My boyfriend is disrespectful to me.

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is it normal for a boyfriend of 17 months whom you are in love with to basically talk shit to you like its no big deal EVERY day?
my boyfriend is an asshole sometimes. im not perfect and i do stupid shit too but i hate being disrespected like that. he will call me a dumb bitch, a slut, a stupid cunt, a dumbass, the list goes on.
men, what do you think of this?
and ladies, what would you do if your man was like this to you?

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  • CountryRoads
    13 years ago | pl

    Real men don't disrespect women. Boys with issues do.

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  • splitchick
    13 years ago

    I'm pretty sure the best thing too do is leave, but I'm in a relationship I should get out of so I'm not much help :(

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  • the_officer
    13 years ago

    No boyfriend or husband should treat his girlfriend or wife like that. I'd never dream of being so disrespectful to a woman. He obviously has issues! XxX

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  • aussiewolf
    13 years ago

    well its pretty obvious what you need to do, break up with him and find a guy who respects you.

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  • animalcracker
    13 years ago

    wow and then u girls are whining about how every guy is an asshole, cuz u pick the "Baddest" looking one. Pathetic

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  • bigguy2010
    13 years ago

    He talks to you like that, and you call him your boyfriend? Drop that boy like a wet sack of potatoes.

    Yes, I referred to him as a boy because a man would treat his girlfriend/wife as a princess, a partner, a best friend, and... Ah, you get the picture.

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  • alv1592
    13 years ago

    seriously? get out of there..u don't deserve that. he's obviously no good.

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  • [Old Memory]
    13 years ago

    Why the hell are you even asking? And how have you lasted for so long? BREAK UP WITH HIM YOU FUDGING TOOL!

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  • blndgrl18
    13 years ago

    first of all, no girl deserves that. i'm sure you don't speak to him that way, so why should he speak to you that way. my boyfriend can be a really really really big asshole, but he has never called me a bitch, cunt, stupid, whore, etc...he called me a bitch once when we got into a really big argument, but i bet he never does it again. leaveeeee him.

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  • so_damn_unpretty
    13 years ago

    honestly, if he's perfect in every other way i would deal with the abuse. i would just say he has some anger issues and take it as part of his chemical make up. do address it though and tell him to work on it, if the outburst continues but you can see he's making a legitimate effort than so be it.

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  • Zonfire80
    5 years ago

    Mommy issues perhaps

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  • Yessyrox
    7 years ago

    Not normal he is trying to belittle you to try to control you . Trust me I just broke up with a 24 year old guy . I'm 28 years old and I know how a women should be treated step to my level or step out of my way. And yes I spoke to him so many times but it's just him . That's who he is paranoid and controlling. It will get worse over time till you guys are each other and they always come back you have to stay strong and walk away.

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  • yourbro
    9 years ago

    I call bs... Two sides to every story.. I would be willing to bet this girl has a serious anger problem too and she provokes and belittles this angry boyfriend and the end result is a screaming match by both parties... Both parties name calling and both disfunctional.. The fact she has made it appear totally one sided, just proves this is a wopper.

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  • HoneyBadgerChic
    9 years ago

    Leave now! Before shit gets really bad, it's a never ending horrible cycle that too many women go through, Please leave NOW.

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  • lucifersclitoris
    9 years ago

    Tell him to stop and put him in his fucking place. You may screw up from time to time but thats no reason for him to call you a stupid cunt. That is absolutely ridiculous. Leave him because he is a waste of time, and if you let him treat you like trash, he will think its okay and do the same to the next girl who comes along.

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  • Rebby
    10 years ago

    i don't think it's normal bc im in the same situation right now and i know exactly how you feel. I just had an argument with my bf yesterday and it was horrible. He called me a cunt bitch and all the disrespectful names too. It's okay girl,im here for ya.

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  • lol1055
    10 years ago

    com'n, its funny, he doesn't really mean it my boyfriend calls me a bitch cunt whore slut all the time its funny and talks dirty in private and public hes just trying to be funny, lighten up btw i'm a gay bottom

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  • la_uva_mojada
    11 years ago

    He does that bcuz u let him. stick up for yourself or leave him! dont be his punching bag!!!

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  • kitty_123
    11 years ago

    he dont diserve you. he should respect you if not. you should break up with his ass. be like heeey i dont need your bs leave me the fresken slone okay my nigga.

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  • mailmenidhi6
    13 years ago

    he can never be ur boyfriend or any another girl.

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  • McFisticuffs
    13 years ago

    The man's a saint.

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  • [Old Memory]
    12 years ago

    If he's serious about it , leave him. First tell if stop and see if he does

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  • howaminotmyself
    13 years ago

    He wouldn't be my man if he spoke to me in this manner. I don't think I could even be his friend.

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  • smashingpumpkinator
    13 years ago

    you should never accept that crap from someone.. next thing yah no you're believing it and feeling shitty and depressed. ive ben there, trust me, its not worth it. of course you can always mention he change and see if he will before you totally let him go.

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  • chewy
    13 years ago

    no no no no you people have it all wrong breaking up isnt the answer to everything just talk to him about it and kick some sense into him and if he doesnt stop then break up with this idiot im sure you deserve something better if you were my girlfriend i would treat you like a queen :)

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  • oneonone
    13 years ago

    May be you like it and that's why your with the dum fucker still. Or you really are stupid. If your not dump him before he beats you up.

    I tell you this for your own goog

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  • Treynine
    13 years ago

    I don't know you but I can tell you that you deserve better

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  • sparrowfeed
    13 years ago

    OMG

    are you fucking serious?

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    • sparrowfeed
      13 years ago

      what is he, like a fucking redneck??

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