Found out my bf likes scat

I'm finding out my boyfriend likes scat sex. I don't think he likes pooping on each other though. I'm not sure but he wants me to dirty him when having anal. We haven't done this but tried phone sex about it and he came extremely hard, harder than he ever has in his life he said. Why is this turning me on with no flinch of disgust and I'm intensely interested? I knew about this act before meeting him but thought it was gross beyond comprehension. He wants me to anally ride him and push. He also said something about not taking a shower first, and also mentioned wanting to give me a laxative before having anal, or using a dildo on me so he can see everything. What do I make of this and where can it potentially go that I might want to draw some limits on later? He also wants to see me pee. Vote and comments please. Vote on is it normal for someone to turn you onto things you've intensely rejected before. Please if this grosses you out, ignore it. It's a waste reading comments that aren't beneficial to my questions.

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Based on 947 votes (775 yes)
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Comments ( 25 )
  • Maybe your best bet would to create a safe word that either of your could say at any point during sex and neither of you would go any further than that. Also, try to talk about any new ideas prior to trying them out (like you've already done on the phone), just to make sure there are no surprises that could ruin the mood.

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    • Thanks.

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  • kelili

    If you want to give it a try i don't see why you shouldn't. Personally I wouldn't do that but that's not a reason for saying that this shouldn't be done.

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  • VioletTrees

    Look up safety guidelines for scat sex. I am not willing to google this for you, sorry.

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  • Imposturously_yours

    heh, how do you expect us to tell you whether it's normal or not?

    You're the one that's going to deal with shit if you stick around. Your guy's fetish isn't going anywhere and eventually he either gets what he wants from you or somebody else. Also, if you're lucky -he'll just repress it and and compromise.

    No, it's not normal in my opinion. Yes, it's well known and common sexual deviation for certain people.

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  • NeuroNeptunian

    OK seriously, who are these people that think shitting on their partners is normal and which country are they from?

    Not normal, but hell, go for it. Just clean up afterwards.

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    • mazgan

      Germany

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  • This is coming from someone who's also been turned on by scat sex and I would say it's possibly a mixture of sexual frustration, boredom and never rule this one out sexual addiction. I myself am a sex addict and I'm increasingly getting into weirder stuff to get off, ever watched fart porn? I've done that now. My advice would be just be careful, sometimes the things you fantasise about are best left as fantasies. The fart fetish thing was a good experience btw but other things I've done have been very different to how I'd imagined and remember you can't undo things but you can not do them in the first place, something liek thsi could change your relationship and sexual behavior forever so think it through first.

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    • I'm a risk taker with limits. Those limits are trust. I do trust him and I've never had an addictive nature. Maybe it just raises the bar? Women can be very insecure and hung up on a lot of things. They also can be inconsiderate. Somewhere there's a gap I can't quite put my finger on. Very few women notice it; men see it. Do you think if there were a way to undo that then the two could finally see each other as human and get over hang ups about the differences in our anatomy? Maybe what I'm saying makes no sense, but once I get a hunch I have to research. More than likely I probably won't be backing out of this one. Lol! On the flip side though, I think it might be good timing to go learn sex psychology.

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      • Well all i can say is I wish you were my girlfriend lol, 1. I'd like to try having a girl shit on me. 2. I like the fact you're prepared to take risks. 3. I like the fact you love your boyfriend so much you're prepared to explore fetishes with him.

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      • UnabashedUser

        I enjoy water sports with my wife often and get off by watching her pee into a toilet. She loves to have me watch and holds her pussy open and pulses her pee for me and sometimes I pee through her legs onto her clit while she's pissing. As far as scat goes that's not either of our things, but I have watched her take a good solid dump once and it was erotic seeing a turd exit her asshole but that's where the sexiness ended.

        The peeing though can become addictive -- in the shower, in a car park, elevator, side of the road .. it's all hot.

