I really need to know if anyone else feels this way, or am I just losing my mind? I have been asking my wife to be with someone else while I watch, it really turns me on, and I am not sure if this normal or do I need help? she did it once about 15yrs ago for me I watched from the closet. We were in our 20's then. we used to go out to bars and I would dress her up real sexy and sit across the bar and watch guys hit on her. it was exhilerating. she still gets dressed up and goes out, but now its alone while I stay home with our son, I tell her everytime to find someone to bring home, but she just comes home and tells me about the guys. she did bring her security guard home from work last yr, but nothing happened because he got sick, and left. Is there something wrong with this, I am just trying to spice up our sex lives, please tell me if this is something everyone thinks about or I am nuts?? I dont think its "normal" but is there something wrong with it?