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Me and all my family going all the way back to the sons & daughters of the American revolution have nearly all had blonde hair and blue or green eyes. It is MY race and I'm proud to be of my linage.
My nearly 13 year old daughter has her first real crush and on a black boy. At first I thought it was just a phase. But this kid has hounded her relentlessly for near a year now. He treats her like a queen, and he doesn’t even get discouraged when she tries to shake him off. She is finely giving in to him. He's a smart kid and knows what he wants. Her school is 40% black 40% Spanish/other and 20 % white. She is constantly being exposed to black culture and thinks being black is cool.
I'm not a racist, but, I want to have white grandchildren. This is a poor start. Yeah, I know I'm in for much more teen crap to come yet. Her brother did the same thing. He liked black music, sports guys, and anything black on TV and movies. He liked dating black girls. He choose all black friends all who were all into some kind of trouble. They got him started doing B&E's on cars first and they were all caught and then caught with weed, but then all got caught selling crack on a street corner. It was a setup and they gave him two years in a rehab after he did 5 months county jail time.
I've never had to be racist, but what the f**k! I'm not going to let her do the same thing as her brother did. First she's too young to even date and needs to focus on school and family values. She still has a puppy love with our pet dog & cat and wants so badly attention now from a boy. This boy gives her all his attention and she eats it up. You know how girls get a bad reputation and I want to protect her in every way from all things bad. I can't supervise her at school or tell her how to feel inside. She watches the Disney Channel, whose shows are exaggeratedly mixed with black and white actors in a perfect colorblind world of Disney sitcoms. Also black music videos with white actor/model girls hanging all over black men. It just isn’t black & white in the real world. We talk very much and she has a great relationship with her mom and I. We are very understanding. We caught her lying for the first time about this kid and that isn't our little girl! The more we try to discourage it, the more she will want to go black? What the hell should do we do?
I might add if she was 18 and in love with a black person, we'd try to support them 100%. No pun intended.
Are you black? I don't mean to be insulting, but before you reply, go here first and then tell me you want to be showing your friends and family this group of crackers as the picture of your grandchildren.
http://www.freewebs.com/jeffreyleebrothers/kids.htm
Yeah right!
My nearly 13 year old daughter has her first real crush and on a black boy. At first I thought it was just a phase. But this kid has hounded her relentlessly for near a year now. He treats her like a queen, and he doesn’t even get discouraged when she tries to shake him off. She is finely giving in to him. He's a smart kid and knows what he wants. Her school is 40% black 40% Spanish/other and 20 % white. She is constantly being exposed to black culture and thinks being black is cool.
I'm not a racist, but, I want to have white grandchildren. This is a poor start. Yeah, I know I'm in for much more teen crap to come yet. Her brother did the same thing. He liked black music, sports guys, and anything black on TV and movies. He liked dating black girls. He choose all black friends all who were all into some kind of trouble. They got him started doing B&E's on cars first and they were all caught and then caught with weed, but then all got caught selling crack on a street corner. It was a setup and they gave him two years in a rehab after he did 5 months county jail time.
I've never had to be racist, but what the f**k! I'm not going to let her do the same thing as her brother did. First she's too young to even date and needs to focus on school and family values. She still has a puppy love with our pet dog & cat and wants so badly attention now from a boy. This boy gives her all his attention and she eats it up. You know how girls get a bad reputation and I want to protect her in every way from all things bad. I can't supervise her at school or tell her how to feel inside. She watches the Disney Channel, whose shows are exaggeratedly mixed with black and white actors in a perfect colorblind world of Disney sitcoms. Also black music videos with white actor/model girls hanging all over black men. It just isn’t black & white in the real world. We talk very much and she has a great relationship with her mom and I. We are very understanding. We caught her lying for the first time about this kid and that isn't our little girl! The more we try to discourage it, the more she will want to go black? What the hell should do we do?
I might add if she was 18 and in love with a black person, we'd try to support them 100%. No pun intended.
Are you black? I don't mean to be insulting, but before you reply, go here first and then tell me you want to be showing your friends and family this group of crackers as the picture of your grandchildren.
http://www.freewebs.com/jeffreyleebrothers/kids.htm
Yeah right!
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You married a white woman. It was your choice. Controlling the race of the boys she dates because you want to show your friends in the nursing homes pictures of nice caucasian children is outside what I would consider to be reasonable.
I THINK THAT YOUR A RASCISTS AND IT IS NOT UP TO YOU TO DECIDE SOMETHING THAT IS ALREADY IN YOUR DAUGHTERS HEART.
ALSO I THINK FOR YOU TO SAY THAT AFTER BLACK CHILDREN CORRUPTED YOU SON, YOU DON'T WANT YOUR DAUGHTER TO ENDURE THE SAME, ACTAULLY YOUR SON WAS ALREADY DISFUNCTIONED[ BLAME YOURSELF
AND BY THE WAY THEIR ARE MORE INTERRACIAL DATING AMONG TEEN THAN EVER.
I THINK YOU NEED TO GET WITH THE PROGRAM , THE SIXTIES ARE OVER
So would u rather a pot head for a grandchlid
(no offense)
Or a future Barrack Obama
so think about it
He Got A Gawjus Tan From His Daddy
And Amazing Eyes From Me!
He's Gonna Be A Heart-Breaker =P
Mixed Rasces MAKE CUTE KIDS!
black guys are waaayyyy hotter than most white guys.
anyway what do you expect? your daughter its blonde with blue/green eyes....the type most guys fall for.
why would you and your wife suport them if she was 18? 13 isnt young nowadays!
I'm not black or white so I don't have a bias, here all right?
Listen to me, damnit! I'm serious.
First off... ignore everything else you just read, and stop going on this f'n internet for advice. Those people are not the ones to take advice from. Me... I'm normal. ;) Okay, just check it out: I understand your whole "purity" thing, believe me, I do. I wanted that for myself (as did my family) at one point. But here's something you gotta understand - we live in a COMPLETELY different time and the best and only thing you can do is just to simply embrace what's going on whether you like it or understand it or what. To be honest, yes, your daughter does see in color (nothing like Disney, okay!) and she is most likely fascinated. You know why? Because blacks and whites alike have been extremely successful at keeping apart for YEARS. Just think back to some radical idea when you were in your youth. would you have given it up for anything? probably not. the thing is, though - this isn't a trend. this is simply a new reality. and soon, your children's children, well they might not see in color. and although it may sadden you to see your white purity fade, when it boils down to it... it doesn't mean anything. there is only one quota, one factor and one meaning to this world and it is happiness. I'm sorry but you cannot cannot cannot fight the times. you'd be better off trying to fight city hall. trust me, sir or lady, it's just going to happen. especially since she's in that mixed school. you know what you need to worry about? not color at all - but what kind of people she's dealing with - and if it happens to be a troublemaking black boy (not a prejudice - it's a fact that many black people are low income and many low income people struggle hard in their youth) well then maybe you should involve said troublemaking black boy in your life and be a positive influence as a white person. help the transition that america is going thru right now and make things smooth for today's youth. because you can't stop it, and you will only hurt your daughter if you become overzealous in fighting this. she's going to do what she does. be a good white man or woman. don't be someone that black people might look at and think is racist. bottom line, free yourself and your daughter from your silly expectations. america is a very different place.