That IS interesting, but like I said, twp different stories, two different responses. If you want to a valid comparison than you should find a better one than that. I'm not disagreeing with you, but as I said above, you come onto a website and just bitch about how much you hate your boyfriend (and hell, I can post a few stories where it is a man being encouraged to dump his girlfriend, but conveniently you miss those, right?), then expect to get answers that correspond with said bitching.
Here's the problem with that: I don't really care. This is an advice website. I'll let you know when I start to give a damn about who is taking whose side on an anonymous internet forum. Such are the horrible side effects of not taking the internet very seriously.
Although I love how you'd rather point that out than address the argument that I gave you. But you're more interested in bitching about advice that you got from bitching about your boyfriend as opposed to just talking to him like an adult. Oh oh sorry, growing up and having an adult relationshop is hard work :( you'd rather come vent on the internet, nevermind :(
Now you are pissing me off. That is why I didn't make an intelligent response to your former paragraph. lol. Chill the hell out. Why do you want to argue with me? So I didn't follow the scientific method with my "experiment". I wasn't intentionally trying to discover anything with those two posts, I wrote the second one to get a better understanding of my relationship. I am also not only speaking for MY posts with their GOD AWFUL RESPONSES. I am speaking in general; on here, in life and of other peoples' situations. Sorry I missed some of your stories or whatever. Usually I think you make a good point, but you are really taking this discussion way too far.
You're the one getting pissed off and yet I need to chill out? I can't apologize for your lack of emotional control. You came here seeking advice, and you became angry at the advice you sought. You wanted to gain perspective, but you're not happy with the responses you got. You're being a brat and whining about something you came and asked for. You wanted an opinion, you got. You don't like it? Well you asked for it, I don't pity you.
As far as taking this discussion too far, please. I have yet to start talking about your Mom.
Uh huh... I didn't say that you're angry about the responses you got, I am saying that you are getting angry, period. All you are really doing is bitching, if you're going to bring up stupid points like
"Well apparently someone is on my side here..."
as if I give two shits and a fuck, ma'am, then you're going to get it from someone.
"Also, I can sense your anger."
Are you like, an empath, like Dianna Troi from Star Trek? How are you sensing this anger? I don't sense anything, I am not a telepath or a Betazoid, I am just pointing out what you said. And no, I don't "like to have the last word", but I am choosing too easy of a target and I almost want to feel ashamed to be arguing with someone who obviously isn't too into using reasoning skills whilst communicating with others.
Although I love how you'd rather point that out than address the argument that I gave you. But you're more interested in bitching about advice that you got from bitching about your boyfriend as opposed to just talking to him like an adult. Oh oh sorry, growing up and having an adult relationshop is hard work :( you'd rather come vent on the internet, nevermind :(
As far as taking this discussion too far, please. I have yet to start talking about your Mom.
Also, I can sense your anger. You like to have the last word, don't you?
Uh huh... I didn't say that you're angry about the responses you got, I am saying that you are getting angry, period. All you are really doing is bitching, if you're going to bring up stupid points like
"Well apparently someone is on my side here..."
as if I give two shits and a fuck, ma'am, then you're going to get it from someone.
"Also, I can sense your anger."
Are you like, an empath, like Dianna Troi from Star Trek? How are you sensing this anger? I don't sense anything, I am not a telepath or a Betazoid, I am just pointing out what you said. And no, I don't "like to have the last word", but I am choosing too easy of a target and I almost want to feel ashamed to be arguing with someone who obviously isn't too into using reasoning skills whilst communicating with others.