My friends are not always the best... sometimes they poke my stomach. Or when they're mad they don't tell me what's wrong and when I have this other friend at our table in the cafeteria they say mean things about him to his face, when I asked them to stop one time at the table they told me if I don't like it then move to a different table. I have asked what they think of me and they both said "we think of you like a helpless kitten or a unpaid secretary." then they laughed and smiled. Is this healthy and normal?