I actually want a clingy girlfriend

I want to be loved. But I don't just want to be loved, I want to be a vital, central part of a girl's life. I want to be the most important, essential person to a girl. I want the girl to be my equal, but I also want her to adore me and love me more than life itself.

I want a girl who is clingy and hanging all over me 24/7. I want a girl who loves me so much that she obsesses over me all the time. I want a girl who cares about me and wants me so badly that she would stalk me.

Where can I find a girl like that?

I would return all of her love and affection and attention and treat her like the most precious and valuable person in existence.

I think this may be because I never had a close relationship with a single human being. I'm 18 now. Never got along with family and only aquaintances in school.

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Comments ( 27 )
  • Ribbit.

    Same here, thats exactly what i'm looking for in a girl. Normal, don't let ppl tell you otherwise.

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  • xxxbeautifullybrokenxxx

    U r so totally awesome!!! That is great! I want a relationship like that too! I want to be crazy in love with someone n have them be the same way!

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  • weezygirl420

    I like people to be clingy too :)

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  • barbie310

    Aww I think this is soo cute, how come u dnt have a lady this sounds so romantic awww<3 thumps up me too but I guess we have to wait :,(

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  • :3. your too cute!!!! i just wanna hug you!

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  • Sweetz

    You seem like a very sweet guy :) im sure you'll find a girl. Be careful though, Girls that are too clingy can do some crazy things....

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  • RentingEmotion

    You say this now... But you will change your mind as soon as it happens.

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  • GoraIntoDesiGals

    I want an Indian girl like that.
    Last Indian gf dumped me because I was too clingy and kept mentioning
    how she missed her ex-husband who physically abused her.
    What they say about women who prefer bad boys is unfortunately very true.
    They say they want a caring guy but lose attraction once they found him to the point of wanting an abusive ex back.

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  • ninjaMan357

    i thought the same too... i have that now and i tell ya i wish she aint all clingy like that.. besides she'll do crazy things out jealousy or spite so watch out

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  • RainbowExplosions

    I loveee so much clingy guys! I wish i had one so bad but most guys don't like their girls clingy and it hurts so much. Not that kind of person that stressed every time you talk to the opposite sex though, just someone that wants to be with out always! There's millions of people out there like that in the world :)

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  • sparrowfeed

    i think this is just normal..

    it's called love! although 24/7 is a little too much, to be honest. but i know.. you want that romeo / juliet romance where you both can't live without each other.

    the problem with those, however, is that it is difficult to extract yourself from the situation should something go sour.

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  • 343Boy

    You sound like you would be clingy, so it's only natural you would want a girlfriend who is the same as you.

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  • deepthought33

    You sound pretty clingy yourself. I can be pretty clingy but I've actually been trying to train myself to be less so for the last ten years. I personally want someone who has a balanced amount of clingyness.

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  • jermath35

    I like clingy women :-) it's nice when they would do anything for u

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  • Lemonymelon

    And "sometimes" is okay, but he wants space BECAUSE I feel the way you described. But I love him so much so I let him go but then I just feel so lonely and sad without him.

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  • Lemonymelon

    That's how I feel about my boyfriend but he doesn't like it! He wants space sometimes! :(

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  • Piffsburgh420

    I love clingy women, they turn me on.

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  • jamesmitchell29486

    i am just like u.

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  • Thatguy777

    I think it's normal if it doesn't get too bad. Everyone loves to feel loved, and people who have gone their whole lives without a meaningful relationship really want a clingy girlfriend/boyfriend because it assures them that someone actually loves them. I feel you completely.

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  • seabird_71

    It sounds like you want someone to worship you. I don't necessarily think that that is entirely healthy for a relationship, but hey - to each his own. I'm a girl and I actually like having a clingy boyfriend. There's absolutely nothing wrong with that because I know I can be a tad clingy too.

    But perhaps there can be such a thing as too clingy? I'd hate to see what that's like though.

    Hope you find what you're looking for! :)

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  • I would like it .. but I dont want her to kill me if I just talk to other girls.. you know?

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  • Ratso

    I like clingy over possesive/ protective guys. But I'm pretty clingy myself.

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  • yourface

    yeah this is pretty normal in a "proper" relationship.

    it will happen!

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  • Normal but I think you might get tired of it after awhile. Not being in love, but of the clinginess. That's really sweet though (:

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  • nutellapiza

    i cant be clingy or even try to be, i almost don't even remember how anymore because ive built major trust issues.
    make the girl most comfortable and she'll cling

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  • whatsthatruckus

    Normal - Same here

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  • Echoes

    Dude, be careful what you wish for. I hope if your wish is ever granted, she won't kill you over merely talking to a female cashier at the mall.

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