Is it normal that my boyfriend likes to rub me...?

Well this is embarrassing to say but my boyfriend likes to rub me down there through my panties while I'm trying to sleep. I usually sleep on my left side so we spoon most of the time. He says it helps him sleep. I think it's a weird habit.

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Comments ( 41 )
  • VioletTrees

    If you don't like it, tell him to stop.

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    • Relax, he's not a rapist.......yet.

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      • VioletTrees

        I didn't say he was, I just think if you don't like the way somebody is touching you, you should ask them to stop. It's not that complicated?

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        • No, it's really complicated and difficult, you have no idea what you're talking about. You must be crazy.

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          • TheTraveller

            No, it really is a simple thing: "hey honey can you not do that right now? I'm trying to sleep and I have to get up early." See? Easy. If the dude doesn't listen or respect said wishes, then he has some serious personal space issues that needs to be addressed.

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            • My comments on this post were VERY clearly sarcastic jokes. I cannot believe that you didn't get that, and further, are so stupid that you just wrote that response.

              You responded in another post to one of my comments with the articulation of a 9 year old, and yet you think you've got a point to make.

              You are not worthy of speaking to the great cat. The only users/questions I reply to with "serious" answers are those worth my time and comprehensive intellect.

              The intelligence of some people at IIN is going downhill and it saddens me greatly.

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      • topper33

        lol thats true

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  • CheyChey

    What's wrong with a little sleepy time lovin'

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    • Agreed.

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  • NeuroNeptunian

    My husband does not do that because when I am woken up in a surprising or unpleasant manner, I get fucking pissed. When my boyfriends did do this, I'd fucking yell at them without realizing it. If you don't like it, then tell him to stop. It would annoy he living hell out of me. Let me sleep, motherfucker.

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  • flax

    My hubby grabs hold of my boob. No kidding in 2 mins he'll be snoring his head off...weird

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  • Gelmurag

    I don't think I could date a girl who wouldn't let me do that...

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  • Ghost121

    Let the guy enjoy himself, no harm in it, is there?

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    • spidercrowblaze18762

      Exactly!

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  • Angel_in_a_Glass_Dress

    You need to start engaging in a VERY adult practice with him that's extremely risky.

    It's called "Communication"

    You need to decide if you want him rubbing your genitals when you're trying to sleep or not.

    If you like it then carry on. If you don't like it, then tell him - even if he has an excuse to try to keep on doing it.

    Part of love is respecting your partner's wishes when they say "stop it".

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  • quentari

    If he's disturbing your sleeping, then no. Not normal. Not okay. If he's doing it to try and turn you on so you'll have sex with him then maybe you should tell him there's an easier way?

    either way, if your trying to sleep and he's rubbing you like that that's annoying at he very least. You will need to tell him to stop BECAUSE it's keeping you awake.

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  • Crazystupidguy

    It is normal for a guy to want to touch his girl there. Have you touched his weiner? That gives guys an "ok to touch" signal. If it bothers you, just tell him nicely.

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  • derpyderp

    If you don't like it talk to him about it. Tell him you don't mind but it's disturbing your sleep...

    I'm a bit like your BF though that I can be very touchy-feely even when I'm not trying to get sex.
    I just love the feel of a girls body & last thing at night/first thing in the morning is normally a sensual time

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  • Mmmpfh

    He's horny and he's hoping for action. :]

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  • thestocker

    it would be even more normal if he did it to strangers

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  • Avant-Garde

    Tell him to stop since you don't like it. I'm sure if he needed help to sleep, rubbing on himself would do the trick.

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  • What'sright

    I have waken my wife up in the middle of the night with my tongue between her legs. So yes, I would say it is completely normal.

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  • spidercrowblaze18762

    Wats ur problem?! Let him do it, he likes to, every boy likes to kiss and rub to his girl's pussy, as What'sright is sayin, i do the same as he does, i just stick up my tongue inside my girlfriend's pussy while she is sleeping, she does not bother at all, in fact she enjoys it like shit, even if i wake her up from her sleep while doing it! Then why dont u BITCH??!!

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  • Beatnik23

    I've had this done to me. I don't think it's weird, but it can be very annoying.

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  • Lady.Pemberlie

    I hope there's chastity panties made of stainless steel. Cool metal would make his shrink.

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  • UhhhOK

    Seems normal

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  • Navysealdude416

    When me and my gurl go to bead i hold and play with her boobs. But not her pussy she would get pissed. When she wants me to stop she will simply move my hands and its all good thats what you should do to him

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  • MiaScarlette.

    Thats cute.

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  • SexyPup42

    I think its normal because my gf can't fall asleep without 1 of his hands touching my naked ass or tits

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  • Angycohen123

    It is normal I love it when Gus do it to me and the thing is Jen ur boyfriend runs u an odour comes. Out and that odour is what men love they die for the pussy odour I dot no why but they just don when u CUM that makes them more attracted to u

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  • pamEla97

    Its normal even when u are goin to sleep cuz when its dark and you all are ib bed then it gets tempting . Im a female and personally , id get turned on and id just get on him and start fukkin him untill we get tired or id let him do what he wants until he falls asleep

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  • sweeie

    he's just obsessed with ur pussy, lol - normal.
    but not when u wanna sleep, lol

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  • eric07

    I'm guilty of doing this to my gf lol
    While she watching tv, sleeping or we are just cuddling after intimate sessions.
    She says I'm good with my hands and her eyes rolling back in her head don't lie.
    I think it's normal for guys to do it.
    I do it because I know my gf loves it. Your bf may think the same, or he enjoys pleasuring you.

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  • vikarr

    it is not normal if he doesnt do that..

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  • Terence_the_viking

    no worries it's all good. isn't it a good thing that he still finds you sexually attractive?

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    • vikarr

      still? she is just 19 ! :) :)

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  • topper33

    how old are you and him?

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    • I'm 19 and he's 20

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      • topper33

        im sure you make a great looking couple

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      • Abnormalgirl

        Aask him has he ever done this to any otjer girla

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