl though.
Here are reasons I've isolated:
1.Bi-racials have the genetic make-up for the children to inherit blue or green eyes(eye color diversity is something whites favor in themselves)
2.White ppl's great admiration for tan skin.The bi-racial person can also produce a tan skinned child along w/ blue or green eyes.
I'll never understand why whites fear western blacks alone could ever mix them out of existence.
It's numerically impossible,ppl!
As a black American,I fear my ppl(western blacks)will be mixed out.
OriginalPoster,this is exactly what's happening over where you live anyway.
I've examined the dating habits of bi-racial ppl in England & realize that virtually all of them marry whites.
It won't be long before the black ancestry is undetectable.
Good news for whites because you're getting a "return" on what your community was forced to give up.
This is because:
~black British & white British have bi-racial child
~bi-racial child marries accordingly to what I've observed of bi-racial ppl(ie whites)
~bi-racial has 25%black/75%white offspring
~there are two factors which will ensure this 75% white offspring(grandchild of black)will not marry a black person
1.simply by appearance,they won't be socialized to have any connection or allegiance to blacks
2.they will have the influence of their bi-racial parent & feel this is the "normal" thing to do
~by the time you get to 87.5% white(great-grandchild of black)there will be no trace of black
& this lineage of ppl which began with one black & one white will continuously mate with whites.This is why there will be a replenishment of whites to your community.
Blacks are the only ones who'll endure a loss.
Don't you think it's strange that over 50% of black Caribbeans in the UK marry whites?
This isn't multi-culturalism like ppl say.
You're not being color-blind just because you date interracially,exclusively.
It's no different from ppl who are constantly criticized for dating mono-racially,exclusively.
Actually there is an element with a black dating interracially exclusively which makes it worse than dating monoracially exclusively,but I'm too lazy to get into all of that...
They also have the lowest birthrate. The most inteligent immigrant group in america is africans. Scientists have already proven that blacks developed 3 times more faster then white babies, I can name countless of great black american inventors that would put white inventors to shame. I can name ancient black civilizations that europe modeled after.
I can give you reason why blacks are so easily sterotyped. For one the media. I have been to all black schools, all white schools, to asian mixed schools, to even majority hispanic schools in Arizona.
Every race has a flaw, every race has intelligence. The reason white people are in fear of blacks, because it dates back to pre and post slavery time. They are scared to death of them. They fear they are going to take over the world. That explians why they did not educate them, it even shows today, the inner cities of chicago poorest in the nation, the state of Georgua has the poorest school sysytem. They did a pretty accurate study. Blacks who attend white schools are almost 4 times more likely to suceed in a poorer inner city or poor black school. IQ level has to dith funding. Hate on blacks all you want but its really un christian like to judge someone on race or character, or to judge period
The black guys liked white giral more than black. Many white girls were attracted to the black boys.
White boys were no attracted to the black girls.
The administration and staff ere really troubled because when we had a school dance there wasnobody to invite the black grils and when they came no boys (black of white) wanted to dance with them.
My wife grew up in Armenia. There it was the white Russians and dark Armenians or Kurds.
And as far as brush your mouth guy, have you ever smelled yourself?
Seriously? You really should!
To the white woman: In all honesty just as most of you are merely only curious about black men, they feel just the same about you. Literally there is a 50/50 chance that after you satisfy that curiosity either side will simply leave. So take caution when mingling with "those bad black men". However in all honesty it was a white woman who changed me from what I used to be and started me on the path I do enjoy today.
To the black woman: You always say "standby your brother", however when your brother shows any attraction to a white woman he is immediately cut off from any support he use to have. Keeping in mind what I said to the white woman its probably just a phase he is going through as much of the T.V black men watch is filled with interracial dating. So removing your support only reinforces his choice to go to a white woman.
To the white man: I am in no means a racist, I work with with many different backgrounds united under one common goal. That goal is to protect the interests of the United States, and all peoples within it. To most of the white men who posted in this topic you are what I call "the closet racist", and all say the same underlying comments. I.E "White men are better looking, more successful, literate, assuming all black men are drug dealers and/or bad influences on white woman in general." Racism is only a stereotype that has escalated to worldwide proportions. With these underlying comments you demonstrate a form of racism. An example I'd like to share to you. I've seen a white woman being passed between a group of 4-5 white men each using her to their own ends. Anything from sexual fulfillment to monetary aid to these men. One day the taboo black man appears and each white man starts to say that he's no good for her and will only treat her badly (ironic no?). As soon as they started dating and each white male confirmed that she had sex with a black man, each began to call the white woman a crack whore and never interacted with her again. In fact this is a true story as the woman is now married to my best friend. So am I to understand that you will pass a white woman amongst white man vicariously for you own amusement, however if my friend had only used her for sexual gratification as well you would not continue having your with her at all it was fun and gratifying wasn't it? But instead you wont even associate with her just because she had sex with a black man? How is this form of thinking not a racist one?
It's 2010 get with it, if not then dont put down other's who do.It makes you look like a bad, insecure person who is jealous of black boys. Stop being jealous of black guys and live your own life, mind your own bussiness.
And unless your gay, why would you be judging if another male-Black or White is good looking or not?
If it's a "black male illusion" that more that a few people people are against him without even knowing his character, then what are you all doing right now? Look at what your saying.
Your total idiots. Its ok to ignore the fact that any other race also have total losers, criminals, dead beats and abuser?? but when it's a few that's black-it's all of them??
THERE IS A BALANCE OF GOOD AND BAD IN EVERY RACE OF PEOPLE. WE ALL BREATH AIR, ALL OUR BLOOD BLEED RED AND YOU NEED TO STOP BEING RACIST MONSTERS, THAT'S WHAT STARTED ALL THIS MESS IN THE FIRST PLACE, SO CALLED PEOPLE LIKE YOU WHO DISCRIMINATE AND THINK YOUR BETTER JUDGING BY A COLOR. GET OVER YOURSELF YOU ARE NOT GREAT. YOUR DISCUSTING.
I'm in a fairly good band so it's always been easy to pick up black chicks and even better, it pisses off the Black Dudes which is truly Fun !!
It's funny how the Blacks keep complaining about the White Race (keeping them down) but they Sure love dum White Girls. :)
What a bunch of clowns...