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Will I ever be loved?
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Is it normal to think you will never be loved, that you dont deserve love? Its hard at times to see people together, to know that is what you want for your life, and yet know somewhere in you that you are unworthy of that kind of love?
Do you think it's normal?
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Fred (2022)
11/30/08
Love is an addiction of sorts. I was in love, but it never worked out the way it should have. I mean, it's nice to know love, but in reality, it's really just a change in the brain that alters your perception of things. It makes you think things are much greater than they really are. And ultimately, a virtual utopia feels better than a realistic shithole.
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buriedalive (16071)
11/30/08
Why would you think you don't deserve love? It sounds from your story like low self esteem is your issue. Everyone deserves a chance to be happy with someone they care about, and someday I'm sure you'll find someone whom you love and who loves you back : )
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DeathReveng (19143)
1/4/09
hey i was gonna say love was an addiction lol. but youll always be capable thats all i have to say
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bigblacc123 (19725)
1/28/09
yes kind of and no. Because u can choose if u want to be loved or not but every 1 finds love 1 day so if u want to be loved find it if not then dont worry about being loved if u dont want to if i answered your question then ok if i didnt then ok.
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secretguy25 (20660)
3/10/09
yeah but i try not to think about love because it makes me sad.
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viky7 (20685)
3/17/09
If you are living alone and nobody knows you then it is absolutely fine, to not have found someone love you! In such a case you will need to make new beginnings with people and let yourself be judged by you and others. Why people cannot love you? Are you rude or unloving to them or you are living amongst cold people who do not care about love etc. The best thing is to keep yourself as you are and live up your dreams, it%%u2019s your life make the most of it no one else will live it for you. But if you find yourself to be arrogant and rude, try to change your habits.
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babygluvzya (23791)
6/3/09
I think that u shouldnt be too hard on ur self bcuz there is always the perfect guy for u. trust me i should know. i thought that no one liked me but i guess guyz do like me. wut im trying to say is that everyone will find their true luv someday. and dont worry too much about it cuz if u do it may distract u.

-luv babyg
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JaiHo_YouAreMyDestiny (22923)
6/12/09
Just shut up. Right Now.
(EVERYONE deserves love.)
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Liverpool2k9 (24312)
6/16/09
Im the same im 18 now and i havnt even had a 1st kiss i feel humiliated and not wanted by girls
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GeraldMossman (24419)
6/20/09
You deserve love. Once you realise that you'll find love
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kiki_93 (27636)
8/26/09
You,like everyone else,deserve your love and affection-the Buddha.
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normalisoverrated (31677)
12/3/09
I ask this question to myself I also think there is a curse up%%u0131n me that I am punished every time I love someone and the ones who love me are unlovable by me. So f...
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landbeyondnoother (38444)
3/12/10
awwww...
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kelsey (40743)
4/10/10
You deserve love. My boyfriend is trans, and he said the same thing.

I'm one of those girls that gets asked a lot but says no because I was looking for somebody deep, and real. Well me and my boyfriend have been together for almost a year now, people still can't believe I said yes and that were dating.

Everybody deserves love, I'm sure you'll find somebody.
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smithington (44213)
5/2/10
its a sad thought to imagine but you're surely not the only one that thinks it
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TheGuruOfTheSauce (29884)
5/4/10
Yeah I know how you feel I just can't even hack it so I guess I was programmed to suck at this thing called love so I just shrug my shoulders and just think its for the best because If I can't even do something simple as finding a mate I guess its like weeding out the weak and I will never produce any incompetent failures such as myself.

These thoughts are actually more comforting than depressing to me lol
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