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Would you consider giving a lapdance to someone else to be cheating?
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So, I gave some guy a lapdance on a dare. He had his eyes closed and I was trying my hardest not to touch him at all. Knees might have knocked, that is all.

My boyfriend saw a picture that was taken (from behind me), and it looks like I was actually doing a full-on lapdance. He is still distraught over this (from over a month ago), and he insists that I cheated on him. Is this normal? I am trying very hard to be a better girlfriend and gain back his trust, but it's irritating that he always brings this up. I also think it's vital we come to an agreement on whether or not this is cheating. Please help me out, what do you guys think???
Do you think it's normal?
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tommy81 (24490)
2009-07-11 01:11:26
You gave a guy a lap-dance on a dare? It sounds like your very young so I suppose you find this behaviour completely acceptable even though your in a relationship. I don't know if could be classified as cheating or not, however it would be considered inappropriate. I certainly wouldn't want my girlfriend giving guys lap-dances. Everyone has their boundaries and crossing them can be devastating to your relationship. If your kind of a 'wild girl' then you need to find mates that are OK with behaviours associated with that personality trait. You can't just get someone that's not OK with their girlfriend being free with her body to go along and accept it. Not going to work. If you like the guy, let him know that you didn't intend on being unfaithful and reassure him the boundary won't be crossed in the future. Also, let him know that true forgiveness means not using the incident as emotional ammunition to fire at you whenever he's feeling upset with you. I do believe he's exaggerating a little, but he's hurt so give it time.
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Kiwibird (25396)
2009-07-11 01:28:54
it must have been quite humiliating for him to see his girlfriend simulating a lapdance to another guy- were his friends all watching too? embarrasing.
I guess he thinks if you can do that then what else you gonna do to other guys. But yeah he has to get on with it and get over it if things are going to work for you guys.
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cy9293 (25503)
2009-07-13 07:15:02
no shit
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Gwhdgwueh (26980)
2009-08-11 20:37:34
Well its pending on the degree of the lap dance

if it was really into it then yes, you're an ass and u were cheating.

If it was more of a joke then no, ur good, not cheating
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