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  • qcbugz

    Well according to the definition of the word 'normal', the original meaning and the currently outstanding one, all kinds of sex fetishes that currently exist today are normal, because as far as we know, humans have had these different kinds of sexual fetishes since the beginning of human civilisation. We currently don't believe it's normal because we're convinced ourselves that 1. it's a primitive act to 'play' with your poop, and 2. anything that isn't done by the majority isn't considered normal. Of course you're going to hear people say it's not normal, but unless they're a philosopher or a psychologist with a major degree, then I suggest not asking regular individuals whether it's normal or not, because the factual answer is that it is, however nearly the whole world (whom have no education on the subject) would love to disagree.

    To summarise, I personally wouldn't do it, and you can if you want, or you don't have to, to answer your question in a non-opinionated viewpoint, yes this is completely normal for a human being to want to do.

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  • Shmendan

    why the fuck is this normal. It`s not fucking normal to take a shit on somebody!

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  • Curious-trans

    Just go for it if its ok with you, just because your not interested doesnt mean you cant go with it, if its something that disgusts you dont, if its just not your thing at least comprise and make it a treat for him

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  • pronepleasure

    "He wants me to anally ride him and push."

    That line right there is my biggest fantasy. I'd love for a girl to do just that. I honestly think this is fine as long as both sides are into it (: But only do it if you really feel comfortable with anal because I'm sure trying to force your poop out while his cock is forcing its way in may be a bit...contradictory to what your body wants.

    And maybe the fact that it's turning you on is because of how happy it makes him? You love him and knowing that you can excite him even more with this may be a great reason as to why you're so accepting! Wish there were more girls like you out there, personally (:

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  • Shameless1

    I've asked this of my woman now she loves it. The idea initially came from a woman who flat out told me " hey I have a fantasy I want to shit on your cock while fucking me in the ass" I was taken back so I asked her to explain she says well I love penetration anally and I also like to release and I would like to cum at the same time. Once she said it she planted a seed in my brain so I'm now very into it. I like to see my girl squirm and push out plus when the poop passes by my dick it feels amazing .. TRY IT

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  • Diaperboy69

    I say do it! then tell us more then do it more then tell us more. go online to motherless.com and the scat categories. watch amateur video by others like you and then go from there. DO IT!

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  • redfastlad

    if youre unsure my advice would be to watch scat sex porn vids on eroprofile together and then say as to whether you are able to do what you see on the vids,my own liking is for a girl to shit on me maybe just on my cock the first time then work up to eating and stuff, the dildo first is good as it brings out the shit from you and anal with you shitting is poss the ultimate sex for me, just watch and learn first then you can set your limits

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  • ThatOneAfricanDude

    Not my proudest bonder, but I must admit I'm recently discovering when I watch porn I'm into anal that's a little dirty, idk it makes the scene look more authentic. But I'm not sure I'd want that to happen to me in real life lol

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  • ccjigsaw

    I say if you're into doing it, give it a shot. Just make it clear to him that you may not want to do this all the time, or even go very far. Basically, make it so he doesn't expect anything. That way if it does get out of hand, you can just say no. I'm assuming if you do this for him it will turn into a once in a while thing. Like a treat when your horney enough to do it for him.

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  • Angel_in_a_Glass_Dress

    if this is something you want to try, then go for it.

    i'd recommend going to the adult store first to get as much information as you can on what to expect and what you might want to do for preparations

    just remember, the biggest thing to do is *COMMUNICATE* with your partner, so the two of you can work out a scenario or sex play that you both find fulfilling

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  • drbishop

    What does scat mean? Is it slang for poop?

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  • flax

    Personally I think it's vile, but if it is something that you are already showing interest in maybe research a little more about it. What it involves directly etc. I am sure there would be forums and such out there that could maybe explain the whole thing to you and help you make up your mind.

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  • mazgan

    fucking sick bitch. if ur okay with pooping on some1's dick i hope u get raped and be used as a toilet. fucking disgusting cunt.

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  • cupcake_wants

    Id b creeped out if my guy was into that

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