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Why hasn't he tried?
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I have been dating a guy for two months and he has made no indication of an interest to sleep with me. I am all for taking it slow, but I'm wondering if he is even attracted to me at this point. So, is this normal?
Do you think it's normal?
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thembones5 (30108)
2009-11-01 16:38:44
im 12 almost 13year old.and maybe he doesnt want to rush..dot
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Budthewise (29424)
2009-11-01 19:53:29
Guys in general are afraid to advance in this department because we as men are taught that women don't want sex. Yes, I know this isn't true but how the hell are we supposed to ask for it?

I am willing to bet your boyfriend is afraid to ask you out of a willingness of respect toward your boundaries or a fear of rejection from a no answer. He probably doesn't want to ruin a great thing and the fact that he isn't asking you kind of proves that he really likes you.

What you need to do is ask him for sex. Why can't a woman make the first move in this department for a change? Trust me, he will go for it.
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Ollieo (19003)
2009-11-02 04:08:59
Try talking to him.
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doucebag69 (29799)
2009-11-02 19:33:22
he probably knows you want to take it slow and is following suit or he could just like dick.
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Fredward (30689)
2009-11-02 20:42:23
@: Ollieo
He's probably just shy, try making the first move. Rub your hand up his thigh, make your desires known
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kevink (30691)
2009-11-03 12:14:01
He's probably interested, but either too shy to make the first move or embarrassed about some personal matter that would be brought into the open by having sex. Either way, you may have to be the one to initiate. Just make sure to do it in a way that makes him comfortable, so that whatever his issue is you can get past it.
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thisisme87 (30588)
2009-11-04 16:35:48
@: thembones5
he's 26...I imagine that's a little different lol. but thanks!
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