Will i regret this later? http://isitnormal.com/story/will-i-regret-this-later-30518/ it's called a Co-Dependent relationship http://isitnormal.com/story/will-i-regret-this-later-30518/#comment-307713 2009-08-29 12:53:31 To be honest you should have thought of that before you purchased a home. It's not like buying a kitten. Especially if your name is attached to it. If you want to be single then talk to your boyfriend. maybe you guys could try an open relationship for a while. Me and my husband had one for a while and it did wonders. Just remember how the last time you guys broke up you date someone else didn't like how it turned out and went running back to your comfort zone. One day that comfort zone won't be there no more. always do what is going to make you happy but think long and hard first. Good men are not found often and the grass isn't always greener on the other side. just remember you cant treat him like a punching bag in a way. You dont get to go out and date and do the single thing then when that gets old get to run back to a beautiful home and form an instant family that's just not how life works sweetie. Decide one or the other. if you leave him that's fine but don't expect him to be sitting there waiting for you when your done having fun. http://isitnormal.com/story/will-i-regret-this-later-30518/#comment-302073 2009-07-25 21:43:21 Well- I do not think you want to cheat on your boyfriend but you do not have any freedom- Of course your feel you are missing out, you are young and you need to get a life- You need to talk to your boyfriend and tell him that you love him but you also want your life back- I have been married for 8 years (I got married when I was 19) but I have never felt like I was missing out because I have my freedom. I do not have to ask permission to do things I want to do. I just go and do them- If I want to go kayaking with friends, I grab my kayak, tell my wife where I am going to be, and that is it. My wife doesn't ask permission either- if she wants to go out with friends, she does it, and I have no issues with that- I havent felt the need to cheat on her because my life is complete- I have my freedom and the love of my life by my side- If he doesn't understand that you want to live your life, then maybe you shouldn't be with him at all-living your life the way you want to live it is more important- http://isitnormal.com/story/will-i-regret-this-later-30518/#comment-298013 2009-07-02 17:36:20